DARE 2 Win

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DARE 2 Win

• Jean Hedges

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Goals

• Have you ever had a goal where you knew what you
  needed to do, but you found yourself sabotaging
  your success?
• Health
• Relationships
• Finances
• Spirituality

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Emotions

• Emotions are the engine that run our actions.
• The programming weve had throughout our life
  ties into emotions and some of the wiring gets
  mixed and knotted over time.
• So when you know you need to eat healthy, but end
  up at Wendys eating a cheeseburger and fries and
  sabotaging your health goal. Theres an
  emotional knot thats not resolved.

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In Stride

• When we are in these emotional knots, we say we
  are Out of Stride
• When we are in our productive energized state we
  say we are in the ZONE

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The Zone

• The DARE System keeps you on top of when you are
  in the ZONE vs out of stride.
• Out of stride includes Depression and all of
  its ugly heads boredom, gloom, frustration, as
  well as
• Anxiety or Stress includes anger, rage,
  nervousness, fear, paranoia

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Reactions

• The DARE system gives you a simple method to
  monitor where you are.
• The biggest reason we encounter setbacks is we
  have no idea most of the time where are
  emotionally because we are so caught up in our
  reactions. We just know we arent getting the
  outcomes we want.
• We are reacting and letting events and people
  pull our strings as if we were puppets!

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In Your Zone

• When you are in your Zone, you are acting not
  reacting
• You are in full control of your actions and as a
  result, the desired outcomes follow
• Part of being in the zone is understanding luck
  and fate will play into things, but to develop
  the ability to stay the course regardless of the
  headwinds or tailwinds life throws your way.

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Monitor

• We use gauges to monitor many things We have a
  gas gauge on the car, a speedometer, a
  thermostat, a scale, even a mirror to gauge our
  outward appearance. We use tools to gauge and
  measure just about every aspect of our life. Yet
  we dont ever think to get a gauge on our
  emotional state!
• DARE is a tool to gauge your emotions. Once you
  have a handle on exactly where you are, its
  amazing how productive you can become at getting
  back to your zone or holding it! The more you do
  it the more it becomes a habit!

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Habits

• Ultimately we are all products of our habits.
  Using the system creates new habits.
• Attending a single workshop, reading a book, or
  dieting for two weeks isnt going to produce
  meaningful, lasting change, but by constantly
  evaluating where we are and prioritizing where we
  want to be, we learn to recondition and
  re-pattern ourselves (re habit) into the person
  we want to be!

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Program yourself for success

• You have a program running your life. It is
  invisible but its there.
• It started the day you were born when your
  parents smiled and rewarded you for good
  behavior and punished you overtly or covertly
  for bad behavior.

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Conditioning

• It continued when you were with peers. They
  accepted you for good behavior or ostracized
  you (or worse for bad behavior.
• Then of course theres the media hard at work
  24/7 trying to get you to do what they want.
  After all you deserve a break today! If you
  break your heel, break out your Visa Card.

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Whose Life is it Anyway?

• Then you went to work and a whole new set of
  behaviors started being rewarded or punished, new
  friends ditto, managers ditto. So at the end of
  the day, or more accurately, from the time you
  wake up, some one or something is trying to
  control your behavior for their benefit.

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Hes Ours!

• I actually heard a manager at the company where
  my husband work gloating over a new hire that
  just took on a lot of debtexpensive house and a
  boat. He said, Thats what we love to see.
  Hes ours now!

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Easy as A, B, C

• The DARE System has two parts.
• The first is gaining an understanding of what
  really puts you into your stride or Zone. Weve
  been so conditioned our entire life to think in a
  certain way, we often have completely convoluted
  our true priorities. This is where depression,
  anxiety, aggression stem.

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You Have the Power

• The second phase which is done simultaneously is
  reprogramming ourselves with goal setting,
  affirmations, and flexible prioritizing to fully
  understand what we want. When we arent
  succeeding at a specific goal its because it is
  in conflict with another goal or program running
  in our subconscious. First we need to be clear
  whether we are responding to programmed
  conditioning or our own priority, then we need to
  prioritize what we really want and gear our
  actions accordinglyawareness makes this a
  natural processwe arent using willpower or
  fighting ourselves.
• We are able to BE our true selves!

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Balance

• Its about balance. True balance takes awareness
  and focus. This system gives you a simple tool
  to achieve both!
• Think about how much the pharmaceutical companies
  and medical communities and self help industry
  has to lose if people learn how simple it is to
  get clear, and stay happy and healthy without all
  of their expensive advice and products. DARE
  empowers you to take control and walk away from
  all of that junk and live a full and joyous life!

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For More Information

• www.darejournal.com