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Welcome to MENS FRATERNITY!
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FEMALE BRAIN
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FEMALE BRAIN
1 2 3
1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
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FEMALE BRAIN
Irrational Thoughts
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1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
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FEMALE BRAIN
Jealousy
Irrational Thoughts
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1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
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FEMALE BRAIN
Need for Commitment Hemisphere
Jealousy
Irrational Thoughts
1 2 3
1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
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Sense of Direction Nuclei
FEMALE BRAIN
Need for Commitment Hemisphere
Jealousy
Irrational Thoughts
1 2 3
1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
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Sense of Direction Nuclei
FEMALE BRAIN
Need for Commitment Hemisphere
Ice Cream Receptor
Jealousy
Irrational Thoughts
1 2 3
1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
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Sense of Direction Nuclei
FEMALE BRAIN
Need for Commitment Hemisphere
Ice Cream Receptor
Jealousy
Irrational Thoughts
1 2 3
Choc. Center
1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
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Sense of Direction Nuclei
FEMALE BRAIN
Need for Commitment Hemisphere
Ice Cream Receptor
Jealousy
Irrational Thoughts
1 2 3
Choc. Center
Argue Debate Lobe
1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
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Sense of Direction Nuclei
FEMALE BRAIN
Need for Commitment Hemisphere
Ice Cream Receptor
Jealousy
Irrational Thoughts
1 2 3
Choc. Center
Argue Debate Lobe
1 - Phone Skills 2 - Shopping 3 - Indecision
Sex Particle
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MALE BRAIN
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MALE BRAIN
SEX
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MALE BRAIN
SEX
Interrupt Lobe
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MALE BRAIN
SEX
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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MALE BRAIN
SEX
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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MALE BRAIN
SEX
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Commitment Molecule
Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Commitment Molecule
Stick Shift
Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Commitment Molecule
C.F. Lobe
Stick Shift
Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Commitment Molecule
C.F. Lobe
Stick Shift
Lame Excuses Gland
Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Commitment Molecule
C.F. Lobe
Stick Shift
Lame Excuses Gland
Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
R.C. Addiction Center
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Commitment Molecule
C.F. Lobe
Stick Shift
Lame Excuses Gland
Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
R.C. Addiction Center
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Listening Particle
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Commitment Molecule
C.F. Lobe
Stick Shift
Lame Excuses Gland
Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
R.C. Addiction Center
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Listening Particle
Personal Hygiene Atom
Short Attention Span Fragment
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Commitment Molecule
C.F. Lobe
Stick Shift
Lame Excuses Gland
Sports
MALE BRAIN
SEX
R.C. Addiction Center
Math
TV
Interrupt Lobe
Listening Particle
Personal Hygiene Atom
Short Attention Span Fragment
Ask for Directions Resistance Center
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OUR KEY VERSE
You husbands likewise, live with your wives in an
understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since
she is a woman and grant her honor as a
fellow-heir of the grace of life, so that your
prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 37 (NASV)
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OUR KEY VERSE
You husbands must be careful of your wives, being
thoughtful of their needs and honoring them
Remember that you and your wife are partners in
receiving Gods blessings, and if you dont treat
her as you should, your prayers will not get
ready answers. 1 Peter 37 (Living Bible)
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3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

• The Top-Down Traditional

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3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

• The Top-Down Traditional / LORD

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3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

• The Top-Down Traditional / LORD
• 2. 50-50 Identical

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3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

• The Top-Down Traditional / LORD
• 2. 50-50 Identical / PARTNER

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3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

• The Top-Down Traditional / LORD
• 2. 50-50 Identical / PARTNER
• 3. Side-by-Side Biblical

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3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

• The Top-Down Traditional / LORD
• 2. 50-50 Identical / PARTNER
• 3. Side-by-Side Biblical / HEAD

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CORE ISSUES
CORE A small but essential ingredient that
every marriage must not ignore, neglect, or
compromise if it is to be successful overall.
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CORE ISSUES

• Core Roles That God gives a husband and wife
  in marriage

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CORE ROLES
Wife
Husband
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CORE ROLES
Wife
Husband
HELPER
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An excellent wife, who can find? Her worth is far
above jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in
her and he will have no lack of gain. She does
him good and not evil all the days of her life.
She looks well to the ways of her household and
does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children
rise up and bless her her husband also, and he
praises her, saying, Many daughters have done
nobly, but you excel them all. Proverbs
3110-12, 27-29
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CORE ROLES
Wife
Husband
HELPER
HEAD
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For the husband is the head of the wife, as
Christ also is the head of the church. Ephesians
523
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CORE ISSUES

• Core Roles That God gives a husband and wife
  in marriage
• Core Responses That empower your mates role

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CORE RESPONSES
Wife
Husband
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CORE RESPONSES
Honor Praise
You husbands likewise, live with your wives in an
understanding way, as with a weaker vessel, since
she is a woman and grant her honor as a
fellow-heir of the grace of life, so that your
prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 37
Wife
Husband
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Her husband praises her, saying, Many daughters
have done nobly, but you excel them
all. Proverbs 3128b-29
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CORE RESPONSES
Honor Praise
Wives, be subject to your husbands as is fitting
in the Lord. Colossians 318
Wife
Husband
Submission
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CORE ISSUES

• Core Roles That God gives a husband and wife
  in marriage
• Core Responses That empower your mates role
• Core Concerns That meet your mates deepest
  needs

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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
Wife
Husband
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
Companionship
Wife
Husband
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
CompanionshipAdmiration
Wife
Husband
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
CompanionshipAdmirationSupport
Wife
Husband
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
CompanionshipAdmirationSupportPhysical
Responsiveness
Wife
Husband
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
CompanionshipAdmirationSupportPhysical
Responsiveness
Wife
Husband
Companionship
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
CompanionshipAdmirationSupportPhysical
Responsiveness
Wife
Husband
CompanionshipSecurity
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
CompanionshipAdmirationSupportPhysical
Responsiveness
Wife
Husband
CompanionshipSecuritySignificance
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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CORE CONCERNS
Honor Praise
CompanionshipAdmirationSupportPhysical
Responsiveness
Wife
Husband
CompanionshipSecuritySignificanceEmotional
Responsiveness
HELPER
HEAD
Submission
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HOW A HUSBAND SPEAKS WOMAN
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HOW A HUSBAND SPEAKS WOMAN
COMPANIONSHIP
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COMPANIONSHIP
MUST DO
Regularly date your wife (and talk about your
world and hers).
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COMPANIONSHIP
CAN DO
Develop a common play together. The couple
that plays together, stays together.
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COMPANIONSHIP
COURAGE TO DO
Plan a special just for you two getaway. It
will build great memories, strengthen your
relationship, and encourage romance.
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HOW A HUSBAND SPEAKS WOMAN
SECURITY
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SECURITY
MUST DO
From time to time, tell your wife, I am
committed to you for life! Your wedding
anniversary is a good time to say this or put it
in writing.
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SECURITY
CAN DO
Establish financial disciplines. Avoid debt as
much as possible. Develop a long-range security
plan for your wife that includes
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SECURITY
COURAGE TO DO
Seek to provide financially so that your wife
doesnt have to work, especially while raising
young children.
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HOW A HUSBAND SPEAKS WOMAN
SIGNIFICANCE
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SIGNIFICANCE
MUST DO
Regularly tell your wife how much you value what
she does and how important she is to you.
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SIGNIFICANCE
CAN DO
Surprise your wife with a note of praise (with
flowers is even better!) or a special night out
just to say thank you for all she does for you.
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SIGNIFICANCE
COURAGE TO DO
From time to time, lavish your wife with special
gifts jewelry, a surprise trip, money just to
spend on her, etc. The costlier, the better.
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HOW A HUSBAND SPEAKS WOMAN
EMOTIONAL RESPONSIVENESS
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EMOTIONAL RESPONSIVENESS
MUST DO
Regularly tell your wife (with a hug), I love
you.
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EMOTIONAL RESPONSIVENESS
CAN DO
Learn to say, So, tell me how youre doing in
a quiet place with time to listen.
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EMOTIONAL RESPONSIVENESS
COURAGE TO DO
On special occasions, let your wife know why you
love her, with spoken words, a card, or in a
poem, etc. Spell out in detail all the things
you admire and love about her. Be specific and
romantic.
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WHYSIDE-BY-SIDE BIBLICAL?

• It positions a man and a woman for what they
  naturally do best.

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WHYSIDE-BY-SIDE BIBLICAL?

• It positions a man and a woman for what they
  naturally do best.
• It organizes a man and a woman to complement
  each other rather than compete with each other.

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WHYSIDE-BY-SIDE BIBLICAL?
C. It creates an environment that is best for the
healthy development of children. D. It becomes
the ideal we can train our children from an early
age to embrace.
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WHYSIDE-BY-SIDE BIBLICAL?

• It honors Gods Word and is blessed by Him.
• It prospers and advances society as a whole.

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The strength of a nationlies in the homes of
its people. Abraham Lincoln
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