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Getting Back Together With An Ex-Boyfriend
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Getting Back Together With An Ex-Boyfriend 9
simple tips So, here you are, already on the
third tub of your favorite ice cream, your mind
going crazy with ways of getting back together
with an ex-boyfriend. You spent your day binge
watching series on Netflix. In the background you
listen to songs from your break-up playlist, and
tissues are strewn all over the place
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Believe me, I know a break-up can cause a lot of
pain, both physically and mentally. The
relationship with the man you are so much
attached to is over. But now, you want your ex
back . You miss him, and wish you could go back
in time so you can be with him again.
Allow me to help you with getting back together
with your ex-boyfriend. Not only that, in this
article I also give you tips on the best things
you do after a break-up. In this article you
will learn The most important secret to remember
when thinking of getting back together with an
ex-boyfriend Why most men detest drama and how
that will help you 3 things you must ABSOLUTELY
not do if you want your ex back. How social
media can help you get your ex back Why you want
to be a zebra instead of a lion
This Free Video Presentation Reveals More Secrets
To Getting Back Together with Your Ex- Boyfriend
Tip 1 Put yourself first It is out between you
and your boyfriend and you feel nauseated and
devastated. Let me tell you what you need to do
to get rid of this feeling in addition, it will
also help you getting back together with an
ex-boyfriend. Take a deep breath, exhale, stay
calm and take a step back. It may sound strange,
but, there is a more important person you need to
get back before getting your ex back. That
person is no other than you yourself. Let me
explain. Only once you get yourself back on track
will you be able to think clearly enough to take
the necessary steps in getting back together
with an ex-boyfriend successfully. I know, this
is easier said than done, and in order to help
you, here are a few things you can do NOW that
will make you feel a lot better. Sports Your
body and mind are inextricably linked. If you put
a big smile on your face and start to jump up and
down, it is almost impossible to feel depressed.
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Do not worry, Im not going to ask you to jump up
and down. What you have to do is move as much as
possible. You only feel worse when you sit still
all day and constantly keep thinking about how
getting back together with an ex- boyfriend can
be achieved. You will feel better when
exercising. Research shows that sports
significantly reduces the risk of depression. If
you continue to exercise a lot, the bad feeling
of the break-up will disappear over time. In
addition, sport naturally ensures that you will
look better. That is not only fun for yourself,
but it can also help you get your ex back. Use
your own needs as a distraction Youve been
together with someone for a while. Of course that
time was great fun, but a relationship also means
that you have to take one another into
account. One can get so involved in putting the
other persons needs above our own and in the
process neglect ourselves. Now that you have
more time on your hands is the ideal time to work
on those things you never got time for before.
That said, make good use of the time before you
get back in a relationship where once again your
time will not be your own. Could happen sooner
than you think Just think about it, you can do
whatever you want without having to consider a
partner (I know it sounds selfish, me time is
important though). Give it some thought and
remind yourself of the things you used to do for
fun. Maybe you like reading, going for long
walks, visit a friend who lives in another state,
etc. Do things that will assist in dealing with
a break-up, and see them as stepping stones to a
better you, especially when you decide to do
things youve never done before. And that, dear
reader, is not only pleasant for yourself but
also makes you more attractive to your ex, or
other men who are lucky enough to meet you. Put
distance between yourself your ex Listen, I
understand you want your ex back and as promised
I will certainly help you with that. It is
however very important to put some distance
between yourself and your ex-boyfriend. Youre
on drugs. Or, more accurately, your brain is on
the drugs. When you are in love with someone and
you all of a sudden have a break-up, you just
cannot think clearly. Should you decide to call
your ex while intoxicated with liquor, hoping to
get the relationship fixed, is just about the
dumbest thing you can do. Remove your ex
(temporarily) from your phone, keep your distance
and avoid all contact. But what if you bump into
him? Very simple. Think of the KISS (Keep It
Short Simple) technique. In short keep it
short, keep it simple and do not discuss your
relationship or the break-up. Contacting your ex
is something you will do at a later stage, and I
will further down explain how best to do this
now however is not the time.
Tip 2 How to get your ex back by doing
less Its out with your ex, you feel terrible
and now youre actively trying to win him back.
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You constantly send him messages, you long for
his attention and try to see him as often as
possible. Strangely enough, after a while you
notice he is more distant and he no longer has
to make any effort. In fact, because you are
desperate and constantly trying to get his
attention, it makes him feel more powerful. In
this instance you really want the roles turned
around. You can do this by applying the tips from
tip 1 above. If you play it well, after a while
the following will happen He will not hear from
you at all. Eventually he will start to wonder
how you are doing. Because you are busy with
other things and have taken a step back, you give
him the time to miss YOU. Then one day it happens
that he bumps into you and sees that you Look
better because you do a lot of sports Became a
better person because you have continued to
develop yourself You have no need of him, and so
he just has to prove himself to you again Instead
of running after your ex, you will see that after
a while he runs after you again. And that is of
course much better than the other way around.
Tip 3 Think back on the break-up If getting back
together with your ex-boyfriend is what you want,
there is an essential thing you will have to do.
In order to do this thing, you have to go back
in time. Imagine a time machine. Set the time
machine to the moment of the break-up. I
understand you would rather not go back to this
time, but it is necessary if you want to restore
your relationship. You do this so you can
determine where things went wrong. It is
important to set aside your pride and think about
what you specifically have done wrong. Think
about why he broke up with you. What did he say
when he broke up? Did you give him too little
attention, hurt his ego or maybe you didnt
listen well?
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Whatever it is, it is extremely important to know
what your share in the break-up has been. Read
more on what men want in a woman, it may help
you in discovering your own part in the
break-up If you now think now It was all his
fault, then I have painful news for youHe
probably thinks its all your fault. The truth
must therefore be somewhere in the middle. It is
important to take responsibility and think about
the part you played in making him break up with
you, even if you think it is all his fault. If
you can identify this, you can rectify it and
ensure that you do not make the same mistake
should you get him back. This information will
also be useful if you ever bump into another nice
man. WATCH OUT! There is one very important
thing that you have to remember with this
tipNever ask him, while you feel emotional, and
there is no new positive contact together, what
exactly went wrong First of all, you want to
ensure that you build a positive contact and
attraction together again, and once the
relationship is better, you can together discuss
what went wrong in the past and how to prevent
it. So check with yourself what went wrong and
fix that error. Only then will it be possible
getting back together with an ex-boyfriend
Tip 4 Avoid soap opera scenes if getting back
together with an ex-boyfriend is what you want!
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Have you ever noticed how many more women than
men watch soap operas? Most men would stay home
for the football match, but very few will make
sure theyre home for the latest episode of the
latest soap. This is very important to remember
if you want your ex back. By that I do not mean
that from now on you will have to follow every
football match, what I mean is this be very
aware of the fact that men are allergic to
drama. Calling him crying and desperately asking
him why it is out is a very bad idea. Even if you
know how to control your emotions, it is still a
bad idea to meet with him because you want
clarity Most men know that is going to be one
tough conversation, and they have no idea how to
deal with dramatheyre actually scared to
death. Ill tell you a secret Men like to keep
things simple. He did it and its done. Dramatic
scenes will only cause him to distance himself
even more. There are many better ways in getting
back together with an ex-boyfriend. Read on
Tip 5 Change from lion to zebra Choosing between
a lion and a zebra is an easy choice. At least
for me. I would rather not be eaten, so I choose
to be a lion. However, if you want to get your
ex back, you have to become a zebra Allow me to
explain. Lions run hard to catch the zebra. Just
like some people start running after their ex
when they want him back. But, you want HIM to
run after YOU and not the other way around. You
can do this in the following ways Make it clear
to him that youre done with him
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He does not want a relationship anymore? Fine by
you, he must know then, it is really done. Break
any contact and stay away. He does not know what
he is missing. Because you suddenly keep your
distance and make no contact will ensure he
wants to come back Challenge him when you see
him If you bump into your ex, flirt with him.
Challenge him. Make sure you drive him
crazy. Think back to the first date Remember
your first date? Remember how nice you were then?
He fell madly in love with you. To unleash this
feeling in him again, behave exactly as you did
in the beginning of your relationship, every time
you see him. If you get the chance, mention some
old memories from the first dates with him. When
he starts thinking about it, the same feelings
he experienced on the first date will come back
to him. Do these things and in a matter of time
he will start running after you like a lion again.
Tip 6 Carefully start making contact with
him Before you contact him again, there are a few
important things to remember. Unless you are
completely over the break-up, DO NOT contact
your ex-boyfriend. Make sure you have no more
hang-ups over the break-up. Assuming you are
confident that you harbour no more resentment
over what happened, you can now try to contact
him in a very casual way. Do not announce that
you want him back or discuss the break-up. A
simple message like Hey, I happen to be in the
neighborhood. Do you feel like drinking
something? J is enough to get in touch with him
again. Make it look like a spontaneous idea.
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Keep these things in mind when you contact
him Keep it casual and cozy at all times Try to
create an atmosphere similar to what you had on
the first date Try to charm him like you did
when you first met one another Once the
atmosphere is pleasant and you are both at ease,
you can ask very carefully, objectively and
casually where things went wrong. Once you have
asked, listen carefully to his story and respect
him. Do not get angry over the reason he gives
and do not start to defend yourself like a
madwoman. A quarrel is the last thing you want
during your time together.
Tip 7 Use social media to your advantage Imagine
your ex is on Facebook. Bored he scrolls through
his newsfeed. Nothing interesting. But
then Suddenly he sees one of the sexiest photos
he has ever seen of you. He cannot resist
clicking on your Facebook profile. Scrolling
through interesting photos and status updates he
sees what a very interesting life you lead.
Because cool messages about you appear in his
newsfeed, he can hardly NOT think of you You
want to know the best part about this? He
constantly sees photos of you with other men. And
you look so good! He becomes jealous, and wants
to do
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nothing more than get in touch with you. We live
in the 21st century. Make good use of the
technology available to assist you in getting
back together with an ex-boyfriend. It is only a
matter of time before he stands at your door again
Tip 8 Showing him how sexy you are is a knockout
way in getting back together with an
ex-boyfriend It has been a while since you spoke
to him. You have worked hard on yourself since
the break-up. The many hours that you spent in
the gym have paid off. You look even more
attractive than you were Out of nowhere he
receives a picture of you, showing off your
fantastic body. A message like Oops, was meant
for someone elseis a fantastic addition to the
picture. Not only do you show him how sexy you
are, but you also make him jealous. By the way,
once you have sent this to him, you keep silent.
You do not start a conversation to the likes of
how are things with you? Let him work for you,
not the other way around.
Tip 9 Three things that you absolutely do not
want to do in getting back together with your
ex-boyfriend You have enough tips to help you
conquer the heart of your ex again. Of course you
do not want to ruin it after all the effort. To
prevent that, I have three things here that you
absolutely DO NOT want to do if you want your ex
back.
Become friends with your ex Never become friends
unless you like tormenting yourself. After all,
you want him back as your partner. If you stay
friends with him, you will soon end up in the
infamous friend zone. You will then have to
watch how he enters into a relationship with a
woman who is not you. In short you either take
him back as your partner or nothing at all. There
is no reason to continue to torture yourself
when there is no future with the guy.
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Try to win him back with presents Unfortunately,
this often happens. Girls try getting back
together with an ex-boyfriend by buying him
(often expensive) gifts. Before you know it, he
abuses your generosity. Not only will you be left
behind with a broken heart, but also with an
empty wallet.
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Blaming him for the break-up As discussed before,
it is important to remember that you should never
blame him for the break-up. This is a definite
no-no if getting back together with an
ex-boyfriend is what you want. I understand that
partly it may be the case, but there is no point
in continuing to hammer on this. Youll only make
him feel worse and he may end up not wanting to
be with you. Be prepared to admit your own
mistakes and work on improving them specifically.
Conclusion Once you have your ex back, you want
to make sure that he stays. In fact, you want to
make sure that you are the only woman he thinks
of. You want to make sure that he falls madly in
love with you and never ever leaves you. Treasure
the one you love, do not allow little foxes to
destroy your relationshipyou do not want to once
again seek help in getting back together with an
ex-boyfriend!
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