Unit1 Getting along with others

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Unit1 Getting along with others
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Reading 1
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• Discussion
• Do you have any important events or unforgettable
  experiences with your close friends?
• Please share something with us and tell us what
  to do when meeting with difficulties in
  friendship.

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• 1. If your friend tell others about your secrets,
  how will you feel and what will you react?
• 2. When your friendship is in trouble,will you
  stop talking with your friend and make a new
  friend?

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Conclusion

• 1. We should keep our promise and keep
  friendssecrets. Honesty is one of the most
  important factors in the friendship.
• 2. Friends should unite and help each other when
  meeting with some difficulties both in study or
  in other fields of life.

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Lead in

• In other words, we are supposed to take honesty
  and union as glory. But what are the shameful
  behaviors or the glorious?
• Next lets learn something about it.

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Take the eight glorious merits against eight
shameful behaviors
1Love our motherland 'as glory
jeopardise heras shame

• 2Serve for the people as glory

err from themas shame
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3Advocate scienceas glory
The ignorant as shame
4 The laborious as glory
love ease and hate workas shame
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5Unite and help each otheras glory
harm others to benefit oneselfas shame
6Be honest to keep faithas glory
forget justice to seek for benefit as shame
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7Abide by the law and disciplineas glory
disobey the law and disciplineas shame
the extravagant and dissipatedas shame
8Fight against everything hard and bitteras
glory
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What is the chinese version of it?

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Which rules can we use in making friends?

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Be honest to keep faithas glory
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Unite and help each otheras glory
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First reading

• By using these two rules, lets go over the two
  letters for the first time and try to answer
  questions below.
• 1. What did Sarah think about the surprise Maths
  test?
• She thought it was quite easy.

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First reading

• 2. What did Sarah tell Hannah in the girls
  toilet?
• She told Hannah how badly she had done in the
  Maths test.
• 3. Why did Sarah tell Hannah that they werent
  going to be friends any more?
• Because she thought that Hannah had told
  everyone how badly she had done in the Maths
  test.

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4. Why did Andrew shout at Matthew after the
match? He thought Matthew played badly and did
not try hard enough. As a result, they lost the
game. 5.What did Matthew think about losing the
match? He thought it was his fault. 6. What kind
of boy is Matthew? Is he usually a quiet boy? He
is usually cheerful and out going.
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Second reading

• Read the article again and finish part C2. Try to
  identify how Sarah and Andrew felt and why they
  felt like so.
• Make sure you pick the relevant information
  within the given time.

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Sarahs letter
How Sarah felt Why she felt so



1. She thought her best friend Hannah didnt keep
her secret

• Betreyed

• 2. She scored the lowest mark in her class

• 2. ashamed

• 3. She found a piece of paper on her desk that
  said stupid Sarah got a D!

• 3. upset

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Andrews letteer
How Andrew felt Why he felt so

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1. His best friend Matthew has stopped talking to
him.
1. dilemma
2. He said some really cruel things to Matthew

• 2. guilty

• 3. angry

3. They lost the game because of Matthews
carelessness
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Match new words with their definitions

• 1 academic
• 2 overlook
• 3 admit
• 4 deliberately
• 5 tease

• A good at subjeccts which involved reading and
  studying
• B make fun of / laugh at
• C on purpose
• D give little attetion to
• E to state or agree to the truth

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Find out the similar words in the 2nd letter
Words in the text
Definition

• dilemma
• brilliant
• focus
• absentminded
• yell at
• performance
• horrible

• a situation in which one has to choose between
  two things
• very bright
• pay attention to
• not focus
• shout loudly at
• achievement
• terrible

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• causing pain
• nasty/vicious
• having done wrong
• embarrassed
• say sorry to
• physically strong

• cruel
• mean
• guilty
• awkward
• apologize to
• atheletic

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Discussion

• 1. Do you think Sarah and Hannah should try to be
  friends again or go their separate ways?
• 2. If you found out that your best friends had
  made friends with another person,what would you
  think about this and what would you do?

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Reading strategy

• Both of the two letters are showing their strong
  feelings when meeting difficulties in friendship.
  Please underline the sentences which are
  obviously expressing feelings .
• 1. I must be really stupid. (line11)
• 2. How they must have laughed behind my back!
  (line22)

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• 3. I was so angry that (line23)
• 4. It is really awkward.. (line 49)
• 5. I cant help wondering. (line52-53)

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Group work

• Suppose you were in a quarrel with your best
  friends, and turn to another one for help. You
  need to tell him the causes and how you feel
  about it. And the helper should give advice.
• Work in groups and try to make a dialogue which
  is full of strong feelings.

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Reading 2
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Revision A letter to Sarah

• Dear Sarah
• You have every right to feel_________by your
  friend if she did tell your secrets to others,but
  it seems unlikely that she did. You say that you
  are best friends well, best friends talk about
  their problems and try to solve them. If she is a
  good friend, you should___________for blaming
  her.

betrayed
apologize
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If you still have doubts, you should think about
why you dont believe her. Was it because you
Were ashamed of your______or your behavior? Did
you feel jealous of your friends mark? If
so, The problem lies with you, not her. Try not
to sound too______of yourself when discussing
Marks in front of others. However, if you feel
that she is very bad at Keeping________and likes
to embarrass you in Public, you had better find a
new friend.
mark
proud
secrets
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A letter to Andrew

• Dear Andrew,
• It seems you need to apologize quickly to
  avoid losing a ggod friend! Dont forget that
  things are important to people, even when they
  dont shout about them. The _______was probably
  very important to Matthew and he felt______about
  losing, and bad about not being as gifted at
  football as you are.

match
guilty
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A football team needs all the players to work
Together and help each other. Each player
Should play to their strengths. Shouting at
your Teammate was unfair and just made him
feel worse. Although you both said________things
to each other, one of you has to be first to say
Sorry. Dont be stubborn. You say that
your__________as important as Football. Well,
then you should be__________ To get your
friendship back. Dont delay. Talk to Your
friend and Im sure before long, youll be Back
playing football together.
mean
friendship
determined
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1.We have been good friends since primary
school.(line7)
(Prep.)

• (1).Unemployment in that country is now at its
  lowest level since WWII.
• ?????????????????.
• (2).She left her hometown five years ago. We
  havent seen her since.
• ????from then on

adv.
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since(conj.)

• (3).It is just three days since they arrived at
  the mountain.
• (4).Since you are so busy, perhaps we shuold ask
  someone else.

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2.We are no fun.(un.) (line5)

• 1.Her baby is great fun./ sailing a boat is great
  fun. (????/?)
• 2. I write not just for the pay, but for
  fun.(??).
• We had a lot of fun at the party.
• 3.They often make fun of me for this.

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• Donnt make_____of the blind man.
• A fun B funs C funny D a fun
• fun ???????,???a??,???????.

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3.Must (when guessing,there seems to be no other
possibilities) (line8-9)

• (1).I must have sounded very proud of myself.
• ??????????????.
• You must have left your wallet in the office.
• ??????????????.
• (2).may have done(its not certain)
• Something may have happened to her.
• ?????????.

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4.feel like(have an inclination or desire
for)(line11-12)

• (1). I feel like I was overlooking my studies.
• (2). I felt like crying.
• ????????????????.
• My parents always feel like going out for a
  walk after supper.
• feel like???????,???doing sth.
• ????that clause.

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5.I was overlooking my studies. (line12)

• (1).forget/not see something important
• we should not overlook the difficulties.
• ????????,????????.
• I overlooked the mistake the first time I read
  it.
• (2). not be angry with a bad thing
• ??????.
• Please overlook my fault.

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• (3). We want a room which overlook the
  garden,not one overlook the car park.
• ????????????????????????.

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6.I was determined to be cheerful.(line14)

• (1)adj.
• a.He is determined to take part in the
  international speech competititon.
• b.he is a determined supporter of President Bush.

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• (2)vi.
• He determined to take part in the international
  speech competition.
• ???????????.
• (3)vt.
• a.??,??
• ?They determined the date for the party.

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• B. ?..???
• ?This determined him to act immediately.
• ????????????.

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7. He kept on saying really mean things to hurt
me. (line44-45)

• (unkind/nasty)
• (1).????????.
• Dont be so mean to her.
• (2). He was very mean with his money.
• unwilling to share or give what one has

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• (3). It is a mean dog. Be careful it doest bite
  you. Bad-tempered/liking to hurt
• (4). Running ten miles is no mean achievement.
  very good

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8.I cant stand seeing my team lose.(line45-46)

• (1)stand sb./sth.
• ?I cant stand a lot of noise when I am reading.
• ???????????????
• I cant stand this cold weather.
• ???????????.

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• (2).stand

bear
He cant bear that man. He talked too much.
endure
He cant endure that man. He talked too much.
put up with
He cant put up with that man. He talked too
much.
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9.I cant help wondering.. (line52-53)

• (1)cannot help doing sth.???????
• ? He cannot help talking to his deskmate in
  class.
• ?????????????.
• (2)cannot help it ????
• ? He just cant help it. He has to obey orders.
• (3)cant help do sth.???????
• ?I cant help do the housework for my mum.

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The end
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