The Art of Flirtation

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The Art of Flirtation

• By Emily Ramser and
• Jane Cornett

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Definition of Flirt

• To court triflingly or act amorously without
  serious intentions play at love (according to
  Random House Dictionary)

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What is Flirting?

• letting someone know that you like them and would
  like to know them better
• has less to do with how you look, and more to do
  with how you make people feel
• social intercourse without the complications

• a form of communication
• shows appreciation, interest, and attraction
• it is of the moment and should be offered without
  long-term goals
• it is healthy, enjoyable, and refreshing for both
  people involved

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Techniques for Flirting

• flipping/playing with hair
• giggling
• draw attention to mouth (straw)
• take guys hat
• cross legs toward guy
• wet lips

• tickling
• winking
• whistling

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Techniques Used by Both Genders

• Smiling
• Physical Contact
• Eye Contact
• Joking Around
• Eyebrow Flash
• Complimenting
• Talking/ Conversation

• Using pet names
• Staring
• Body Positioning
• Twirling Objects
• Being friendly
• Calling/ Writing

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Confidence

• Confidence is the number one turn-on for both men
  and women
• Walking, talking, and standing confidently lets
  the other person know youre sure of yourself
• Be confident, not cocky
• If you love yourself, others will love you, too

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Flirting Is...

• Fun- is for fun and should not be used in thought
  of a long-term goal
• Listen- be attentive to your target
• Interest- flirting shows interest
• Responsibility- make flirting enjoyable. Dont be
  a jerk.
• Trust- its based on trust you open yourself to
  someone else.
• Smile!! )

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Observations of Flirting
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One of the most famous flirts today is...
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But, remember...

• Flirting is not used for the sole purpose of
  finding a date or mate, but may often be used for
  fun. You cant always take flirtatious behavior
  seriously- some people like to play.