Weekend of Oneness

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Four Pillars for Building Oneness in Marriage
Robert W. Kellemen, Ph.D. www.rpmministries.org
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Four Pillars for Building Oneness in Marriage
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The Big Idea

• The first duty of a true leader is to define
  reality.
• The first duty of a pastoral marriage counselor
  is to define marital reality.

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Laying the Christ-Centered Foundation

• Self-centered goals.
• meant to represent the Trinity.
• meant to represent Christ and the Church.
• to become more Christ-like.

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Laying the Christ-Centered Foundation

• Self-sufficient means.

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Laying the Christ-Centered Foundation

• Problems in our home begin with problems in our
  heart.
• Problems in our heart require Spirit-dependence,
  not self-dependence.

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Christ-Centered Marital Foundation

• Glorifying God
• Guilty before God
• Grace from God
• Growth through Gods Spirit

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Four Pillars Leaving

• What leaving is.
• Why leaving is vital
• NowPractical Implications

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Four Pillars Cleaving

• What cleaving is.
• Why cleaving is vital
• NowPractical Implications

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Four Pillars Weaving

• What weaving is.
• Why weaving is vital
• NowPractical Implications

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Four Pillars Receiving

• What receiving is.
• Why receiving is vital
• NowPractical Implications

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Taking It Home with Us
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Four Pillars for Building Oneness in Marriage
Robert W. Kellemen, Ph.D. www.rpmministries.org