Title: LGBTQ Family Planning | Reproductive Sciences Medical Center
1LGBTQ Family Planning
2- Modern Assisted Reproductive Technologies (ART)
have made it possible for LGBTQ couples to build
a family together. LGBTQ families have unique
needs, but like many prospective parents, have
questions. - What is possible?
- What is involved?
- We can we expect?
3What are the fertility options for lesbian
couples?
- Intrauterine Insemination (IUI)
- referred to as artificial insemination
- is a precise procedure, where the sperm is
treated to create a concentrated sample of the
healthiest sperm, which are then placed directly
into uterus through the cervix - is timed with a womans natural ovulation cycle
for optimal results.
- Reciprocal IVF
- it allows both partners to contribute and
collaborate in the creation of their child - also known as egg sharing, allows one partner to
donate their eggs while the other carries the
pregnancy - Each couples fertility needs are different and
will determine how they use IVF to achieve
pregnancy.
4What are the fertility options for gay couples?
- Traditional Surrogacy
- The chosen sperm fertilizes the surrogates egg
through artificial insemination/IUI. - Sperm used for this procedure can be from anyone
of the partners or even a donor may be used.
- IVF, Egg donation and gestational surrogate
- Multiple IVF treatments are available for gay
couples, and are outlined below - The surrogate can use their own egg and sperm
from one of the partners - Using the surrogates egg and donor sperm
- Using donor eggs and sperm from one of the
partners - Use donor eggs and donor sperm
When using donor eggs, the surrogate will have no
genetic relation to the baby.
5How do we get donor sperm?
- For lesbian couples, surrogacy requires a sperm
donor for IVF. Choosing a sperm donor can be a
very personal process. You can choose from the
following two paths. - Anonymous Donor This option lets you choose a
donor from a sperm bank. The bank will provide
profiles with background information of the
donor, and all samples will be pre-screened. - Known Donor Women can decide to use the sperm of
an identified donor, they can be a friend or a
relative. In this case, the donor will be
required to submit a sample to the clinic for
analysis to ensure that the sperm is healthy and
fit for using in fertility treatments.
6How should you choose which partner carries the
baby?
- For some lesbian couples it is difficult to come
to a decision, since both may want to carry the
baby. You will have many conversations, but here
are some considerations that can help you make
the correct choice - Medically Fit The reproductive health of the
partner who will be carrying the pregnancy is
very important. Healthy ovaries and eggs, if she
decides to use her own, will give you the best
chance of success. - Healthy Lifestyle You and your partner should
consider each others overall health and fitness.
Obese or underweight women have a lower chance of
success. Also, smoking and other toxic habits can
have adverse effects on pregnancy.
7What are the surrogacy options for gay couples?
- Surrogacy for gay couples has revolutionized over
the last few decades. There are two paths for
choosing a surrogate to carry your child. - Surrogate is the source of both egg and uterus to
carry the pregnancy. She can get pregnant through
Intrauterine Insemination. - Surrogate and egg donor are different. IVF is
used in this case.
8How to we get donor eggs?
- This is a recurrent question on almost every gay
couples mind. You can get egg donors in one of
two ways
9Anonymous Donor
- It is important to choose a reputable fertility
agency for this, thats because a LGBTQ fertility
specialist will point you in the right direction.
- Many donors have already been prescreened and
will have profiles with background information,
making the selection process easier.
10Known Donor
- You can use the eggs of your friends or family
members. - It takes several weeks to complete the egg
retrieval process, including fertility drugs and
a short outpatient procedure. - This requires a significant commitment from your
donor.
11How can we ensure that the baby has a biological
connection with both partners?
- Combining sperm
- Sperm from both partners is combined with
separate batches of donated eggs. - This process could result in twins, meaning the
same biological mother but separate dads. - If a single child is born, you can use a DNA test
to determine the father.
- Relative Donor
- One of the partners female relatives serves as
the egg donor while those eggs are fertilized by
the sperm of the other partner. - This ensures that both partners share a genetic
connection with the baby.
12What will be the cost for LGBTQ couples to have a
child?
- Every couples needs and situation are different.
It is not possible to know the exact cost
without knowing the specifics about your case.
Factors like the type of IVF treatment, third
party agency costs, egg/embryo freezing and
storage cost, diagnostic testing, office visits,
medications for donor and recipient directly
affect the cost of your fertility treatment.
13Pushing Forward
- The landscape of having a child for LGBTQ
families has evolved over the past couple of
years. Reproductive Sciences Medical Center, is a
fertility agency in San Diego that has already
helped numerous same sex couples achieve their
dream of starting a family. If you would like to
work with us, we would be more than happy to
schedule a free initial consultation to
understand your personal situation and needs.
14For more information visit us at www. fertile.com
or call at (858) 436-7186.