Stupid Things''' Sex Outside Of Marriage

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Exodus 2014 Paperback pg. 53 Hardback pg. 74
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WHAT DOES THE BIBLE TEACH ABOUT SEX?
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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex in Its Proper Place is a GIFT!

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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex in Its Proper Place is a GIFT!
• Where? Within marriage

A man will leave his father mother, be
united to his wife, they will become one flesh.
The man his wife were both naked, they felt
no shame. Genesis 224-25
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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex in Its Proper Place is a GIFT!
• Where? Within marriage
• Why? Most intimate relationship

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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex in Its Proper Place is a GIFT!
• Where? Within marriage
• Why? Most intimate relationship

Lifes short, you love your wife, so enjoy
being with her. This is what you are supposed to
do as you struggle through life on this earth.
Eccl.99
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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!

"Husbands wives be faithful to each other. God
will judge those who are immoral commit
adultery." Hebrews 134
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Matthew 527-32 Paperback pg. 672 Hardback
pg. 959
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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Extra-marital affair

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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Extra-marital affair
• Why? Causes pain to mate
• Masks my real problem
• Destroys my self-worth

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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Extra-marital affair
• Unbiblical divorce (v.31-32)

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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Extra-marital affair
• Unbiblical divorce

A believing man or woman is not bound in such
circumstances. 1 Cor.715
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In our imperfect world, marriage breakups are a
fact of life those whove gone through the pain
of a divorce need our compassion. At times
Christians marry out of Gods will get divorced
remarried-- yet often God seems in His great
grace to bless the remarriage. Does that mean God
has changed His standards? Not at all. But it
does mean that even divorce remarriage, serious
though they are, are not unforgivable that God
is always able to start with His children
precisely where they are bring
blessing. Dr.James M. Boice, Pastor of 10th
Pres. Church in Philadelphia
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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Extra-marital affair
• Unbiblical divorce
• Pre-marital sex (Mark 721)

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You know what instructions we gave you by the
authority of the Lord Jesus. It s God's will
that you should be sanctified that you should
avoid sexual immorality that each of you should
learn to control his own body in a way that is
holy honorable, not in passionate lust like the
heathen, who do not know God that in this
matter no one should wrong his brother or take
advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for
all such sins, as we have already told you
warned you. For God did not call us to be impure,
but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who
rejects this instruction does not reject man but
God, who gives you his Holy Spirit. 1
Thess.42-8
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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Extra-marital affair
• Unbiblical divorce
• Pre-marital sex
• Practice of homosexuality

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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Practice of homosexuality

Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman
thats detestable. Lev.1822
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Their women exchanged natural relations for
unnatural ones. In the same way the men also
abandoned natural relations with women were
inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed
indecent acts with other men, received in
themselves the due penalty for their
perversion. Romans 126-27
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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Extra-marital affair
• Unbiblical divorce
• Pre-marital sex
• Practice of homosexuality
• Pornography, rape, prostitution, incest,
  bestiality, etc.

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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Extra-marital affair
• Unbiblical divorce
• Pre-marital sex
• Practice of homosexuality
• Pornography, rape, prostitution, incest,
  bestiality, etc.
• Mental adultery (v.27-30)

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What Does the Bible Teach about Sex?

• Sex Outside its Proper Place is a SIN!
• Gods saying DO NOT ENTER into any
• Mental adultery

One is tempted when, by his own evil desire,
hes dragged away enticed. Then, after desire
has conceived, it gives birth to sin. James
114-15
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Make a COMMITMENT to Gods Standards!

STEP 1
How can a person keep his way pure? By living
according to Your Word." Psalm 1199
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Make a COMMITMENT to Gods Standards!
• (e.g.) Joseph

STEP 1
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Make a COMMITMENT to Gods Standards!
• (e.g.) Joseph--

STEP 1
I wont sin against my God. Genesis 399
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Proverbs 515-18 Paperback pg. 444 Hardback
pg. 629
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Be faithful to your own wife give your love to
her alone. Children that you have by other women
will do you no good. Your children should grow up
to help you, not strangers. So be happy with your
wife find your joy with the woman you married.
Proverbs 515-18 (TEV)
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Make a COMMITMENT to Gods Standards!
• Magnify the CONSEQUENCES of Breaking It!

STEP 1
STEP 2
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Magnify the CONSEQUENCES of Breaking It!
• Self-destructive now (Proverbs 627-33)

STEP 2
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Magnify the CONSEQUENCES of Breaking It!
• Self-destructive now
• Brings Gods judgment later (Matthew 529-30)

STEP 2
"God will judge those who are immoral those who
commit adultery." Heb.134
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Magnify the CONSEQUENCES of Breaking It!
• Self-destructive now
• Brings Gods judgment later
• Adultery isnt love, its selfishness

STEP 2
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Make a COMMITMENT to Gods Standards!
• Magnify the CONSEQUENCES of Breaking It!
• MAINTAIN My Marriage (Proverbs 519)

STEP 1
STEP 2
STEP 3
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage
STEP 3

• MAINTAIN My Marriage (Proverbs 519)
• Meet each others needs

"A man should fulfill his duty as a husband, a
wife should fulfill her duty as a wife and each
should satisfy the other's needs." 1 Cor.73
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TOP 5 NEEDS OF MOST

• MEN
• Sexual Fulfillment
• Recreational Companionship
• An Attractive Spouse
• Domestic Support
• Admiration

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TOP 5 NEEDS OF MOST

• MEN
• Sexual Fulfillment
• Recreational Companionship
• An Attractive Spouse
• Domestic Support
• Admiration

• WOMEN
• Affection
• Conversation
• Honesty Openness
• Financial Support
• Family Commitment

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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage
STEP 3

• MAINTAIN My Marriage!
• Meet each others needs
• Dont withhold sex

"Dont cheat each other of normal sexual
intercourse or youll expose yourselves to the
obvious temptation of Satan." 1 Cor.75
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage
STEP 3

• MAINTAIN My Marriage!
• Meet each others needs
• Dont withhold sex
• Become best friends

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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage
STEP 3

• MAINTAIN My Marriage!
• Meet each others needs
• Dont withhold sex
• Become best friends
• How? Time

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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Make a COMMITMENT to Gods Standards!
• Magnify the CONSEQUENCES of Breaking It!
• MAINTAIN My Marriage!
• Manage My MIND!

STEP 1
STEP 2
STEP 3
STEP 4
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Manage My MIND!
• Immorality cycle
• Accepting sinful thoughts (Prov. 621-24)

STEP 4
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Manage My MIND!
• Immorality cycle
• Accepting sinful thoughts
• Emotional involvement

STEP 4
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage
STEP 4

• Manage My MIND!
• Immorality cycle
• Accepting sinful thoughts
• Emotional involvement
• Physical involvement

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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage
STEP 4

• Manage My MIND!
• Immorality cycle
• Accepting sinful thoughts
• Emotional involvement
• Physical involvement
• Rationalizing the affair

"The heart is deceitful desperately wicked.
Who can know it?"Jer.179
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Make a COMMITMENT to Gods Standards!
• Magnify the CONSEQUENCES of Breaking It!
• MAINTAIN My Marriage!
• Manage My MIND!
• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!

STEP 1
STEP 2
STEP 3
STEP 4
STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• Everyone
• Avoid tempting situations

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• Everyone
• Avoid tempting situations
• Send right signals (attire, eyes)

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• Everyone
• Avoid tempting situations
• Send right signals (attire, eyes)
• Choose friends carefully

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• If Married
• Avoid flirting

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• If Married
• Avoid flirting
• Avoid lingering touch

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• If Married
• Avoid flirting
• Avoid lingering touch
• Maintain proper relationships

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• If Married
• Avoid flirting
• Avoid lingering touch
• Maintain proper relationships
• Watch compliments

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• If Married
• Avoid flirting
• Avoid lingering touch
• Maintain proper relationships
• Watch compliments
• Vulnerable at the office

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!
• If Married
• Avoid flirting
• Avoid lingering touch
• Maintain proper relationships
• Watch compliments
• Vulnerable at the office
• Dangers of business travel

STEP 5
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Pathway to Purity Affair Proofing My Marriage

• Minimize the OPPORTUNITIES!

STEP 5
"Among you there must not be even a hint of
sexual immorality." Eph. 53
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PURITY RESTORATION PLAN

• Acknowledge to God its sin.

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PURITY RESTORATION PLAN

• Acknowledge to God its sin.
• End the wrong relationship immediately.

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PURITY RESTORATION PLAN

• Acknowledge to God its sin.
• End the wrong relationship immediately.
• Avoid all contact permanently.

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