I THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS MAKING ME EMOTIONALLY UNWELL

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I THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS MAKING ME EMOTIONALLY
UNWELL
Question for Miss Dela This weekend I was out of
town. My boyfriend called me a total of 94 times
and texted me about 150 times. Most of those
calls, I was not able to answer. I was helping
out family and watching a 2- and 6-year-old for
14 hours straight. When I did talk to him and
explained to him that he was emotionally
exhausting, he then started to cry telling me how
I dont care about him. I was so angry and
pissed oG at him! I havent been able to snap out
of it. Im planning on breaking up with him when
Im ?nancially able to. Side note, my boyfriend
took out a loan in my name and didnt cancel it
once I found out. Needless to say, Im depressed
24/7. I constantly walk on eggshells when Im
around him. I constantly lie to my friends about
the state of our relationship. Some have noticed
how he excessively calls when Im out with
them. If something goes on with his family, car
troubles, emergency situations, or just about
any little thing he will call me multiple times
with updates. Point being, am I a jerk for being
fed up with his emotional unstableness and
getting angry/frustrated? What do I do until then?
Answer Wow, dealing with a boyfriend like that
can be mentally exhausting! You shouldnt have to
put up with such behavior, even if theres a
loan involved. Its essential not to project your
anger or frustrations onto him, but its also
crucial to recognize that this kind of constant
calling and texting, over 100 times a day, is not
healthy. It sounds like your boyfriend might have
some co-dependent tendencies, and being in an
enmeshed relationship can be quite challenging.
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If you want to salvage your relationship, couples
therapy could be a valuable option to explore. It
can help you both address these issues and find
healthier ways to communicate and relate to each
other. Remember, you deserve a relationship that
respects your boundaries and allows for emotional
well- being. Dont hesitate to seek support if
needed, for the sake of your own happiness and
relationship health. A sk Relationship Question
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Miss Dela Q.