Be Assertive

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Be Assertive!
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Passive

• You respect the rights of others, but you dont
  respect your own.
• You dont express your feelings
• You dont stand up for yourself
• Remember If you dont say what you want, it
  makes it very hard for others to know what you
  want, and to give you what you want.

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Aggressive

• You respect your rights, but not the rights of
  others
• You are pushy, bossy and loud about what you want
• You dont care about others feelings
• You bully others to get what you want
• Remember If you are mean, others wont want to
  hang out with you because they dont like how you
  make them feel

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Bullying

• Behavior meant to harm others
• Physical violence
• Name calling and put downs
• Threats
• Stealing
• Excluding
• Aggressive Bully
• Passive Victim

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Assertive
Keep Calm
Be Your Best
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Keep Calm

• Tell yourself to stop
• Tell yourself to Keep Calm
• Take two, slow, deep breaths
• Tell yourself you did a good job

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B E S T

• Body Posture
• Eye Contact
• Speech
• Tone of Voice

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Body Posture

• Stand up straight
• Dont slump or hunch over
• Be confident
• Dont stand too close, or too far away

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Eye Contact

• Look the person in the eye
• Dont stare them down
• Dont look at the floor

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Speech

• Say how you feel
• Dont be insulting
• Be honest
• Use nice language

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Tone of voice

• Keep Calm!!!!!
• Dont shout
• Dont whisper

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Role Play!

• Who gets the ball?
• Yelling over spilt milk!
• Get your head in the game.