Motivating Career Counselors for Effective Working

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Motivating Career Counselors for Effective
Working Improving Communication
listening Skills of a Counselors
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PREVIEW
PART-1 Right Way of Choosing Suitable
Career Career Decision Making Process
PART- 2 Life Skills Importance of Self
Esteem Self-Discovery Personal Style Self
Expression Case Study Handling Relationships
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HOW TO CHOOSE CAREER


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Existing way of career selection
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Influence of parents

• May force Their Dream On Children.
• No Risk Taking, Prefer To Be On Safe Side.
• Leaving Decision On Children.

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Role Model
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Academic Performance
If I get good marks , I ll go for science . Arts
and commerce are for weak students
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Impact of Media
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DRAWBACKS

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Complete waste of budding potential
Poor Success Rate In Competitive Exams.
Stream change after 102 out of frustration
Frequent Job Hopping/ Early Onset of Burnout
Poor Professional Life, Hampering Home Life
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Right Way of Career Selection
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PROFILE OF STUDENT

• Aptitude
• Interest
• Intelligence Level
• Personality

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• Utility Of The Qualification As Per Market
  Scenario

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CAREER DECISION MAKING PROCESS
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Know Yourself
Prioritize Values
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Subject Selection
Career Options Available

• Values
• Strengths
• Personality

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Consideration with Values Strengths
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Career Path
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Explore the Career Options
Decision on Main Alternative Option
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• Major Difference between Psychologist/Counselors
  of Yesteryears
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• Present day Psychologist/Counselors

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Life Skills Critical Thinking Creative
ThinkingDecision-Making Problem Solving
Interpersonal RelationshipEffective
CommunicationCoping with Emotions Coping with
StressSelf-AwarenessEmpathy
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PERSONAL STYLE AND CLOTHING

• Discover The Power Of Style.
• Dress To Represent Your Personal Style.

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SELF DISCOVERY

• Identify The Real You and take action on
  creating the life youve always wanted.
• Set Your Priorities and follow them without
  feeling guilty.
• Have at least one formula to boost your
  self-esteem.
• (Studies reveal the more self-esteem you have
  the more likely it is youll live a life full of
  achievement, satisfaction and happiness).

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CASE STUDY

• Manvee is a 19 years old girl. She is an
  obedient student. She did well in her school
  exams. Now she is doing her graduation. She
  spends most of her time with herself. Her
  imagination is good. She writes good poems and
  stories.
• In college, her academic performance is average.
  She has small circle of friends. She doesnt
  participate in extra curricular activities in the
  college. She likes to follow others. She hardly
  takes initiative in any task.

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CASE STUDY 1 .

• Of late, she has become very irritating
  personality. Her anger outbursts are on increase.
  Whenever she is spoken to for any issue, her
  reply is
• I do not Know.
• As Manvees friend, what are your proposed
  actions ?

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SELF-ESTEEM
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SELF ESTEEM

• People believe that thinking well of themselves
  is equivalent to boasting and big-headedness.
  This is why children are often taught to behave
  better and work harder by having their faults
  emphasized, rather than by having their successes
  praised. Parents and teacher may spend their time
  pointing out what children have done wrong,
  instead of helping them to build on what they
  have done right.

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• Individuals with High Self- Esteem
• They like to meet new people.
• They dont worry about how others will judge
  them.
• They have the courage to express themselves.
• Their lives are enriched with each new encounter.
• They are nicer to be around.
• Their ideas are met with interest because others
  want to hear what they have to say.
• They are magnets to positive opportunities!

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and with Low Self Esteem will -

• Avoid trying new things
• Feel unloved unwanted
• Blame others for own shortcomings
• Be unable to tolerate a normal level of
  frustration
• Put down their own talents abilities
• Be easily influenced

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Figure 4.1
Figure 4.1 Self-Esteem Cycles
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TIPS TO PROMOTE SELF ESTEEM

• Stop having negative thoughts
• Be assertive
• Aim for accomplishment rather than perfection
• Set Short Goals
• Develop expertise in some area
• Have A Clear Signature

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Handling Relationship

• Go for honest, trusting relationships.
• Respect is the key factor
• Enjoy your relationship than wasting time in
  other issues.

• Do not go out of your comfort zone.
• Use I statements in arguments.
• Avoid Blaming/ express your feeling.

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Some Tips

• Be a Brand Ambassador of Your Subject.
• Work on yourself- Looks, Language, Label
• Take Risks
• Go out of your comfort zone
• Understand the changes in new generation and have
  an empathetic attitude towards them
• Handle difficult people and tense situations
  tactfully
• Do anything to have feeling of a WINNER

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WISH YOU ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR FUTURE
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