RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR

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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
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What causes fights and quarrels among you?
Dont they come from your desires that battle
within you? You want something but you dont get
it. James 41
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
The desire to POSSESS
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
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The desire to POSSESS The desire for PLEASURE
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
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The desire to POSSESS The desire for PLEASURE The
desire to elevate or maintain PRIDE
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
3 TALK
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Speak the truth in love . . . Ephesians 415 25
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
3 TALK
4 NO MIND READING
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I care very little if I am judged by you or by
any human court indeed, I do not even judge
myself.  My conscience is clear, but that does
not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges
me.  Therefore judge nothing before the appointed
time wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to
light what is hidden in darkness and will expose
the motives of the heart. At that time each will
receive their praise from God. 1 Corinthians 43-5
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
3 TALK
4 NO MIND READING
5 STAY CALM CONTROLLED
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A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh
word stirs up anger. Proverbs 151
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
3 TALK
4 NO MIND READING
5 STAY CALM CONTROLLED
6 NO HISTORY LESSONS
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Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger,
brawling and slander, along with every form of
malice. Be kind and compassionate to each other
forgiving each other just as in Christ God
forgave you. Ephesians 431
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
3 TALK
4 NO MIND READING
5 STAY CALM CONTROLLED
6 NO HISTORY LESSONS
7 NO LABELLING
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
3 TALK
4 NO MIND READING
5 STAY CALM CONTROLLED
6 NO HISTORY LESSONS
7 NO LABELLING
8 GIVE POSITIVE STROKES
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Be kind and compassionate to one another . .
. Ephesians 432
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
3 TALK
4 NO MIND READING
5 STAY CALM CONTROLLED
6 NO HISTORY LESSONS
7 NO LABELLING
8 GIVE POSITIVE STROKES
9 FORGIVE
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Forgive each other just as in Christ God forgave
you. Ephesians 432
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RULES FOR FIGHTING FAIR
1 REALIZE WHY
2 FIX THE PROBLEM NOT THE BLAME
3 TALK
4 NO MIND READING
5 STAY CALM CONTROLLED
6 NO HISTORY LESSONS
7 NO LABELLING
8 GIVE POSITIVE STROKES
9 FORGIVE
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