Challenge Support

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Growing in our Relationships
DEPENDENCE Nurture Support Security Explore Discov
ery
1. PARENT/CHILD
2. STRUGGLE CHALLENGE
Dependence Rebellion/Frustration Pain Anger
INDEPENDENCE Liberation/Freedom Grief/Loss Joy
3. BIRTH/DEATH
4. SEPARATION
Independence Adjustment/Growth Self-discovery
5. PARTNERSHIP NEW RELATIONSHIPS
Interdependence Trust Diversity
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Domains of Development

• Emotional
• Spiritual
• Physical
• Social (relationships)
• Intellectual

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Long term investment with relationship building
has huge impact on value gained by young person
and stakeholders
100 90 80 70 60 50 40 30 20 10
Va lue
Hard work
Stimulating Empowerment Living
fully Have wings, can fly Learning
environment Personal Responsibility Wero
Building trusting relationships
0 10 20 30
40 50 60 70
80 90 100
Relationship building
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Challenge / Support
High
SUPPORT
Low Challenge / High Support
High Support / High Challenge
Patronizing Boring Condescending Damaging No
growth/development Damaging experience What the
point
Stimulating Want to be there Growth /
Development Learning Understanding Resilience
Healthy relationships Exciting
Low Support / Low Challenge
Low Support / High Challenge
Boring Dont want to be there It sucks Whats the
point Why are we doing this No growth/development
Damaging experience Dumb
Scary Dont want to be there Feeling unsafe No
growth/development Damaging experience Lonely
Low
High
CHALLENGE
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Challenge / Support
High
SUPPORT
C h a l l e n g e
Low
High
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Challenge / Support
High
SUPPORT
C h a l l e n g e
Low
High
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Domains of Development
Situational change culture
Development culture
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Emotional Spiritual Physical Social
(relationships) Intellectual
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My confidence is getting deeper and deeper and my
thoughts more usable
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Key components of Adolescent Development

• Relationship building with unconditional support
• High Challenge / High Support environments
• Development culture Life long change
• Situational change Short term change
• 3 circles of a development environment

• 5 Domains of development - Social - Emotional -
  Physical - Spiritual
• - Intellectual

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