Why is He Scared of A Long Distance Relationship?

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Why is He Scared of a Long Distance Relationship?
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Are you ready to commit to long distance love and
your man has cold feet? This is a tough
situation, but I think that my experience can
provide the right kind of advice for your long
distance relationship to flourish. There are some
very basic questions you need to ask yourself if
he is afraid to get into the relationship. I
think my advice below will not only help you
identify the issue, but also find a remedy for it.
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How well do you know each other? My girlfriend
and I have been together for 10 months and we
couldnt be happier. I think a lot of that has to
do with the amount of work we do on building the
actual bond between us. It began with a lot of
old fashioned getting to know each other.
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We really went from A to B to C in a
stereotypical relationship. What do you do? Where
did you go to college? Where are you from? Simple
things like that go a long way in learning about
person. Not only that but they segue into other
conversations and subjects that will build even
more links between you.
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Perhaps your man has some cold feet because he
has reservations because his heart isnt
convinced that he knows you well enough to
commit.  I think a great place to start if your
man isnt interested is asking if your
foundations are well built.
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Physical Connection  Another place to look if
your man is afraid to commit to a long distance
relationship is the strength of your physical
connection, and more specifically, his needs.
This can be a tough one to feel out but men
need a physical connection with their mate and
the very definition of a long distance
relationship makes that difficult.
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Try to find out his physical needs without asking
directly. You can pick up on his signals by the
amount of touching he does while you two are
together. Is he constantly holding your hand or
twirling your hair? How often does he kiss you?
How frequent are sexual interactions? I think you
can get a pretty good idea of his needs by just
reading the clues he is leaving, but if not than
perhaps it is best to just come out and ask.
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Be cognizant of the fact that these types of
things can be difficult to talk about if you
arent used to it so tread lightly. Frame the
conversation with smaller talk and then just come
out with it. Say something like, We both have
needs from a physical standpoint and I just want
to make sure you feel open to talk about
yours. That will ease any awkwardness and
hopefully hell be able to express what is going
on from that standpoint. If you dont think it is
a lack of physical connection, nor you two not
knowing each other well enough than lets look to
his other options for some more reasons he is
afraid to commit.
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The third thing would be What are his other
options? Think about this one long and hard
because he might not be giving you the full story
on why he isnt interested in jumping into a long
distance relationship. My honest advice is that
he may just be saying he is scared to commit to a
LDR when in reality he just has other
options. His other options might include other
love interests or wanting to be single.
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I think the hardest to spot is the latter
wanting to be single. This would be basically him
saying to you, Id rather go it alone than
commit myself to a long distance
relationship. That is a very difficult thing to
say if he cares about you, though, especially if
he cares about your feelings being hurt. You must
realize that the prospects of a long distance
relationship are fairly grim so the long term
gain must outweigh the difficult that is inherent
in a LDR.
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He might also have another love interest in mind.
This could be difficult to compete with
especially if that other person lives in the same
area. If you suspect this is the case than you
had better bring it up. Are you afraid to enter
into our relationship because there is someone
else that is a closer distance to you?, is a
great question to ask.
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If you dont ask and you suspect there is
something like this than youll regret it because
youll always wonder what is going on. Youll be
beating yourself up checking his Facebook
everyday to see whether he is in a relationship
or if there are pictures of him with someone
else. My advice is to just be honest with
yourself and analyze his situation he may have
other options that he feels are better routes.
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