Grade 8 Topic 7

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Grade 8 Topic 7

• Sexual Assault

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What is sexual assault?
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Sexual Assault is

• A Criminal Offense
• Forced and Unconsented
• Kissing
• Touching (fondling)
• Oral sex
• Vaginal intercourse
• Anal intercourse

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Research shows that

• Using alcohol and drugs was often a factor
• Many had been raped by someone they knew
• Most males do not believe that they committed a
  crime
• Some victims confide in a friend but most did not
  inform parents, police or sexual assault centre
• Many victims blame themselves

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After a sexual assault..

• Tell someone
• Do NOT shower or bathe
• Call Sexual Assault Treatment Centre

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Consent is

• Based on choice
• Saying yes clearly
• Possible only when there is equal power

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• Giving in because of fear is NOT consent
• Giving in because of pressure is NOT consent

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What are the danger signals?

• Pressuring for sex
• If you loved me, you would.
• Trying to make you feel bad or guilty
• Dont you like me?
• Blackmail
• If you dont, Ill tell everyone you did
  anyway.

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What are the danger signals?

• Thinks sex is a right no matter what
• Weve had sex before so you cant say NO now.
• Doesnt take NO for an answer
• You cant say NO because I spent all that money
  on you.
• You really want it. Youre just saying NO to
  protect your reputation.

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What do you think?

• True or False?

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True or False?

• Rape and sex are the same thing.
• False

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True or False?

• 2. Date rape is usually planned.
• False

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True or False?

• 3. Women ask for it by how they
• dress or act.
• False

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True or False?

• 4. Most women enjoy sexual assault or they like
  rough sex.
• False

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True or False?

• 5. Women secretly wish to be sexually assaulted.
• False

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True or False?

• 6. Only young, attractive women are
• raped.
• False

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True or False?

• 7. Most sexual assaults are reported
• to police.
• False

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True or False?

• 8. Boys are not usually sexually assaulted.
• False

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True or False?

• 9. Sexual assault removes freedom of sexual
  choice from the victim.
• True

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True or False?

• 10. A person who says no really wants to be
  talked into sexual activity.
• False

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True or False?

• 11. Decide your sexual limit before you are
• in a pressure situation.
• True

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True or False?

• 12. If you have been forced beyond your sexual
  limit, you have been assaulted.
• True

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True or False?

• 13. 85 of women who have been raped know their
  attacker.
• True

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True or False?

• 14. 25 of rapes happen on a date.
• False

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True or False?

• 15. If a man spends money on a date by buying a
  woman dinner or drinks or gives her a present,
  she then owes him sex.
• False

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What is Sexual Harassment?
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• What is the difference between
• Flirting
• Sexual Harassment
• Sexual Assault
• ???

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See what you think
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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• John tells a group of girls to stop calling him
  at home, but they keep calling.

• Harassment

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• Mike stares at Latasha non-stop during class.

• Harassment

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• Teresa winks at Jose.

• Flirting

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• Amelia loves wearing sexy clothes. Rob writes
  slut on her locker.

• Harassment

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• Susan meets Jack at a party. She wants to leave
  but he pins her arms and kisses her.

• Assault

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• Whenever Cecilia walks by, Lorrie calls her a
  dyke.

• Harassment

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• When talking, Enrique touches Shamikas arm.

• Flirting

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• In a crowded hallway, Matt grabs Dianes breast.

• Assault

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• Manuel sends Jenee flowers.

• Flirting

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Flirting, Harassment, or Assault?

• Robert and Matt show a sexual cartoon to Kim in
  class. She tells them to stop and they do.

• Flirting

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Guidelines for Dating
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Dating Guidelines

• Share in decisions.
• Dates should be in public places.
• Set limits early in a relationship.
• Keep alcohol and drugs out of the picture.
• Respect your partners no.
• Be prepared for sexual pressure.
• Talk with your family about a ride home if
  needed.
• If assaultedtell someone.