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TÂM LÝ HOLISTIC APPROACH

• FOR
• NGÀNH HI?P SI
• KNIGHT OF
• THE EUCHARIST

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INTRODUCTIONHI?P SI 101

• Intense emotion
• Intense relationships

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INTRODUCTION

• MISSION
• To guide our Hi?p Si teens to be fired with the
  love of the Eucharist and the love for Phong
  Trào.

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INTRODUCTION

• Social
• Psychological
• Spiritual

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PHONG TRÀO 101

• Mission of PHONG TRÀO
• CON NGU?I KI?N TOÀN (GOOD CITIZEN)
• KITÔ H?U HOÀN H?O (FAITHFUL CHRISTIAN)
• T? NHIÊN SIÊU NHIÊN

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THE STAGE

• 1st Born Generation in the US
• 16-17 years old
• Vietnamese American or American Vietnamese

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SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT

• Family Unit
• Extended Family
• Try to communicate with the adults who do not
  have a good grasp of the English language and are
  culturally handicapped.

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SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT

• Intergeneration Living
• Hi?p Si teens are more adaptable compared to
  their friends at school. When they are in the
  presence of adults they tend to be quiet and
  reserved due to the acquired skills early on
  (Respect the elders)

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SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT

• SELF
• Independent - Individualism
• The desire to be autonomous is greatest at the
  age of 16-17.

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SOCIAL RESCUE

• Symptom
• To break away from parents or people of authority
• challenge the power of people in charge.

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What can YOU do to help your Hi?p Si Teens?

• Help them to appreciate their unique heritage
  Vietnamese American.
• Allow perceived freedom for Hi?p Si in selecting
  activities.

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What can YOU do to help your Hi?p Si Teens?

• Provide opportunity for leadership and
  independence with guidance
• For example
• Hi?p Si có th? d?n v?i 3 ngành và làm vai trò Ð?i
  Tru?ng trong nh?ng sinh ho?t Phuong Pháp Hàng Ð?i
  ho?c vai trò Ph? Tá cho Huynh Tru?ng.
• Hi?p Si có th? giúp d?ng d?y nh?ng bài khóa
  chuyên môn, ca hát, phong trào và cho trò choi.
• Hi?p Si có th? serve as a Big Brother/ Big Sister
  caring for the younger kids.
• Teach Hi?p Si on different aspects of leadership,
  team work, self discipline, and self-control.

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PSYCHOLOGICAL DEVELOPMENT

• Individual identity
• Who am I?
• Why do I look Vietnamese but feel more like an
  American?
• I look like my parents, but I am nothing like
  them?
• Why does my family expect me to be a doctor,
  lawyer, engineer, or pharmacist?
• Why does the teaching of my religion at home and
  church go in one direction and the teaching of
  science in school in another direction on the
  same topic?

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PSYCHOLOGICAL RESCUE

• Symptom
• Attempt to find their own identity because they
  feel their parents dont understand them, other
  groups (Cliques) exclude them and sometimes
  confuse their feelings.

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What can YOU do to help your Hi?p Si Teens?

• Allow interactive and analytical discussions and
  activities where Hi?p Si can exchange and debate
  about societal issues (v?n n?ng xã h?i, khó
  nghèo, etc).
• Assist Hi?p Si in learning and accustoming to the
  Vietnamese culture.
• Assist Hi?p Si in understanding their calling to
  be a Hi?p Si (on g?i) and the life of Hi?p Si.
• Teach Thánh Kinh và áp d?ng vào d?i.
• Assist Hi?p Si to explore their role with God,
  within society, and within their doàn.

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SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT

• Years of development and synthesize their
  spiritual growth.
• Acquiring about their own faith
• Crystallize their faith journey
• Learning how to respond to Gods invitation to be
  salt of earth and light of the world.

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SPIRITUAL RESCUE

• Acquire their own faith
• God Learn to relate to God on the level of
  friendship.
• Church Question about equality, stand in term
  of morality and social justice.
• Neighbors How to apply the commandment of
  loving neighbor as ones self.
• Self learn to accept their own faith journey.

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SPIRITUAL RESCUE

• Crystallize their faith journey
• Helping them to know more about Scripture and the
  Catechism of the Catholic Church, especially Tám
  M?i Phúc Th?t (The Beatitudes).
• Start a trend that they can buy into.
• For example
• a Bible gang
• sign-of-the-cross group
• a praying team
• going to church every day crew

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SPIRITUAL RESCUE

• Learning how to respond to Gods invitation
• Huynh Tru?ngs need to help Hi?p Si understand
  their role as a person of faith wherever they
  find themselves.
• Service project
• Group Mission
• Serving the Parish

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HU?NG D?N HI?P SI

• SPIRIT
• God
• Inner Spirit
• Faith
• Teaching

• SELF
• Responsibility
• Encouragement
• Acceptance
• Discipline

• SOCIAL
• Communication
• Openness
• Sharing
• Trust