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Games for Mastering Fear
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Training Content

• Introductory Comments
• How to use the manual
• The Training Game opening frames
• Benefits of course
• How do you play the game of fear.

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Step 1 Game Recognition

• Kinds of internal games we play
• Game detection
• The Neuro-Semantics of fear
• The games of fear
• Modeling secrets of those who face fear with
  courage
• How to play Frame Games
• Worksheets
• Frame Game Questions

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Step 2 Developing the Power to Play

• Introduction to Meta-States
• The Aim Game
• Ownership of Power Zone
• The Power of yes and no

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Step 3 Slaying the Fear Dragon

• Retiring Old Movies Game
• Emotions are just Signals
• Acceptance Game
• Gloriously Fallible Game
• Dragon Slaying Game
• Meta-Stating Negative Emotions
• The Permission Game

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Step 4 Committed to Playing the New Games

• Mind-to-Muscle Game
• The Swish Game
• Meta-Stating Courage
• The Excuse Blow-Out Game
• The Miracle Game
• The Drop Down Through Game
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Step 4 Committed to Playing the New Games

• Foregrounding Resources
• Meta-Stating Semantic Fears
• The Totally Congruent Game
• The Bounce Back Game

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Are your ready for a new game?

• Do you run scared in life?
• Does fear, anxiety, apprehension, and dread
  dominate your life?
• Do you take far too much counsel of fear?
• Would you like to run a new game and master your
  fears?

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How to Use this Manual.

1. Course is not for everyone.
2. For those willing to do whatever it takes to
   address their fears.
3. It will work if you work it!

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Working it means ?

• Willingness to follow the processes and play the
  games.
• Trust the process.
• Entering with an open mind.

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Working it means?

• Suspending doubts and worries.
• Willingness to create new mental maps.
• Putting off the testing and questioning until the
  end.

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Structural Approach?

• This means this study is not about toughing it
  out, etc.
• It is not about facing down the emotion.
• It is about learning a new game plan.

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Structural Approach?

• This course is about changing the mental
  software that runs the program of fear(s).
• This makes the approach gentle and easy.

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NLP and Neuro-Semantics are all about you
choosing which thought you want to run and
dominate your mind-body system.
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Some Questions

• Who will you become as you become oriented by
  faith, hope and vision rather than by fear?

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Some Questions

• What will be the three most critical fears that
  you want to completely master through this study?
• Write them down for future measurement as to
  strength.

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Some Questions

• How will mastering those fears affect your life?
• How will they affect your professional, personal
  and private life?

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Some Questions

• How will that be valuable to you?
• What will change in your life?

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Some Questions

• When you think about the you for whom the old
  fears are no longer a problem, what are the most
  exciting and significant facets of that new you?

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Some Questions

• Who will be most affected in your life by this
  mastering of these fears?
• When you fully step into the place where you have
  mastered the fears, what frame of mind will you
  be in?

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The Training Game

• Have lots of fun as you develop your expertise.
• No Shame/No Blame.
• The person is never the problem.
• The frame is always the problem.

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The Training Game

• The Frame is the problem.
• Inability to act on knowledge.
• Continuance of the same problems year after year.
• Feeling controlled.

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The Training Game

• The Frame is the problem.
• Attempted Solutions make the Problem worse.
• Going around in circles.
• Diminishing returns.

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The Training Game

• Its all about Detection and Re-Designing of New
  Frames.
• This training is about learning how to say No
  to un-useful frames.
• And how to say Yes to mind games we choose.

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Benefits of this Course

• Discovery of the secrets for effectively handling
  Your emotions, especially your fears.
• Learn not to spot and stop irrational fearing.
• Eliminate needlessly amplifying fear.

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Benefits of the Course?

• Play new emotional games faith, courage, hope,
  etc.
• Access the higher levels of your mind.
• Develop this kind of courage.
• How to turn on fear antidotes Faith, Trust,
  Courage, etc.

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How do you Play the Game of Fear?

• As an emotion, fear is your friend.
• So, welcome it, embrace it.
• Reasonable and appropriate fear gives you vital
  information.

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Fear of Fear? The Enemy

• As an emotion, fear recognizes danger.
• Fear of fear ? thats our enemy.
• When we fear our thoughts, that is what causes
  trouble.

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Fear of Fear? The Enemy

• We when fear some event out there we reference
  the world.
• When we fear our thoughts, feelings, states,
  beliefs, etc we reference ourselves.

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Meta-States
M E T A - S T A T E S
5th Level of Abstraction Words about 4th
Meta-meta-meta words.
_at_
4th Level of Abstraction Meta- Meta-Level Words
about 3rd
Meta-Meta Words
_at_
3rd Level of Abstraction Meta-Level Words about
2nd
Meta Word Meanings
_at_
2nd Level of Abstraction Primary Level Word
Meanings about 1st
Word Meanings
_at_
Image picture, sounds, feelings, smells taste
1st Level of Abstraction
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Structure of Paranoia
The Frames
I am afraid of my fear!
Repetitive Meta-Level thinking creates
Meta-States that act as mental filters.   This
thinking creates a filter of paranoia through
which the person experiences his or her
world.   Fear will attract more fear to feed
it.
Meta- Level
_at_ about
P A R I N O I A   F I L T E R
Pr ima r y   L e v e l
I am afraid of that!
_at_ about
Re-present on the screen of the mind. (VAKOG)
Event in external world that triggered fear.
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Psychic Energy

• When we fear our thoughts, we turn our psychic
  energy against ourselves.
• Whatever frame of reference/or frame of mind you
  develop and bring to your emotional experience of
  fear, determines the game you play.

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Whatever Game you play in life around fear comes
from and reflects on some Frame that youve
accepted, bought into, or been sold.Together,
frame and game makes up the Frame Games that you
play.
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Flush Out the Frame

• Throughout the training we will be detecting our
  relationship to fear as both an emotion and a
  concept.
• This enables flushing out the Frame Games that we
  play.
• From there we can choose new Frame Games.

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The Good News

• The good news is that whatever relationship you
  have developed to fear, you have learned it.
• That means, you can unlearn it.

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The Map is not the Territory.

• Our way of relating to fear has developed from
  how we have mapped it perceptually.
• Its just a map its not real its not the
  territory.

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Internal Reality Is Entirely Map Governed

• Once you map it it becomes your internal
  reality.
• Whatever you map governs your body and seems
  real.
• But it is a constructed reality.
• It therefore can be re-constructed.

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Your Power - Constructed

• If you think the outside world controls your
  inner world, you give up your power.
• Once you fully realize that fear is internal
  and constructed, you can re-construct it.

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