Jytte Vikkelse

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• Jytte Vikkelsøe
• Principal at the KaosPilots, Århus

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Stretching our beliefs
David Whyte When you live on the outer edge, the
what you think is you are having a dialogue with
what is not you - thats where you as a person
evolves! Michail ?? Choose the stretch of your
goals wisely.
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Den fragmenterede selvopfattelse

• Children learn that their behaviour can be
  questioned, but never their love.
• As love is being commercialized...??
• We become more and more dependent on positive
  feedback. In negative feedback we return to the
  state as a child.
• Alas showing who we really are is the most
  difficult thing in the world, as our belief
  system is based on questioning from our parents.
• IOT navigate in chaos, go out of control and use
  the learning's I'll give you.
• That is why we drink and it shows up when we are
  drunk!

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Den fragmenterede selvopfattelse

• If something catches your eye and you turn around
  after it. It is experiences outside ourselves
  that is interesting for your inside. This is
  flirting!
• Be aware to analyse your body symptoms. When you
  know how to interpret it you will understand
  yourself better.

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Exercise

• Draw the circles on a huge piece of paper.

SM Small circle LC Unknown (large circle) IBC
Inner belief systems
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Exercise

• Exercise no 1
• Identity and non-identity
• 1. Describe yourself / introduce yourself / who
  do you identify as?
• - A caring person that will change/educate
  myself to be a better person, believing in person
  well being. Im kind and calm, maybe to calm.
  Easy to rely on. Competitive.
• A) What talents do you have.
• - Quick learner, skilled leader (in a linear
  way), expects much from my surroundings.
• B) What could you develop into if you were 100
  behind yourself (aim high)?
• - Best husband and loving father in the world
  while being a good friend. At the job Ill be an
  executive in a management consultant firm.
• C) on a scale 1-10 how much do you live in this
  talent?
• - 5

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Exercise

• Exercise no 1 continued
• A) What kind of things would you like to do?
• - Consultancy, leading, listen to music, play,
  exercise. Evolve - be crazy!
• B) But cant quite do?
• - Lead in a systemic way. Be crazy.
• C) Whats in the way
• - My old version of leadership. My parents and
  their beliefs
• What kinds of problems do you struggle with these
  days or in general?
• - Economic - Time - Family.
• What are your worst fears, self-doubt, and
  insecurities? On a scale 1-10, how much do you
  think they impact your life?
• - Inadequacy to parents and my self. Financial
  breakdown.
• Where do you procrastinate in life?
• - When Im insecure with things and dont feel
  safe.
• What are your biggest ambitions, hopes, dreams?
  On a scale 1-10 how well do you live these?
• - Personal - 5

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Resistance at the frontier

• Consensus reality (CR) the reality we all agree
  upon (unknown in i.e. Mars)
• Problems start when we state that something is
  the norm and we put other things aside.

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Example

• - If you talk about a problem, and dont do
  anything about it, the problems stays and circles
  around in the ID!
• Instead go out into the experience. The only way
  you can step through the unconscious is through
  the body.
• Through understanding where you are in life,
  your dreams and your body symptoms (what makes
  the symptom), you can solve the problem/issue.

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Breaking free

• How are you a leader for yourself
• When you recognize how you react to
  incidents/problems, then you can transend
  yourself from being a part/take a part of the
  problems
• Today will be
• Addiction
• Resistance on the Edge
• Procrastination

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Resistance at the edge

• Every time you procrastinate you experience
  conflict between your unconscious and your ID
• If you procrastinate too long youll develop
  addictive tendencies. If you get a fix another
  way it makes status quo more bearable.
• The more substances you take IOT to go to the
  unconscious, the lesser you get of the real
  experience - You are not dealing with your
  problem.
• In creativity you pay the price first and get the
  awards after. In addictions/entertainments you
  get the award up front - and pays afterwards...

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Resistance at the edge

• What we marginalize within ourselves and dont
  get space will always seek towards an expression
  (i.e. Addictions).
• Addictions keeps us from what we crave for in
  life
• When we take a substance were healing the
  fragmentation within ourselves.
• Watch Requiem for a Dream.

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