10 Tips for Approaching Women in Public Places

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• When you see a gorgeous woman, you have about 5
  seconds to come across as either creepy and
  intimidating or attractive and mysterious.
• And the difference between the two is all in the
  approach.
• Im Renee Slansky with The Attractive Man, and
  today I will give you 10 tips for approaching
  women in public so that you know if and when to
  approach her and how to come across as confident
  and desirable at the same time.

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• Im a professional dating and relationship
  coach, and Im here to help men like yourself
  understand women and become a more confident man.
• So, lets talk about approaching women in public
  places. There is always a fine line between
  looking like a stalker and causing her to want to
  run away and looking like an alpha male who knows
  what he wants and isnt afraid to get it.

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• The truth is, majority of the time we as women
  do want men to approach us, because it made us
  feel more attractive and singled out, however,
  there are also sometimes when we are sending off
  apparent signals not to come near, and to be
  frank it really turns us off when you ignore them
  and push your agenda on us.

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• But its not to say that you cant change our
  mind, so what I will do is break down the whole
  process for you and give you my top 10 tips to
  know when and if to approach us , how to turn the
  situation around so that we feel comfortable in
  your presence and of course how to set the right
  impression so that we feel safe and interested in
  who you are.

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Lets jump in!

• 1 Assess the environment is she busy or with
  a bunch of girlfriends? Is she wearing a wedding
  ring? Does she look intoxicated or is she focused
  on something else important?
• 2 What is her body language saying Does she
  have her arms or legs crossed? Is she looking
  around, does she look anxious or guarded?

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• 3 Make your presence known without approaching
  her- Let her see you in her peripheral vision and
  get her subconscious associated that you are in
  her presence. Then move in and out of her line of
  sight without actually speaking or looking at
  her.
• 4 Catch her eye and smile Test to see if she
  notices you with a smile or eye contact. Dont
  hold eye contact for longer than a few seconds.
  See what her response is after you have caught
  her eye. What do her reaction and body language
  say?

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• 5 Pick a feature or detail to focus on and
  compliment us If you are going to approach her,
  have something in mind to talk about in a way to
  compliment her, but do not make it anything
  sexual. The smaller the detail the better as it
  shows you pay attention to the little things.
• 6 Never approach from behind Its creepy and
  doesnt make us feel safe, plus it feels
  deceptive. Approach from the front or side so she
  can see you and your confidence.

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• 7 Approach with a smile- A small genuine smile,
  not a huge cheesy or sleazy one. Stay natural and
  look like you are happy to see us, almost like we
  are an old friend.
• 8 Have relaxed body language and keep a distance
  between you both Coming on too intense or too
  close will make us want to back off and put up
  walls. Keep at least a meter apart from her and
  try to keep your body relaxed. (Not crossing arms
  in front of chest or hands on hips.) You can come
  across as a confident alpha male without coming
  across as overbearing.

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• 9 Dont be so serious make her laugh- If you
  want to impress a woman and make her feel at
  ease, then the key is to get her to laugh. It
  doesnt mean you have to have jokes up your
  sleeve, but rather just dont take the
  conversation so seriously and look for an opening
  where you can make a comment that makes you both
  relate and laugh about it. Again compliments
  should be on the details, not sexual zones, ie,
  bum, boobs or lips.

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• 10 Ask questions but listen more than you speak
  Giving her your undivided attention (meaning
  not looking at your phone, around the room or
  other women) makes her feel special. Show her
  your interest by asking about her and then
  actively listening (portray this through your
  body language) affirm what she is saying, dont
  agree with everything and leave some mystery
  about yourself

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• Your approach is the beginning of initiating
  anything with a woman, hence why it can either
  seal your fate or open up limitless
  opportunities. Master the approach and give a
  great first impression, while minimizing
  rejection.
• But of course you have to have a conversation
  with her, so if you havent already downloaded
  our free conversation cheat sheet then click on
  the image below, right now!