The Deep Change Within

1
The Deep Change Within

• Motivation1.com
• Paul Clayton

2
What Did You About Change

• Learning not to listen to that Voice inside.

3
Happiness is the Difference of what you want vs.
what you get.
What you want
What Is
4
True Happiness is being in the present moment

• Not holding on to the past.
• Not worrying about the future.

5
Happiness is

• expectations /-
• reality
• happiness

6
Happiness Level
Very Happy
Happy
Unhappy
Your Happiness is based on your expectations.
7
You have Several Choices
Accept
Happy
Reality
Change the things you can
Upset Unhappy Angry
Dont accept and try and Change something you
cannot change
8
Emotions
9
Our Belief System

• What we expect or think that we should or must
  have from reality and ourselves.

10
Avoid Words

• SHOULD
• MUST
• HAVE TO
• Replace them with
• Desirable

11
What are your expectations of

• Family
• Client
• Coworkers
• Work
• Spouse
• Yourself

12
Negative Emotions

• THE SITUATION
• IRRATIONAL THOUGHT
• A NEGATIVE FEELING

13
Anger Or Annoyed
14
When You Are Upset

• Breathe Deeply
• Write Down What Your Expectations Were.
• Ask Yourself Why People, Places and Things have
  to follow your expectations.
• Accept
• Renew
• Grant me the serenity to accept what is (STOP),
  the courage to change the things I can and the
  wisdom to know the difference.

15
We all spread energy in our presence.

• Resistance Causes Persistence
• Negative energy hurts yourself and others
• In order to give positive energy acceptance is
  necessary
• Order of Positive Energy
• Acceptance
• Joy
• Passion / Enthusiasm

16

• Non-acceptance creates suffering for yourself and
  others
• Acceptance
• Enjoyment
• Enthusiasm / Passion
• Non-acceptance creates suffering for yourself and
  others
•  

17
Burnout

• Lack of acceptance
• Lack of positive feed back.
• Lack of trying new things.
• Lack of a purpose greater than the job.

18
Reference
19
Six Strengths We Need As Workers

• Design, we no longer do we just buy for utility
  but rather design, check out your cell phone.
  Everything is designed from the grocery store to
  the dishes you picked out.
• Symphony being able to see the whole picture.
• Story, start noticing that advertisements and
  companies are telling stories about their people
  who make the product.

20
Six Strengths

• Empathy, understanding the persons issues and
  walking in their shoes.
• Play, entertainment is now necessary in what we
  do. Video games are becoming the new literature
• Meaning, people today demand meaning in all they
  do.

21
Survey Sample for Clients

• What do you think are your expectations about
  finding a job?
• Poor
• Good
• Excellent
• How long do you think it will take to find a job?
• How much money do you think you will make in the
  beginning?
• Have you been on any interviews? If so how many?

22
Sample Survey for Clients

• If you have had any why do you think you were not
  hired?
• What do you think is the biggest obstacle you
  face in order to get a job?
• What are your expectations of how your career
  counselor can help you to achieve your goals?
• How many jobs have you had in the past?
• How did they end?
• What do you think is the most important thing in
  finding a job