Five Love Languages

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Five Love Languages
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Maslows Hierarchy of Needs(Read chart from
Bottom Up)
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Five Love Languages

• Based on
• The Five Love Languages
• Gary Chapman . Ph.D.
• (used with permission by author)
• The Five Love Languages of Children
• Gary Chapman
• Ross Campbell M.D.

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• Love is the basic emotional need.
• Our emotional
• Love Tank
• needs to be filled

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• Emotional foundation is laid in first 18 months
  of life.

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• Receiving love and learning to give love is the
  soil of which all positive human endeavors grow.

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• Your child like a flower will benefit from your
  love. When the Water of Love is given, your
  child will bloom and bless the world with beauty.
  
• Without love,
• he/she will become
• a wilted flower
• begging for water.

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• Our dreams before marriage are marital
  bliss.Its hard to believe anything else when
  you are in love.

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• The in-love experience does not focus on
• Our growth nor
• Other persons growth or development
• Rather, it gives us the sense that we have
  arrived.

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• Unconditional love is a Guiding Light that
  illuminates the darkness.

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Observe
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Love Language 1

• Words of Affirmation
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• Watch your tone of voice
• A soft answer turns away anger
• -- Ancient Sage

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• Words of affection endearment, praise,
  encouragement and positive guidance are like a
  gentle warm rain falling on the soul
• they
  nurture our
  sense of worth and
  security.

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• Harsh words and deeds are like a killing frost
  The sun will come out again, but the damage is
  already done.

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Love Language 2

• Quality of Time
• Focused attention
• Maintain eye contact
• Listen for feelings
• Observe body language
• Refuse to interrupt

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• AT WORK, many of us are trained to analyze
  problems and create solutions
• AT HOME --
• We forget that marriage is a relationship, Not a
  project to be completed or a problem to solve.
• Children dont care how much you know, until
  they know how much you care.

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Listen Like A Teddy Bear

• Learn to listen like a teddy bear,
• With ears open and mouth closed tight,
• Learn to forgive like a teddy bear,
• With heart open, not caring who is right.
• Learn to love like a teddy bear
• With arms open and
• imperfect sight
• Sarah McClellan

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• Quality time creates a Memory Bank of Love
• (will draw upon in a crisis)

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Love Language 3

• Receiving
• Gifts

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• The heart of
  love is the
  
  
  
  Spirit of
  Giving

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• Physical presence can be the most powerful gift
  you can give.

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Love Language 4

• Acts of Service

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• When we demonstrate acts of service
• .. it teaches our children to serve others
  with compassion and genuine love

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• Requests give the directions to love -- but
  demands stop the flow of love

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Family Hospitality a Treasure
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Love Language 5

• Appropriate Physical Touch
• Hugging
• Touching
• Rough-housing on floor

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• Whatever there is of me resides in my body. To
  touch my body is to touch me.
• To withdraw from by body is to distance yourself
  from me emotionally.

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• The sharing of thoughts and feelings is the
  fabric of which life is made.

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Lessons Learned.

• Observe your children/spouse
• Watch how they express love. This is a clue to
  their Love Language

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Resources

• Five Love Languages
• Gary Chapman,
• Northfield Press, Chicago
• Five Love Languages of Children
• Gary Chapman and
• Ross Campbell, M.D.,
• Moody Press, Chicago