Basic Equally yoked Relationships - Love - Soulmate -

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Basic Relationships
Name is witheld by Request Soc.Psy.222 September
11th, 2001

• Definitions
• Concepts
• Perspectives
• Q/A - Homework

Social Psychology 222
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Hook Up

• Cultural/Casual
• A specific time when two people meet to join in
  together- for a mutual event, or,
• Two individuals from diverse backgrounds form a
  cheap/easy intimate relationship, or...
• An epiphany moment-a time- when a certain couple
  are shaking hands and discover that they are
  equallyoked.

- Slang Dictionary/Urban Words
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Morality 

• ..Morality.. (morals)
• .is a valuable personal code, based on..
• a set of spiritual values, that
• ....affects attitudes, motives, and there for..
• ..effecting an individuals trademans skills,
  appropriateness of behavioral patterns, and the
  upholding ethical and legal societal standards.

- Word Meanings / Philosophy
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Positive Regard

• Also, unconditional positive regard 
• Means a complete acceptance, love, favor
  towards of an individual especially those who
  are equallyoked, also...
• parents who devotedly and deliberately
  indoctrinate their children with a clear sense
  of civil identity in a multicultural society
  with respect for the childs future have a
  positive regard for their child.

- Word Meanings / Psychology
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Soul-mates

• A couple who experience their very first sexual
  encounter together and their baby is born out of
  that union are Soul-mates1 and,..
• ..a couple who bond with each other, falls deeply
  in love and is the happiest they have ever been
  in their entire lives-with each other are
  Soul-mates2 and,
• ..a couple who are married and truly
  equallyoked i.e., of the same or very
  similar civil-identities. 3 are Soul-mates.

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
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Endogamy

• Endogamy means, In-marriage and is when an
  individual according to his/or her own social
  customs1(Comment this may be more like
  community health-as a social mores or an actual
  religious law).
• .marries another individual within his or her
  own cultural2 Social group.
• Note a Social group may be a village, a
  tribe, a sect or cult, a geographic region, or a
  de facto Civil identity, etc.

- Sociocultural Anthropology
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Intimacy

• Intimacy, Latin Intimus, innermost
• The process of ..stating or making known ones
  innermost thoughts and thinking, moral values,
  and feelings, and...
• sharing something from the insideit is,..
• genuine intimacy in human relationships requires
  dialogue, honesty/transparency, vulnerability,
  and mutual reciprocity.

- Word Meanings / Philosophy
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Unequally yoked
- An Internet Search/ Cartoon
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Equallyoked
Also, equally yoked

• Equallyoked, (is pronounced, Eek quel ee yoakd)
  and is when a couple-who believe in, bonds with,
  and marries one other purposefully of the same
  (or nearly the same) Civil identity thus are
  multi-cultural society, equallyoked1.
• Civil identity is a Social Psychology term
  -describing a collective of features concerning
  an individuals present ethnicity, political
  party membership, race and color, religious
  membership, disability/handicap, age group/
  generation, sexual orientation and marital
  status.2

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
- Introduction to Social Psychology
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Civil Identity
An Example

• Ethnicity Scandinavian-American
• Political Party Libertarian
• Race Anglo Color Light complexion
• Religion Fundamental Christian
• Disability None Known
• Gender Male Sexual Orientation
  Heterosexual
• Marital Status Single/1st Marriage Annulled
• Couples who share the same (or very similar)
  civil identities, beliefs, bonding, marriage -
  living in a multicultural society are considered
  to be equallyoked.1

- Introduction to Social Psychology
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Equallyoked
(also, equally yoked)

• The term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally yoked)
• an adverb
• Equally - means alike 1, in a balanced
  manner, the same or to the same degree of,
  etc
• an adjective
• Yoked - means (Latin jungere to join) 2,
  something fastened around the neck to join
  together, burdened with.
• in history
• Evolved from synonyms, with meanings, such as
  Equitably, Fairly, Justly3
• Sentence They were an equally yoked couple
  from families of just ordinary means.

- Word Meanings - Etymology
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Life Partner

• A Life Partner refers to a lifetime, romantic
  and very close mate. A couple who are true
  life partners are equallyoked.1
• It is true that life partners usually develop
  strong platonic relationships as a mutual serious
  long term goal together.2
• Life partners may base their relationship on
  moral/or immoral grounds whether married/
  monogamously or can be individuals such as
  divorcees/celibate.3

- Introduction to Social Psychology
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Sharing of

• God, Religious Beliefs Spiritual Values.4
• Family life Friendships.5
• Good Health Preferred Enjoyments.6

• Vision Mission in life.1
• Activities of Daily Living Routine.2
• Reflection of meaning of life Devotion to
  duty.3

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies
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..a Social Phenomena

• A couple (usually a heterosexual dyadic) who are
  of very similar or the same Civil identity 1
• Any couples who are bonded together and who are
  of the same or very similar Civil
  identities2
• A marital couple who marries-with their
  backgrounds related to their Civil identities. 3

- Sociology 101Social Phenomenology
- Introduction to Marriage, Family, and Child
Psychology
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Un-equally Yoked

• Inequitable -
• Unjust, an injustice.
• Iniquious -
• Unrighteous, a sin.
• Inequality -
• Unfair, imbalanced.1

II Corinthinans 614-18
- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies
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Multi-cultural Statistics

• Caucasians (European)
• - Marrying amongst those who were from their own
  tribes, social culture, and nation.1
• Negrozoids (Africa)
• - Marrying amongst the same people in their own
  areas.2
• South Americans (Indians)
• - Intermarrying within their own peoples.3
• Oriental (Asians)
• - Couples mates were often chosen by their own
  parents from own family lineage.4

- Sociology 101
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Equallyoked
(also, equally yoked)

• The term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally yoked)
  probable came about from the Bible wherein Jews
  marrying Jews, Muslims marrying Muslims,
  Christians marrying Christians, etc, etc, etc.1
• It is a phenomena that exists in all
  multicultural societies-peoples of the same de
  facto Civil identity' marrying one another for
  reasons of self-esteem, religious beliefs, and
  preserving the integrity of their family
  identity-for abiding in social mores
  (contributing to) community health.2

- Word Origins/Philosophy
- Sociology 101
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Dyadic Social Psychology

• Equallyokedtarians are of interest to social
  psychologists because they represent dyadic
  groups of the same Civil identity.1
• Couples who primarily choose to bond and marry
  together because they are the same or very
  similar Civil identities, among other reasons,
  may contribute to marital longevity-staying
  together for a lifetime as evidenced.2
• The measured self esteem of individuals of a
  marital couple who marry with backgrounds related
  to their own Civil identities are worthy of
  marital satisfaction studies as well.3

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
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Boundaries

• I will conduct my life by inspired truth.4
• I will assert against any disrespect.5
• I will abide in social ethics and laws. 6

• I will not wait for anyone.1
• I will halt unequal relationships.2
• I will not idealize others.3

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies
Alpha Omega
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Social Perspectives

• Equallyokedtarians are those people-who are
  equallyoked yet having varying points of views
  about marriage1
• Liberals a couple marrying one another while
  sharing in vague beliefs, i.e., explained as the
  same spirit or attitude about some issue.
• Moderates marrying one another r/t very
  similar civil identities-close enough for them.
• Conservatives marriage between two people who
  share the same or fairly equal Civil
  identities. 2

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

- Introduction to Social Psychology
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Coupling up.
in a hook up culture

• Nonequallyoked
• Couples who do recognize equallyokedtarianism as
  a social mores and yet for their own ulterior
  motives still choose to violate social mores as
  an rash option.1
• Unequallyoked
• Couples who are naïve, thus inadvertently
  demonstrate opposition to equallyokedtarianism-as
  a social mores.2
• Anti-equallyoked
• Couples who are a bit mentally/emotionally
  disturbed and are deliberately active against
  proper socialization, contrary to
  equallyokedtarianism and social mores,3

- Introduction to Social Psychology
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Love is a

• ..a conscious, meaningful, and focused attention
  towards a special mate1 and,
• ..a person toward whom love is shared a dearly
  beloved an equallyoked help meet, a
  heterosexual love mate2 and,
• ..a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep
  affection for, as for a sweetheart, or as for a
  spouse.3

- Word Meanings / Philosophy
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Why Equallyoked?

• Motives - a couple who are equallyoked may do
  so for a variety of reasons-some of which
  include
• Beliefs about life, self-image, truth and God,
  death, etc.
• Bonding for long term love, romance, and sex.
• Marriage, family/children, and financial goals.1
• Self esteem individuals with a clear sense of
  self-marrying someone of a like civil
  identity.2
• Family identity to maintain the integrity and
  the longevity of the extended family identity.3
• Social mores a preserved cultural standard in a
  multicultural society for the sake of community
  health.4

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
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Equallyokedtarians
.are couples who are equally yoked

• Pronunciation Eek quel ee yoakd tar ee ins 1.
  
• Definition - are any individuals who by choice,
  i.e., purposefully choose to bond with and marry
  another of the same (or very nearly the same)
  Civil identity, within any culture are called,
  Equallyokedtarians - couples equallyoked.2
• Recall a Civil identity - describes a
  collective of features about a persons present
  ethnicity, political party membership, race and
  color, religious membership, disability/
  handicap, age group/ generation, proper sexual
  orientation, and marital status.3

- Introduction to Social Psychology
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Social Mores

• The term Social Mores refers to.
• Social meaning - to associate in a social way,
  i.e., folkways, socializing, socialization 1,
• Mores - concerns that of moral codes, mental
  health values, standards, spiritual ideologies 2.
  
• Also, customs, proper conduct/etiquette, health
  behaviours/norms, healthy lifestyle. 3
• Use in a Sentence Their family abided in good
  social mores that reflected their sense of
  integrity. 4

adjective
plural noun
- Word Meanings - Etymology
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..a Public Health Issue

• As a Public Health Issue, Equallyokedtarianism as
  a social mores is a phenomena observed amongst
  the most conservative segments of a
  multi-cultural society.1
• Marriage Family and Child Psychology addresses
  the Self-esteem of the individuals who are (or
  arent) equallyoked as an important issue in
  mental health/ emotional health/ and naturally,
  self-preservation, as well as of the integrity of
  their family identity.2
• As a Civil Rights issue, justice of the peaces-as
  civil servants who perform marriage ceremonies
  attaching a signature may be held responsible as
  attesting to the competence (or incompetence) of
  the individuals present while performing
  marriages considering community (psychosocial)
  health matters.3

- Introduction to Public Health
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You be the Man
the Alpha-male.

• Boys become Men when they
• Follow you when you walk out.
• Call you back when you hang up.
• Hug you when you punch him.
• Kiss you when you nag.
• Watch click-flicks with you.

• Tolerate crying over love stories.
• Hand you the remote control.
• Pass on boys-night just to listen to your
  rantings.
• Dont flare up when you give car directions.
• Says Im sorry and tells you he needs you.1

- Ecclesiastic 99 of the Holy Bible
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An UnpreferredYoked

• A Couple
• One very fat weight one very skinny weight
• One very poor income one very rich income
• One is very sociable one is very homebody
• One talks very fast one talks very slow
• One very tall in height one very short in
  height
• One highly educated one lowly educated
• One ill mannered one well mannered1

- The True Phenomenology of Opposites Attract
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Social Forces

• Equallyokedtarians are the most targeted social
  groups for destruction by world tyrannical powers
  there is in global multi-culturalism.1
• Degradation of peoples self esteem comes from
  the of demise of family and destruction of
  individual Civil identity by the powers2 that
  be in order to attain and maintain governmental
  rule.
• The empowered liberal media, public education,
  and multicultural secularism perpetuates
  community amalgamation for the sake of
  cultural confusion - and in such, thereby
  ruining the individual identities of a countrys
  peoples.3

- Concepts in Social Psychology
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Un-equally Yoked

• An unforgiving spirit.
• A wrong association.
• Killing God for secularistic pleasure.1

• Out of place priorities.
• Misused gifts.
• Unconfessed sin.

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies
Alpha Omega
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an Art and Science

• Couples-who are bonded together and who are
  equallyoked help meets- amongst a class are
  worthy of study-not unlike those who arent.1
• the study of theoretical equallyokedtarianism as
  an social science, as an art, and as a
  inquiry into biologic genetic wholesomeness. 2
• A marital couple who becomes engaged-with
  intension of preserving the integrity of their
  family identity related to their backgrounds and
  related to their civil identities.3

-The Humanities Biopsychosociocultural Sciences
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Pastoral Counselor

•  An educated/trained Pastor specialist in
• Psychological therapies and
• Mental disorders and unequally yoked coupling
  (e.g., a malsuited couple) ..
• ..combining moral spirituality, ethical practical
  problem solving, progressive legal decision
  making, and personal informed
  choices.1

- Word Meanings / Theophilosophy
Alpha Omega
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College Studies

• Some Suggested Schools
• Sociology
• Oakwood University, Grinnell College, Occidental
  College, Shaw University, Gallaudet University,
  Central State University,
• Social Psychology
• Kentucky State University, Livingstone College,
  Claremont McKenna College, Reed College,
  Swarthmore College, Cheyney University of
  Pennsylvania,
• Civil Rights or Public Health
• East Texas Baptist University, Presbyterian
  College, Franklin College, Sewanee-University of
  the South, Inter American University of Puerto
  Rico-Barranquit, Benedict College,
• Marriage Family and Child Psychology
• Hampshire College, Pomona College, Hiram College,
  Oregon Health Science University, Wilmington
  College, Saint Augustines University,

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Basic Relationships
Q/A - Homework
Your name Social Psychology 222 September 11th,
2001

• 1.) What is the origin of the term Soul-mate?
  How is it significantly related to Social
  psychology? Marriage, Family, Child Psychology?
• 2.) How has the social sciences become involved
  in the investigation of practiced social mores,
  i.e., people that hook up and who are
  equallyoked?
• 3.) What U.S. studies in Sociology pertain to
  tribes, sects or cults, and de facto Civil
  identities? ..where around the world, what
  countries?

Homework Choose ONE. Write Answer on 1 1/2
Pages, Typed, double-spaced, 35 Points, Due
Next Class.
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