charts class 9

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Personality disorders, sense of self, others,
core and con- ditional pathogenic beliefs and
behavioral strategies
Personality view of view of
pathogenic over
under Disorder self others
beliefs Strategies developed
developed
Avoidant Vulnerable to depreciation, rejection, socially inept incompetent They are critical demeaning, superior I will get hurt If they know the real me, they will reject me. I cant tolerate unpleasant feelings Avoid evaluative situations. Avoid new people/ situations. Avoid unpleasant feelings. avoidance Social vulnerability, self-consciousness, avoidance, inhibition self-assertion, gregariousness
Dependent Needy, weak, helpless, incompetent Idealized, nurturing, supportive, competent I am helpless! I need people to survive I cant do it on my own. By myself, Im nothing Cultivate dependent relationships. Be subservient, needy. attachment Help-seeking, Clinging Self-sufficiency, mobility
Obsessive compulsive Responsible, accountable, fastidious, competent Task-oriented Irresponsible,, casual, sloppy, incompetent, self-indulegent, lazy I must not err! I know what is best. Details are crucial! People should do better! If I dont succeed, Im nothing! Perfectionism. Apply rules, evaluate. Control, criticize, punish!. Obey shoulds. Control, responsibility, systematization Spontaneity, playfulness
paranoid Righteous, innocent, noble, vulnerable Interfering, malicious, discriminatory. Abusive motives People are dangerous. I must always be on guard. I cannot trust others. Wariness. Accuse. Counter-attack. Be wary. Assume hidden motives Vigilance, mistrust, suspicion Serenity, trust, acceptance
Anti-social A loner. Its mine to take! Vulnerable, weak Others are to be taken. Im entitled to break the rules. If I need it, it mine! Attack, rob, lie, coerce, charm, manipulate, hurt if necessary! Combativeness, Exploitativeness, predation, impulsiveness Reflectiveness, control, systematization
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Personality disorders, sense of self, others,
core and con- ditional pathogenic beliefs and
behavioral strategies
Personality view of view of
pathogenic over
under Disorder self
others beliefs Strategies
developed developed
Narcis- sistic Unique, misunderstood, under-appreciated, deserve special rules/consideration. Superior. Must show others, Im best admirers, inferior, worshipers or jealous I am special. I am above the rules. Others should notice my superiority, specialness. Others are here for my benefit Self-aggrandizement. Use others, manipulate, compete, demand perfect mirroring. Selfishness, competitive-ness Sharing Group identification
His- trionic Glamorous, impressive, interesting Seducible, receptive, admirers I need to impress Without attention, I am nothing. I can go by my feelings. People should notice and appreciate me. Dramatics, histrionics, charm, temper tantrums, crying, suicide gestures, seductive, be bright engaging, self-absorbed Exhibitionism, expressiveness, impressionistic Reflectiveness, control, quietude,solace
Schi-zoid Self-sufficient. Loner. different Intrusive, bothersome, meddling I need plenty of space. Others are unrewarding. Relationships are messy/painful. Contactpain Isolation. Stay away. Autonomy, isolation Intimacy. reciprocity
Bor-derline Vulnerable to re-jection, betrayal. Deprived of support. Powerless. Out of control. Bad , empty, defective, unlovable Idealized, powerful, loving Perfect, all good Devalued rejecting, betraying, abandoning all bad I need someone to rely on. If I get too close Ill disappear. Others will leave me. I cant control myself. I deserve to be hurt. Feelings are too painful. Split! Relieve tension thru self-destruction/mutilation.. Swing from idealization to devalue. Protest, threaten, become punitive if I sense rejection. Feel rage/emptiness Sense of doom, desperation, emptiness, unworthiness, tension, effort, impulsiveness Serenity, self-acceptance, balance, tolerance for ambivalence
Schizo-typal Unreal, detached, loner, conspicuous Suoernaturally gifted Untrustworthy, malevolent Primary process, odd, magical superstitious, better to be alone Stay to self. Beware, vigilant for supernatural, evil forces Odd thinking. unconventional Normal social skils. Desire for intimacy