Title: Expectations To Date a Woman
1The Woman Seeking True Love
Listening skill Try to enhance your listening
skill, It is not effective in dating but in
normal conversation as well. People like to talk
with the people, who listen to others. By
improving your listening skill, you would perform
well in dating. On the other hand, when you will
listen to her, she will feel closeness. She will
find you as a reliable and empathetic
personality. Therefore, always try to work on
improving your listening skill so that you can
grab every opportunity of dating well.Self
confidence At the time of making conversation
self confidence also plays important role. Try to
keep on your self-confidence while talking with
others.
2The Woman Seeking True Love
Dating? What is it? Why is it so confusing?
Dating is a form of courtship that focuses mostly
on social activities between two people for the
sole reason of accessing whether they are
suitable for each other as an intimate partner or
potential mate. Dating as an institution is a
relatively recent phenomenon which emerged in the
last few centuries.During the Middle Ages in
Europe, weddings were seen as business
arrangements between families. While romance was
something that happened before and outside of
marriage, discreetly in covert meetings. Can you
imagine being in a loveless marriage that was a
business transaction? The only way that people
were able to pursue love and intimacy was by
having affairs. A 12th-century book, The Art of
Courtly Love, advised that "True love can have no
place between husband and wife".
3The Woman Seeking True Love
Dating is two people together in public,
exploring if they should become romantically
involved. Each person is in chorus evaluating the
other as a possible future partner, and at the
same time is being evaluated. Dating is
stressful. Some of what happens on a date is
guided by a mutual understanding of societies
rules. In my opinion, dating becomes scary
because of a set of mythological rules from our
reptilian brains and how its effect on our
emotions. Dating is not based on logic. It turns
smart successful people into confused bumbling
idiots.
4The Woman Seeking True Love
What is dating anyway? Why does it catch us off
guard? Why do we have all of these EX Factor
Guidenegative conversations surrounding dating,
most of which we make up in our heads? What is it
that has so many people confused, frightened and
upset? I'll tell you what I think. It's because
we are all trying very hard to avoid the
experience of being vulnerable. We do not want to
be responsible for what we really want in
relationship and we have a fear of rejection.We
believe that being vulnerable is a weakness, when
being vulnerable is actually one of our
strengths. Being vulnerable allows us to be
truthful with ourselves and our feelings.
Vulnerability does not operate on the side of
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