How To Stay Composed When You’re Not Invited?

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How To Stay Composed When Youre Not Invited?

• Let me ask you a question upfront, have your ever
  expected an invite and have never received it?
  Yes then, we are sure you must have felt deeply
  hurt and betrayed just like most of us. What have
  you done in such a case? Probably, you must have
  stopped talking to the person altogether or you
  must have shown an aggressive behaviour towards
  that person or you must have done the same with
  him/her. Well no matter what you have done in the
  past, here are some quirky ways to deal the
  situation when youre not invited to a friends
  wedding or party.

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Its Not Personal

• Any kind of celebration, be it a wedding, a
  birthday party or any other kind of party calls
  for a lot and lots of preparation and
  arrangements. In some cases, it happens that the
  host gets too involved in all this and forget
  some people by mistake. May be, you are the one
  to suffer their mistake but, it was never too
  personal.

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Stay Away From All This

• There are lots of people who gets highly pissed
  off if they are not invited and in this anger,
  they keep poking the couple or their friend to
  seek an invite or explanation but, in place of
  doing this, we would suggest you to focus your
  energy on something more constructive and
  innovative. You always have an option to ask
  things out later.

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Social Media Can Be Pain

• For most of the people social media is a boon
  that keeps them update with all the latest
  happenings of their close friends and relatives
  but, when you are not invited to someones
  Wedding Celebration, the very same update
  mechanism turns into a huge pain as it keeps
  reminding you that you could have been a part of
  these glamorous pictures too.

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Vent Out

• Keeping things to your heart makes you simply
  annoyed and you would become revengeful but, once
  you vent out your anger and frustration, you
  become relaxed. When you are not invited to a
  party, we would suggest you to vent out your
  anger to someone else. You can either vent out
  the frustration in front the culprit or to some
  other close friend of yours.

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Try To Understand

• Okay, this is something that not everyone could
  understand but, it is really advisable to know if
  the other person has invited each and everyone to
  their wedding or party or there is only a
  selection of people being invited. We would
  recommend you to figure out the reason why you
  are not invited to the celebration in place of
  getting frustrated. Once, you understand the real
  logic, we are sure you would feel relaxed.

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About the author

• Saurabh Agarwal
• Saurabh Agarwal is the co-founder of
  A2zWeddingCards. With his years of experience in
  wedding card designing, he excels in writing
  exclusive wedding related blogs. His website is a
  splendid space for latest wedding invitations
  designs and ideas. He is highly devoted and
  amorous for the work he performs. With his
  remarkable work in the industry, he continues to
  be a palpable wedding columnist with an
  incredible and prodigious writing talent