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- As we grow older and form relationships with
partners, our truest mirror of where we are at on
all levels, survival strategies can build into
hugely complicated behaviours that manifest in
all sorts of ways. To explain all this, I will
call on one of my past and best survival
strategies which looks like this and people..
it's a common one! Current boyfriend would say or
do something that triggered my fear of losing his
love. I would react by saying words to push him
away, usually by text and threatening to the
health of the relationship. My tactic in this
particular strategy was to get him to run after
me and prove how much he loved me and would never
leave. A temporary sticking plaster over the
gaping wound of lack of love from my dear dad, as
I grew up. A huge fear that was white in nature.
Not having a man's love felt like crippling pain
beyond comprehension.
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- My reason for writing this article is because
very tragically and suddenly I lost a dear friend
this Christmas. His passing and what I can only
assume must have been in very troubled internal
circumstances, left me wondering about the walls
of defense to love that we so ardently build
around ourselves and carry through life with the
perception that they will prevent us from pain
and sorrow. But what of a defense if it only
serves ultimately to isolate us and starve us
from love and indeed life? - I heard the phrase "survival strategy" on a
relationship communication course run by an
extraordinary human being in early December,
called Hedy Schleifer. Our survival strategy, a
better way to describe defences, she says,
prevents us from truly engaging in life and can
harm our relationships with our partners and
loved ones as we try and protect our delicate
hearts from pain.
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- Survival strategies start building from birth
crucially through our first key relationship with
our caretakers or parents. The reactions from our
caretakers to our natural behaviours as babies
and children through each stage of growth can
produce, what Imago Relationship Therapy calls,
the "fragmented self" which comprises the lost,
denied and disowned parts of our personality that
we keep hidden because we have been told that it
is not right to feel this or express that. So as
we strive to become accepted and loved in our
world, we fragment from our true nature.
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- Simple Off-Grid System Review For example, if a
child is told it is inappropriate to express
anger in any way, that child will grow up
disowning that part of him and among other
symptoms can suffer with depression later in life
because he can't express the full range of
emotions necessary to lead a happy and healthy
life. This "wounding" during childhood starts us
on a path to constructing defenses or survival
strategies as we try and prevent this wounding
from occurring again. We can and will hide our
true essence for fear of it not being appropriate
to others and of certain "death" of who we are,
should we not conform. As we grow older and form
relationships with partners, our truest mirror of
where we are at on all levels, survival
strategies can build into hugely complicated
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