The Emotional Toll of Divorce

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THE EMOTIONAL TOLL OF DIVORCE
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THE EMOTIONAL TOLL OF DIVORCE
Many divorcees are not prepared to handle the
challenges of divorce. Simply put, life is not a
fairy tale. Once you accept this fact and all the
imperfections that come along the way, you will
gather your strength and become a life warrior.
Nobody said it would be easy and if they do, they
are probably lying. But there is comfort and
guidance and you will get to the other side with
the help of an experienced Salt Lake City divorce
attorney.
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DEALING WITH ANGER
It is natural to feel intense anger towards your
former spouse. Perhaps you feel angry because he
left you or vice versa. You can also be angry
with yourself because it was difficult to see the
signs and because you allowed your ex to hurt you
so many times. If these actions make you angry,
you must learn to let go. Although anger is a
natural feeling, holding onto anger will hurt you
the most. So what do you do? Your former spouse
doesnt care if you are angry or not. Forgive and
move on. Forgiveness is often the key to the
future.
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DEAL WITH THE GUILT
Divorcees can be filled with guilt throughout the
divorce process, notwithstanding their
circumstances. You will ask yourself so many
questions about what went wrong. But nothing is
wrong, life just happens. The only thing you got
is today, and moving forward, you will do better.
You have a brighter future ahead. Guilt can do
nothing for you except make you feel ashamed and
insignificant.
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SO AFRAID
It is okay to feel afraid. After all, life after
divorce can be scary at first. You will need to
establish new routines. The fear of the unknown
can paralyze you and you may not make sound
decisions. Sometimes fear is an invention of your
mind. Being single is difficult but being with
someone you dont love is even more difficult.
Its all about practice. Your fears will quickly
disappear and you will be free to seek new
horizons.
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FEELING ANXIOUS
There is peace in your restless heart. Sometimes
you have to go through the storm in order to
appreciate the rainbowed skies. Focus on whats
happening right this moment. There are helpful
techniques to cope with your inner storm. Eat
healthily and exercise. A healthy body is more
prepared to handle physical and emotional pain.
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ABOUT GRIEVING
When a relationship dies, the heart grieves
deeply. This something you cant control. Go
through the stages of grief and be nice to
yourself! You can also deal with the emotional
effects of attending local support groups or a
therapist.
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Emy A Cordano, Attorney At Law
The effects of divorce can be many and differ in
emotional intensity but one thing is true, you
are not alone. Call Divorce Attorney in Salt Lake
City at Emy A Cordano, Attorney At Law and find
out more about how you can start a new life after
divorce. They will help you with all the legal
matters so you can focus on emotional
recovery. Phone [phone] Fax
435-608-6404 6465 S 3000 E, Suite 103, Salt Lake
City, Utah, 84121 https//www.cor-law.com/contact-
us.html