Looking for the Perfect 10 Mate

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Looking for the Perfect 10 Mate

• April 3, 1999 Singles in the Middle Seminar
• Hammond, LA

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Possible Seminar Directions

• Tips on finding a mate.
• Finding THE perfect mate for you.
• How to catch the perfect mate.
• WHERE to look for a mate.
• Tips on finding the PERFECT mate.

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Main Point

• Focus on Friendship First

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• I Kissed Dating Goodbye
• by Joshua Harris

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Part One I Kissed Dating Goodbye

• Smart Love
• Beyond What Feels Good, Back to What Is Good
• The Seven Habits of Highly Defective Dating
• Recognizing Datings Negative Tendencies
• A New Attitude
• Five Attitude Changes to Help You Avoid Defective
  Dating

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Part Two The Heart of the Matter

• Looking up Love in Gods Dictionary
• Learning the True Definition of Love
• The Right Thing at the Wrong Time Is the Wrong
  Thing
• How to Keep Impatience from Robbing You of the
  Gift of Singleness

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Part Three Building a New Lifestyle

• Just Friends in a Just-Do-It World
• Keys for Keeping Your Relationships with the
  Opposite Sex out of the Romantic Zone
• Guard Your Heart
• How to Fight the Pollutants of Lust, Infatuation,
  and Self-Pity
• You Dont Date? What Are You, Nuts?
• What to Do When People Ask Why You Dont Play the
  Dating Game

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Part Four Now What?

• Redeeming the Time
• Making the Most of Your Singleness
• What Matters at Fifty?
• Character Qualities and Attitudes that Matter
  Most in a Life Partner
• Principled Romance
• Principles that Can Guide You from Friendship to
  Matrimony
• Someday Ill Have a Story to Tell
• Writing a Love Story Youll Feel Proud to Tell

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Discussion Topics

• Romance is available to youdont rush it (dont
  live by a biological clock)
• Marriage should be built on friendship FIRST
• Whats important in a friend?