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What is EQ?

• ??? All learning has an emotional base.
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• ???? Howard Gardner, Peter Salovey, John Mayor
  (1990)
• Daniel Goleman 1995 book (Emotional
  Intelligence)/Emotional Quotient
• Importance
• Organizational development (leadership, assess
  peoples behavior, management style, attitude,
  interpersonal skill)
• Human resources planning, job profiling,
  recruitment interviewing/selection, management
  development, customer relations/services.
• Individual in family, friends, and other social
  groups

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• Two aspects
• Understanding yourself feeling, goal,
  intention, response and behavior (??????,??,??,
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• Understanding others feeling and behavior
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• Five domains
• Knowing your emotions (self-awaremess,???????)
• Managing your own emotions (???????)
• Motivating yourself (????)
• Empathy(???)
• Social skills(???????)

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• Karen Stone McCown
• (Founder of Six Seconds)
• Primary Emotion
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• Happiness
• Surprise
• Anger
• Sadness
• disgust
• Fear

• Secondary Emotion
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• proud, joy
• frustration, depression
• excitement
• hurt
• hate, guilt
• insecure, confuse

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???????EQ

• Model emotional intelligence yourself (?????????)
• Be aware of personal hotbuttons(?????????)
• Remember emotion first, then situation
  (?????,?????)
• Get your kids involved in household duties at an
  early age
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• Be willing to say no to your kids (???????)
• Be aware of or create the opportunities for
  learning the skills of problem solving
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• Set limits for accessing to mass media
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• Talk about feelings as a family (?????????)
• Develop personal interest or hobbies (????)
• Add a little bit flavor of humor (?????????)
• Pray together (????)

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Research from Daniel GolemanTrouble in
relationship with self

• Unable to change behaviors
• Lack of self-awareness
• Lots of frustration with the world
• Depression
• Explosive anger
• Lack of energy and engagement
• Making poor decisions about people or self
• Not able to grief or transition through guilt

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Trouble in relationship with others

• Unable to communicate well or understand
  cleraly
• Poor at maintaining relationships with others
• Unable to engage and influence others
• Challenges in understanding what people really
  need
• Remaining stuck in unproductive or negative
  patterns, such as having some fight over and over
  
• Trouble in building trust among people