Title: ABMP Student Success Curriculum
1ABMP Student Success Curriculum
22. Goals of This Lecture
- Vision a positive massage future.
- Identify fears, doubts, and challenges.
- Understand attitudes, behaviors, and actions that
lead to student success.
33. Life Vision
- Benefits. Understand
- Who you are
- What you value
- What gives life meaning
- How past relationships events influence todays
choices
44. Exploring the Past
- Understand how family, friends, and events
influence us today (Worksheet 1-1, page 5). - Relationship to family and friends
- Past achievements
- Relationship to education
- Turning points
55. Exploring the Past Groups
- Describe one habit, belief, or behavior that you
learned from an important friend or family
member. - Describe one important past achievement and
explain how this event influences the person you
are today. - Describe the level of commitment and attitudes
you have brought to your education so far. What
do you plan to do to ensure this education
experience is positive and successful?
66. Begin to Vision
- A clearly defined vision is easier to achieve
than an undefined vision. - Start Visioning! (Worksheet 1-2)
- Values
- Personal Passions
- What Has Meaning?
77. Begin to Vision Groups
- Describe one thing that holds great meaning for
you and explain how this influences your
behaviors and choices. - Describe what a meaningful future would be like.
Who are the people you want in your life? What
types of activities do you participate in? Where
will you live? What will your work be like?
88. What is a Positive Education Experience?
- What student qualities contribute to academic
success (excluding intellectual ability)?
- What are the characteristics of a positive
educational experience?
Complete Worksheet 1-3
99. Who do you want to be as a student?
- Describe what you would like your massage school
experience to be like. - Discuss the behaviors, attitudes, or beliefs you
are willing to change in order to achieve the
vision you described above.
1010. Break!
1111. Overcoming Fears Doubts
- Massage Students
- Numerous responsibilities
- Commitments to family
- Full-time job
- Social life
- Anxiety about fitting in,
getting good grades,
keeping up with homework
1212. Understanding Fear
- Real fears
- Strong basis in reality promote good choices
- Imagined fears
- Things we cant control but get worked up about
anyway - Worry
- Low level negative self-talk and projection of
negative outcomes
1313. Overcoming Real Fears
- Acknowledge the fear.
- Brainstorm.
- Plan.
- Discuss.
- Take action.
- A solution can be found if the goal is important.
1414. Overcoming Imagined Fears
- Common imagined fears
- Fear of rejection
- Fear of failure
- Fear of commitment
- Fear of losing a job
- A form of self-defeating behavior
1515. Overcoming Worry
- Worry can deplete the energy you have to devote
to your studies - Example Susan the Quiz
- Susan allowed worry to sidetrack her and she
failed the quiz as a result.
1616. Question Fears Doubts
- Page 12
- How long have I had this fear?
- How are past or current actions explained by this
fear? - In what way does this fear disable me?
- What new behaviors do I need to cultivate in
order to confront or overcome this fear? - How willing am I to put time and effort into
overcoming this fear? - What has helped me work through fears in the past
and how can I use those lessons now?
1717. Worksheet 1-4
- Complete the Resilience Assessment on page 13.
1818. Adversity Life Stresses
- Common Adversity
- Little time for self
- Too little sleep
- Stressful deadlines
- Challenging classes
- Interpersonal conflicts
- Work conflicts
- Extreme Adversity
- Loss of a job
- Death of a loved one
- Divorce
- Financial challenges
- Serious illness of self or family
1919. Self-Awareness is Key to Resilience
- Characteristics
- Acknowledge peoples feelings
- Show empathy
- Promote collaboration
- Values other peoples ideas
- Control internal emotional states
- Demonstrate resourcefulness
- Be motivated
- Remain positive
- Achieve goals
- Self-Awareness Defined
- The ability to reflect on ones own feelings and
to use this information to make choices and take
action.
2020. Resilience
- The ability to thrive in challenging situations.
Resilient people - Set goals that are meaningful.
- Are not dissuaded by the first obstacle.
- Assesses choices make changes (adapt).
- Solve problems avoid blaming others.
- Find humor in trying situations.
2121. Build Resilience
- Evaluate areas that need improvement using
worksheet 1-4 - Build trusting relationships
- Build autonomy self-awareness
- Build initiative industry
2222. Model the Skills You Want to Cultivate
- Common to model primary caregiver when child.
- What are the behaviors for the skills you want to
learn? - Example What are the behaviors of confidence?
2323. Support from Family Friends
- Who will be most impacted by your decision to
start school? Why? - How might these people distract you from school
or get in the way of school? - How could these people best support your
educational experience? Have you asked for the
support you need? - How might you involve friends family in your
educational experience in a positive way?
2424. Transition Successfully
- Strategies for Students
- Who are recent high-school graduates
- With children
- With significant others
- With friends family
- With jobs
2525. Breathe!
- Congratulations! You just prepared mentally to
overcome challenges! - You now have the skills you need to transition
successfully into massage school life. - Your vision of yourself as a student and as a
professional is home.
26ABMP Student Success Curriculum
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