Title: Oix Zuqc Taaih Dorng Jaa Nyei Jauv

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Title Oix Zuqc Taaih Dorng Jaa Nyei Jauv
Marriage Is Honorable
Valentine's Sunday 2-17, 2008

• Text Hipvlu 134 - Hebrews 134

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• Dauh dauh oix zuqc taaih dorng jaa nyei leiz,
  kungx longc ganh nyei auv nqox juangc coux bueix
  weic zuqc Tin-Hungh oix dingc yietc zungv nziaauc
  sieqv nziaauc dorn hienx auv hienx nqox nyei
  mienh nyei zuiz.
• Marriage is to be honored by all, and
  husbands and wives must be faithful to each
  other. God will judge those who are immoral and
  those who commit adultery.
• Hipvlu 134 Hebrews 134

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Biux Mengh Waac -Introduction

• Naaiv douc Ging-Sou njaaux mbuo oix zuqc
• taaih ginx dorng jaa nyei leiz. Wuov nyungc
• mbuo oix zuqc hnangv haaix nor zoux bun cing
• gorngv mbuo benx taaih ginx dorng jaa nyei
• leiz? Yiem meih nyei maengc meih hnamv
• daaih meih duqv taaih ginx dorng jaa nyei leiz
• caux meih nyei cai-doix nyei fai? Ih hnoi yie oix
  
• bun meih hnamv taux i nyungc jauv, yiem meih
• nyei maengc jiex daaih nyei ziangh hoc meih
• duqv taaih jiex dorng Jaa nyei leiz nyei fai?

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Marriage Is Honorable

• (Hipvlu 134)

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1. Which is Honorable in the Bible?

• Laanh hnamv laanh Hnamv - Love one anther.
• Laanh taaih laanh Respect one another.
• Laanh tongx nimc laanh Honor one another.
• Laanh zoux longx bun laanh Do good to one
  another
• Laanh caux laanh horpc fim dongh eix nyei yiem
  Live in unity with one another
• Laanh guangc laanh zoux dorngc nyei sic Forgive
  one another.
• Hnamv mienh hnangv hnamv ganh nor Love other as
  loving yourself.

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Dauh dauh oix zuqc taaih dorng jaa nyei leiz,
kungx longc ganh nyei auv nqox juangc coux bueix
weic zuqc Tin-Hungh oix dingc yietc zungv nziaauc
sieqv nziaauc dorn hienx auv hienx nqox nyei
mienh nyei zuiz. (Hipvlu 134)

• Dauh Dauh Oix Zuqc Taaih Dorng Jaa Nyei Leiz.
  Tin-Hungh maiv bun haaix dauh dorng jaa daaih
  aengx guangc, aengx dorng jaa, aengx guangc,
  aengx dorng jaa lo haaix (Matvtaai 199).
• Yietc dauh mienh ganh yiem hnangv se maiv horpc
  (Gen. 218)
• Weic zaangv cing-nzengc nyei jauv cingx daaih
  dauh dauh mjangc dorn caux dauh dauh msieqv
  dorn cingx daaih oix zuqc maaih ninh mbuo ganh
  nyei auv, ninh mbuo ganh nyei nqox (1
  Kolinto 72)

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Dauh dauh oix zuqc taaih dorng jaa nyei leiz,
kungx longc ganh nyei auv nqox juangc coux bueix
weic zuqc Tin-Hungh oix dingc yietc zungv nziaauc
sieqv nziaauc dorn hienx auv hienx nqox nyei
mienh nyei zuiz. (Hipvlu 134)

• Cai-doix nyei Coux Maiv Haih Zoux Laih Hlopv
• Nziaauc sieqv nziaauc nyei jauv oix zuqc dingc
  zuiz.
• Hienx auv hienx nqox nyei jauv oix zuqc dingc
  zuiz.
• Maiv gunv meih benx dorng jaa nyei mienh fai maiv
  zeiz.
• IT DOES MATTER WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT!

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2.DORNG JAA NYEI MOUZ DEIC SE

• 1. Weic Douc Longx Nyei Buonv Yiem Lungh Ndiev
• a. Tin-Hungh zeix mienh benx namh caux nyuoz
  (TDD. 127)
• b. Tin-Hungh buang waac bun hiaangx (TDD. 128)
• c. Tin-Hungh lorz hnamv Tin-Hungh nyei cai-doix
  (Maalaaki 215)
• D. Njaaux fujueiv gan ninh horpc zuqc yangh nyei
  jauv. Zuov ninh
• hlo daaih, ninh ziouc maiv leih nqoi (Congh
  Mengh Waac 226)

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3. DORNG JAA NYEI MOUZ DEIC SE

• 1. Weic Nqaeqv Jienv Hienx Nyei Jauv
• Mv baac weic zuqc maaih hienx nyei sic camv,
  dauh dauh
• m'jangc dorn cingx daaih oix zuqc maaih ninh ganh
  nyei
• auv. Dauh dauh m'sieqv dorn oix zuqc maaih ninh
  ganh nyei
• nqox. 1 Kolinto 72)
• Fornicators and adulterers can bear children,
  BUT, it
• violates Gods moral code!
• IT DOES MATTER WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT!
• remedy against the challenges of loneliness
  Genesis 218

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Caux Haaix Dauh Dorng Jaa? Marry Who?

• Maiv zeiz caux cien-ceqv. Not a close relative
• Haaix dauh maiv dungx mingh caux juangc
  nziaamv-fei nyei cien-ceqv bueix. Yie se Ziouv
  (Lewi 186)
• None of you shall approach anyone who is near of
  kin to him, to uncover his nakedness I am the
  LORD (Lev. 186)

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Maaih I Setv Mienh Dorng Jaa Yiem Naaiv Seix
Maengc. Two Kinds of People to Marry in this Life

• Tin-Hungh nye naamh nyuoz
• Duqv fuqv nyei naamh nyuoz

• Saadaan nyei naamh nyuoz
• Duqv zioux nyei naamh nyuoz

Hnangv naaiv mbuo haih hiuv duqv haaix dauh
zoux Tin-Hungh nyei naamh nyouz, haaix dauh zoux
mienv nyei hungh nyei naamh nyouz. Haaix dauh
maiv zoux horpc fai maiv hnamv ninh nyei
gorx-youz, wuov dauh se maiv zeiz Tin-Hungh nyei
naamh nyouz aqv. 1 Yohan 310 1 John
310
Mbuo se dongh Tin-Hungh laengz waac bun nyei
naamh nyuoz (Gal. 428, NKJV)
Naaiv deix se dongh zuqc zioux nyei naamh nyuoz
(Eph. 23, NKJV)
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Maaih I Setv Mienh Dorng Jaa Yiem Naaiv Lungh
Ndiev Two Kinds of People to Marry in this World

• Tin-Hungh Nyei Dorn
• Yiem Njang Nyei Dorn

• Hiuang Orqv Nyei Dorn
• Yiem Hmuangx Nyei Dorn

Ndeic se naaiv baamh gen. Mbiauh nyim se
Tin-Hungh nyei guoqv nyei baeqc fingx. Haih
laengc mienh wuov nyungc mbiauh nyim se hiuang
orqv wuov dauh nyei baeqc fingx. (Matvtaai
1338)
Meih mbuo yietc zungv zoux yiem njang nyei mienh
yaac guei lungh hnoi zanc. Mbuo maiv zeiz guei
lungh muonz zanc fai zoux yiem hmuangx nyei
mienh. (1 Tesaalonigaa 55)
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Maaih I Setv Mienh Dorng Jaa Yiem Naaiv Norm
Lungh Ndiev. Two Kinds of People to Marry in this
Life

• Muangx Waac Nyei Dorn

• Maiv Muangx Waac Nyei Dorn

Meih mbuo zoux muangx Tin-Hungh nyei waac nyei
naamh nyouz. Maiv dungx ei jienv meih mbuo nyei
hnyouv hanc zoux hnangv zinh ndaangc meih mbuo
maiv gaengh hiuv wuov zanc zoux nyei nor.
(1 Bide 114 )
Maiv dungx bun haaix dauh longc kungx-waac nduov
meih mbuo. Se laaix naaiv nyungc sic Tin-Hungh
nouz haic maiv muangx ninh nyei waac wuov deix
mienh. (Efeso 56)
Who Do You Want Raising And Disciplining Your
Children?
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Who Can You Marry To?

• Haaix dauh maaih sing-wuonh longx? (Prov. 221)
• Haaix dauh maaih congh mengh? (Prov. 3126)
• Haaix dauh nzueic jiex? (Gen. 1211 267)
• AND STILL BE TRIED AND TROUBLED!
• Mbuo Yiem Zuiz Caux Zuqc Zioux Nyei Lungh Ndiev!
  Zuiz Zoux Bun Nyungc-Nyungc Longx Nyei Jauv Waaic
  Nzengc.
• BIANGH NZUEIC NYEI, YAAC NDAANG NYEI, MV BAAC
  MAAIH NJIMV NYEI. THE ROSE STILL SMELLS SWEET BUT
  HAS THORNS.

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Some Final Considerations

• Bun meih nyei fiem-fingx caux zoux nyei sic hinc
  cuotv daaih benx hnamv nyei jauv yiem meih nyei
  cai-doix gunyuoz. Let the attitude and actions
  in your marriage be done in love
• Cing-nzengc, ciev ziec, caux maaih noic nyei
  jauv. Holy, sacrificial and enduring.
• Hnangv Yesu caux Jiu Baang nor, Nqox oix hnamv
  ganh nyei auv hnangv Giduc hnamv Jiu Baang nor,
  yaac weic jiu baang siev ninh ganh nyei maengc.
  As Jesus to the church, Husbands, love your
  wives, just as Christ also loved the church and
  gave Himself for her (Eph. 525)

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Some Final Considerations

• Tongx Nimc Auv Nyei Jauv. Honor the wife
• Meih mbuo zoux nqox nyei mienh yaac oix zuqc fih
  
• hnangv nyei hiuv duqv korh lienh ganh nyei
  auv, weic zuqc m'sieqv dorn gauh mau m'jangc
  dorn. Yaac oix zuqc taaih auv weic zuqc ninh mbuo
  caux meih mbuo fih hnangv nyei duqv Tin-Hungh
  ceix bun nyei en, se duqv nzipc yietc liuz nyei
  maengc. Oix zuqc hnangv naaiv nor zoux weic maiv
  bun haaix nyungc laanh meih mbuo daux gaux nyei
  waac. (1 Bide 37)
• Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with
  understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to
  the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of
  the grace of life, that your prayers may not be
  hindered (1 Pet. 37)

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Some Final Considerations

• Nqox zoux mnqorngv. The husband as head
• 23 Weic zuqc nqox zoux auv nyei m'nqorngv hnangv
  Giduc zoux jiu-baang nyei m'nqorngv wuov nor.
  Jiu-baang zoux Giduc nyei sin, Giduc yaac zoux
  jiu-baang nyei Njoux Ziouv. (Efeso 523)
• Mv baac yie oix meih mbuo hiuv duqv, Giduc zoux
  dauh dauh m'jangc dorn nyei m'nqorngv. Nqox yaac
  zoux auv nyei m'nqorngv, Tin-Hungh yaac zoux
  Giduc nyei m'nqorngv. ( 1 Kolinto 113 )

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Nqox Se Zoux Biauv-Ziouv Husband/Headship

• Oix zuqc zoux ziangx ga'nyiec nyei gong ndaangc,
• ndaangc, liuc leiz ziangx meih nyei lingh deic,
  nqahaav
• cingx daaih gomv biauv. (Congh Mengh 2427).
• Prepare your outside work, Make it fit for
  yourself in the field And afterward build your
  house (Proverbs 2427, NKJV).
• First prepare your outside work. . .make sure you
  can support a family then build your house!
  Dayietv oix zuqc zoux ganyiec nyei gong.weic
  lorz nyanc ziux goux hmuangv doic nyei jauv, liuz
  ziouc gomv meih mbuo nyei biauv!

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Some Final Considerations

• Subject to the husbands rule
• Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the
  Lord (Eph. 522, NKJV). Auv, oix zuqc mbuoqc
  ganh nyei nqox, hnangv mbuoqc Ziouv nor.
  (Efeso 522).
• A woman should submit to her husband
  fundamentally because of her respect for Christ.
  Msieqv dorn oix zuqc mbuoqc nqox, zoux weic zuqc
  ninh se benx taaih Giduc nyei mienh.
• But cannot submit when husband forbids what Jesus
  commands or commands what Jesus forbids. Mv baac
  maiv haih mbuoqc se gorngv nqox maiv bun mbuo
  muangx Yesu nyei lingc fai Ziouv Yesu heuc mbuo
  zoux nyei jauv.

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Some Final Considerations

• Mbuoqc Nqox Nyei Nyungc Zeiv Se Hnangv
• Zinh ndaangc gan longx Tin-Hungh, sienx kaux
  ninh wuov deix m'sieqv dorn hnangv naaiv nor
  zorng nzueic. Ninh mbuo mbuoqc ganh nyei nqox
  gunv, hnangv Saalaa muangx Apclaaham nor, heuc
  Apclaaham zoux ninh nyei ziouv. Se gorngv meih
  mbuo zoux horpc yaac maiv gamh nziex haaix
  nyungc, meih mbuo ziouc zoux ninh nyei sieqv.
  (1 Bide 35-6)
• For in this manner, in former times, the holy
  women who trusted in God also adorned themselves,
  being submissive to their own husbands as Sarah
  obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. . . (1 Peter
  35- 6, NKJV)

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• Setv Mueiz Waac - Conclusion
• Meih oix zuqc hopv ganh nyei wuom-kuotv
• nyei wuom, hopv ganh nyei wuom-kuotv mbeux
• cuotv nyei wuom. ??????????????????????
• ??????? ??????????????????????????.
• Drink water from your own cistern,
• running water from your own well.
• Proverbs 515 Congh Mengh 515

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• Meih nyei wuom-zingv mienz cuotv ganyiec,
• meih nyei ndoqv liouc njiec jaai-horngc se
• se horpc nyei fai? ?????????????????????????
• ???????????? ????????????????????????
• ???. Should your springs overflow in
• the streets, your streams of water in
• the public squares?
• Proverbs 516 Congh Mengh 516

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• Kungx oix zuqc weic meih ganh nduqc laanh
• hnangv, maiv dungx bun ga'nyiec nyei mienh
• juangc jienv longc. ??????????????????????
• ????????????????????????????????????.
• Let them be yours alone, never to be
• shared with strangers.
• (Proverbs 517 Congh Mengh 517)

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• Tov bun meih nyei wuom-zingv duqv fuqv,
• yaac a'hneiv meih lunx nyei ziangh hoc
• duqv daaih nyei auv. ????????????????????????
  ? ????????????????????????????????????????????????
  ???. May your fountain be
• blessed, and may you rejoice in the
• the wife of your youth.
• Proverbs 518 Congh Mengh 518

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• Yie nyei dorn aah! Meih fungc oix zuqc bun
• Hienx nqox nyei auv wakv meih? Meih weic
• haaix diuc qam jienv ganh dauh mienh nyei
• auv? ????????????????? ??????????????????????
  ??
• ???????????????? ??????????????????????????
• ????. Why be captivated, my son, by an
• adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of
• another mans wife?
• (Proverbs 520 Congh Mengh 520)