Compassion

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Compassion
Our relational clothes are the attitudes and
actions we wear in our relationships.
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But now you must rid yourselves of all such
things as these anger, rage, malice, slander,
and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to
each other, since you have taken off your old
self with its practices, and have put on the new
self. -Colossians 38-10
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But now you must rid yourselves of all such
things as these anger, rage, malice, slander,
and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to
each other, since you have taken off your old
self with its practices, and have put on the new
self. -Colossians 38-10
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Dont lie to one another. Youre done with that
old life. Its like a filthy set of ill-fitting
clothes youve stripped off and put in the fire.
-Colossians 39 (The Message)
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Dont lie to one another. Youre done with that
old life. Its like a filthy set of ill-fitting
clothes youve stripped off and put in the fire.
Now youre dressed in a new wardrobe. Every
item of your new way of life is custom-made by
the Creator, with his label on it. All the old
fashions are now obsolete. -Colossians
39-10 (The Message)
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Therefore, as Gods chosen people, holy and
dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion,
kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
-Colossians 312-14
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• Consecration and Commissioning Service
• for the
• Church Stewardship Board
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• Church Life Board

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1. What to Expect in Relationships
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict
Because of the nature of relationships
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict
Because of the nature of relationships
Because of the process of Christlikeness
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness Expressions of injured pride and
weak insecurity
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness Put On Humility
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness Put On Humility Other-Centered
ness
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness Put On Humility Other-Centered
ness Surrendered Servant
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• Consecration and Commissioning Service
• for the
• Church Stewardship Board
• and
• Church Life Board

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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness Put On Humility Other-Centered
ness Surrendered Servant Put On Gentleness
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness Put On Humility Other-Centered
ness Surrendered Servant Put On
Gentleness Surrendered Strength
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness Put On Humility Put On
Gentleness 3. What to Do When the Fire Starts
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict Take Off
Defensiveness Put On Humility Put On
Gentleness 3. What to Do When the Fire Starts
Learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in
heart -Matthew 1129
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1 Peter 55-6 All of you, clothe yourselves with
humility toward one another, because, God
opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.
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1 Peter 55-6 All of you, clothe yourselves with
humility toward one another, because, God
opposes the proud but gives grace to the
humble. Relationships are humility kits.
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Pathway to Humility
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt And
being in anguish, he prayed more earnestly, and
his sweat was like drops of blood falling to the
ground. -Luke 2244
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt Close
Your Mouth
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt Close
Your Mouth He was oppressed and afflicted, yet
he did not open his mouth. -Isaiah 537
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt Close
Your Mouth Pray for Grace
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt Close
Your Mouth Pray for Grace Jesus prayed, My
Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken
from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.
-Matthew 2639
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt Close
Your Mouth Pray for Grace Release the Hurt
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt Close
Your Mouth Pray for Grace Release the Hurt
Jesus said, Father, forgive them -Luke
2334
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt Close
Your Mouth Pray for Grace Release the Hurt
Gently Respond
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1. What to Expect in Relationships Conflict 2.
What to Wear in Relational Conflict 3. What to Do
When the Fire Starts Acknowledge the Hurt Close
Your Mouth Pray for Grace Release the Hurt
Gently Respond A gentle answer turns away
wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. -Proverbs
151
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Clothe yourselves withhumility and
gentleness -Colossians 312-14
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Clothe yourselves withhumility and
gentleness -Colossians 312-14
Learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in
heart. -Matthew 1129