Why Men Lie

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Why Do Men Lie
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February 6, 2018
Why do men lie? How to recognize the lie of a
man? What are the signs of a mans deception? It
is the inherent nature of women to doubt men. And
this is not surprising. After all, the way guys
often conquer the hearts of women is not always
in a truthful manner they exaggerate their
earnings, are silent about their shortcomings, at
the same time have an affair with a number of
women, use flattering, but deceitful compliments,
captivate and enchant the ladies with their
incantations in short, every effort is to get
their way. Girls generally do not spend 24 hours
a day, 7 days a week 365 days a year with their
loved one. And because you cannot be with him
24/7, how can you be 100 sure? It is therefore
normal to sometimes doubt the honesty and loyalty
of your partner. Especially if he gives you good
cause to doubt him. So, how do you know what you
are dealing with with lies or truthfulness? How
do you determine whether a man is lying? 5
Characteristics of a man who lies Visual signs to
tell when a man is lying Enlarged eyes, raised
eyebrows as if surprised and always partly open
mouth with slightly lowered lower jaw (the state
of protection and preparedness).
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What to do when a man lies to you? You can ask
him why he is lying to you. Tell him, without
using any false excuses, you are well aware that
he is lying and being dishonest with you. Tell
him you can see it in his eyes. He may agree with
you that he was lying, or simply deny it. Such
tactics can work or maybe not. Of course, the
easiest way is to simply ask the man if he is
honest. It is however very rare for a liar to
confess he lied, and if he confesses it is only
to hide more deception. Usually when men honestly
admit to have lied, then it is to save the
situation from deliberate deception and they
quickly tell you what its all about, even if it
is not profitable to them. A staunch liar, even
when caught on top of a naked woman, will always
deny any guilt in his explanation. Besides, he
will be angry and blaming the woman for all his
deadly sins, including in that, that in which he
himself is guilty of, namely betrayal. If your
husband in your presence often deceive others,
cheat, or even only did it in the past, but you
feel that he continues to deceive, it is
necessary to seriously consider the necessity of
parting with him. If he only occasionally adorns
reality with lies for no apparent reason, talk to
him heart to heart, find out why he was doing
it, and only then decide what to do.
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• But do not be paranoid without reason. Read the
  following 5 characteristics which are the most
  commonly found in men that lie and which in their
  entirety are real symptoms of male deception and
  indecency where you are concerned.
• His stories do not match. Ask the man about the
  situation you are interested in and listen
  carefully to the details. Wait a few days. Then
  go back to this situation and ask him gently to
  talk about it again. If he said in the beginning
  that he spent the evening with classmates, and
  in this version tells you with colleagues, and a
  third version with well- known businessman, be
  warned. Every time incompetent liars tell the
  same story, the details change. If a man is
  lying, you can follow him to find out the truth.
  And you can call some of his friends and
  colleagues who you know personally to clarify the
  inconsistencies. But be prepared that they may
  have been prepared by your guy about a possible
  interrogation from you beforehand and then they
  will also lie.
• He does not look straight into your eyes or he
  does not look at you long and attentive.
  Psychologists say that if someone does not look
  at another persons face, he is hiding
  something. This can of course happen because he
  is modest, for example, this is often found in
  adolescents. If a grownup man however does not
  look into your eyes when he talks about an
  event, he is probably concocting an excuse,
  trying to deceive you. Womanizers know the
  secret of keeping eye contact to appear genuine.
  They look the woman in the eye, but their eyes
  are dilated because they have to make some
  psychological attempt to lie while looking into
  the eyes of the person watching them.
• He downplays the details. Experienced fraudsters
  know that the easiest way to catch them out is
  when it comes to the details, small
  inconsistencies in their story. That is why they
  deliberately talk about what happened in the most
  general terms. When a man is honest, he usually
  reports many different and specific details to
  explain an event. But when a man is lying and
  deliberately cheating, he talks in very general
  terms about an incident, mentioning 1 or 2
  specifics to give credibility to his story and to
  avoid any deeper interrogation. How to deal with
  this kind of behavior? Ask more questions that in
  one way or another will clarify the picture of
  what you understand, i.e. more specific details
  on those things he spoke in general about.
• A man has previously lied or lies to other
  people. If the man has cheated on you with
  another girl, and has deceived her, then you will
  probably face the same fate. If the man in your
  presence is misleading other people, deliberately
  misleading partners, is unfair in his dealings
  with colleagues, plotting on the job, then expect
  a similar attitude towards yourself. These are
  indicators of general deceit and dishonesty if
  he lies in small things, he will lie in big
  things.
• Your female intuition tells you that the man is
  lying. If your sixth sense tells you that your
  partner is lying, that he is deceiving you, then
  this is a very bad sign. It is very likely your
  intuition does not lie, not this time. And
  secondly, even if your intuition is wrong, it
  means that you do not trust this man and
  therefore you do not like him. If however you do
  not want to distance yourself from him because
  you love him, but do not trust him.what can you
  do? Talk to your man heart to heart, try to
  figure out the reasons for the distrust. Delve
  deep inside yourself when trying to identify the
  problem and make every effort to resolve it by
  considering all possible options for further
  developments.

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• Beautiful women! Trust your man. Do not ever give
  him any reason to doubt your loyalty and
  honesty.
• Statistics say that about 90 of men who have a
  serious relationship have cheated on their
  partner at least once. At the same time,
  statistics say 50 of women know for sure that
  their chosen ones are incapable of betrayal.
  Judging by the discrepancy in the data, women
  have too much faith in their partners, or
  deliberately continue with self-deception.
• Despite the fact that cheating is a sort of
  betrayal, it cannot be denied that every action
  in our world has its own primary cause.
  Confronted with the act of betrayal, women often
  comfort each other by blaming it on the natural
  tendency of men who want to be in more than one
  relationship at the same time.
• But when people are looking for adventure on the
  side, is it actually guided only by the call of
  nature, or is this action also due to
  psychological reasons?
• There are a large number of factors that push
  people to commit adultery. As a rule in general,
  there are about 10 most common reasons why men
  cheat on good women.
• So, why do men lie and cheat and in the process
  risk their stable relationships to chase after
  something temporary?
• Thirst for change
• Look at family life through the eyes of most
  people it consists of work, family obligations,
  solving everyday problems, relaxing in front of
  the TV or computer, family lunches and dinners,
  Sunday trips to parents, meetings with friends
  and very little adventure.
• For many women, such a lifestyle seems very
  acceptable. Not because they are not interested
  in doing something away from home and hearth, but
  because it is the nature of the weaker sex to
  find their fulfilment through the family and
  motherhood, which brightens their daily routine.
• For men, family life often looks like a cage in
  which there is not enough fresh air and for
  survival they look for new emotions. And these
  new emotions often lead to betrayal.
• Revenge
• They say that the revenge of women is terrible.
  The revenge of men has not really been
  characterized, but this does not mean that it
  does not exist. It may seem quite strange, but
  sometimes men only change because they want to
  take revenge on their significant other.
• The cause of the revenge can usually be ascribed
  to feelings of jealousy. A man may think that
  you have changed him, you no longer love him or
  may leave him. This of course is painful to his
  pride and in his mind, if he changes, he restores
  his justice that had been violated.
• He is going through a crisis

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• Men need self-awareness. Unfortunately, not all
  men are willing and able to assert themselves
  through a career, wealth, or develop their own
  talents. It is much easier to be proud of
  themselves by breaking the heart of another
  woman. Rich soil for betrayal is at that moment
  he suddenly experiences a mid-life, spiritual or
  material crisis. When a man loses one of his
  support structures, it is vital for him to feel
  strong and important.
• Physical attraction
• Fraud is intentional and thoughtless. Irrelevant
  betrayal often arises because of a strong
  physical attraction. A new colleague or friend
  can unintentionally evoke feelings in him that he
  did not feel for long time. His action is to
  give in to his raging hormones as very few of the
  stronger sex actually try to suppress the voice
  of their hormones.
• He is influenced by others
• This may seem trivial, but according to
  statistics, those men who are good friends or
  have family members who do not differ in opinion
  about adultery will be more likely to change.
• The fact is that the representatives of the
  stronger sex are natural rivals. It is important
  for them to feel that their lives are no worse
  than the lives of their close associates. And if,
  in addition, a good friend or an important
  person to the person you have chosen as partner
  is proud of his numerous affairs, your partner
  too will most probably try his hand in this.
• The wife no longer attracts him physically
• If the intimate life of spouses runs under the
  auspices of monotony, sooner or later a man will
  want something new. However, this situation is
  not only a case of mens tendency to change, but
  also womens misunderstanding that the
  relationships must continually develop even after
  many years of marriage.
• Lack of attention
• Men must be cared for, and cherished. A woman who
  performs a thousand other tasks at the same
  time, cannot always give all her free time and
  energy to her companion. Gradually, a man begins
  to feel unnecessary and redundant, and he decides
  to find attention elsewhere. Of course, from the
  perspective of women this is a sorry excuse for
  infidelity and is cowardly and selfish.
• Inferiority complex
• The driving force behind many of our actions is
  how we perceive ourselves. A man may look
  sensible and self-sufficient, but the memory of
  what a woman once refused, still hurts his pride
  and confuses him. If your partner does not have
  enough confidence in his male strength and
  attractiveness, he will want to debunk his fears
  and doubts by getting involved in numerous
  affairs.
• Betrayal as a way of life

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There is a category of men for whom deception and
betrayal are not something they regard wrong or
immoral. They simply cannot understand why would
they want to dedicate their life to one woman if
they have enough love for many? Men who choose
this kind of behavior, where fierce emotions and
adventures are at the order of the day, have
mastered the ability to maintain balance between
these two fires. 10. He fell out of love Despite
the fact that love is the strongest emotion
people experience, it cannot last forever.
Sometimes the emotional threads that connect
people lose their power and if a man does not
understand how to bring the love back to life, he
starts looking for it on the side. There is of
course no guarantee that this new accidental
connection will give him the desired feelings,
but until he understands this himself, he will
look for his non-existent ideal. Most reasons
explaining male deception are associated with the
psychological characteristics of the stronger
sex. Therefore, in many cases it is not always
worth considering treason as an absolute
betrayal by a loved one. Much more sensible,
faced with such a painful phenomenon, try to put
yourself in the shoes of a man and understand
what really pushed him to this act. Once you get
to find out about the betrayal, it really does
not matter how it happened the husband himself
told his story, or you caught him. The most
important thing is you are now aware that he
betrayed you and you need to do something.
Yesterday you had a very normal family life not
overshadowed by anything. Today, all that goes
through your mind is the betrayal of your
husband. You are bursting with resentment, anger,
trying to understand why this happened and who
the culprit is. In such a situation, every
deceived woman loses the ability to think
clearly. We start reading womens magazines, and
buy new expensive clothes, change our hairstyle,
clothing style or urgently start looking for a
lover before we give up something. The only
thought that is in the mind of the deceived woman
is do not give up the man! We love him too
much, is too attached to him, even though he is a
villain, and renegade. Normal female response to
the knowledge of the betrayal is to cry a ton of
tears, and urgently demands him to suspend all
ties with the other woman. The woman lives in
despair, constantly experiencing doubt and
suspicion. All of this turns her into a pathetic
woman with a suspicious mind, constant red eyes
because of all the crying, and a hoarse voice due
to the constant shouting. The first few weeks
after the betrayal are especially difficult. It
is especially hard to bear if her husband has
certainly not decided whether he wants to stay
with her or go to his mistress. Living in such a
floating state of mind will cause imbalance in
the calm and cool woman. Things the betrayed
women should not do 1 Do not become a martyr.
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Women like to wear the mask of a humiliated
victim. Of course, this mask is not very
appealing, but gives the wife some sort of
comfort. Imagine the situation however for the
man who lied and cheated on you when he comes
home. He cannot decide if his mistress is worthy
of a broken marriage and the subsequent rejection
of an established family life. And then he meets
an angry woman in the victims mask. The poor man
lost weight since he was thrown out the door,
and none of his explanations seem to get past the
mask of female emotions.
However, the male guilt will not last forever.
For a while, it will be to count the cost, but
when he gets bored he will go back to his
mistress where he is not accused of deadly sins
every day. Of course you are a victim. The
victim of infidelity, polygamy, and a victim of
society accustomed to men who lie in
relationships. It is okay to feel sorry for
yourself initially, but it will be far better
for yourself to not keep on remembering it. 2
Do not expose your husband This is the standard,
but one of the worse mistakes of every betrayed
woman. As soon as we find out about the
betrayal, we try to catch him out again. We do
not even think about what we do, and why should
we, have we not been cheated on? At night we
sneak to check our husbands phones for
compromising texts and outgoing calls. We do the
same by checking his whole wardrobe, his wallet,
his briefcase and anything else that may give us
at least a clue. But think, why are you doing
this? To make sure your husband has changed? And
to attack him with accusations? There is no
logic in this as your husband who has been loyal
for some time by now, will soon respond
aggressively to your permanent suspicion. So do
not look for new evidence of a connection between
your husband and another woman. Should this
happen, there will be enough evidence for you.
Resentment and bitterness of betrayal is
completely futile especially when youre working
to regain confidence in him again.
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In addition, resentment and bitterness can lead
to health problems. 3 Do not try to contact his
mistress Of course, the other women also, is
looking for happiness, but the solidarity of
women will not help you. You are the warring
parties fighting for the trophy. Even if she
wants to talk to you, it is still not worthwhile
to negotiate. It is pointless to think that the
opponent will have a guilty conscience and
present herself in your place. On the contrary,
the exact opposite will happen. She will pretend
to be the innocent victim, and present you to
your husband as a hysterical and cruel bitch. You
do understand that he will then have to calm her
down? It is therefore better to never make
contact with the other woman and do not try to
influence the relationship between them in any
way. Collecting a plethora of information about
her to analyze how she caught your man, is
completely unnecessary. 4 No ultimatums Try to
not confront him with an ultimatum Its either
me, or her as much as possible. There is a very
good chance that should you do this immediately
after the betrayal, while your emotions are
still very raw, he may very well say Well, I
choose her and leave. So as long as you are
still trying to understand what you are going to
do, do not rush with any ultimatums. 5 No
jealousy Should you try to make your husband
jealous, while he is still completely blinded by
new feelings for his mistress, he may see your
behavior as consent to a divorce and as your
willingness to end this relationship and start a
new phase in your life without him. 6 Do not
ignore your own shortcomings It is logical to
assume that changes in your husband are to some
extent to be blamed on you. Something made him
look for comfort on the side. Maybe he does not
get enough attention, you may have to pay too
much attention to domestic problems and have
completely forgotten the romance. In any case,
it is not necessary to throw all the blame on the
cheating husband, better analyze your own
behavior and try to correct your mistakes. Men
and women lie In the whole world there is hardly
anyone who has not been deceived. Think of
yourself or friends who, after being late for
school, came up with a thousand reasons or
excuses. Or your parents, to whom you said you
were walking with friends, when in fact it was a
guy. Yes, we have all lied at some stage in our
life. But how do you treat a loved one who has
deceived you?
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• Fact is, it totally depends on the situation.
  There are situations where it is very difficult
  to judge a person for lying. Lets say he went
  to the store to get you a gift, and you call. As
  a result, in order not to ruin the surprise for
  you, he was forced to lie. A pregnant woman may
  ask her husband if she is beautiful. And a
  loving husband, despite all the factors
  associated with being pregnant that spoil the
  figure of his beloved, says she is just beautiful
  as before. This is actually deception. For some
  reason, in this situation however, we see nothing
  wrong with lying. Why is this?
• Lets see, what the word lie means.
• Lying is a statement that does not correspond to
  the truth and is consciously done (we know when
  we lie). That is, when a person cheats and does
  not feel any guilt, to him, he is not lying.
• So, why do men lie more than women? Yes, all men
  lie more women. And it is not good to lie. But
  here men take refuge in their macho nature. In
  Buddhism there are 3 holy lies that can be
  used according to their religion
• Save the family
• Keep someones friendship
• To keep the peace
• In principle it is difficult to disagree with
  this. It is however better not to lie. When a man
  resorts to a lifestyle where he lies all the
  time, the truth becomes so foggy that after doing
  it for so long, he himself does not know where
  truth stops and lies start.
• The reason why men lie is always the fear of
  being caught out and then held responsible for
  his act by being punished. Most likely there are
  some negative qualities in him you may not like,
  but since he cannot overcome these by himself, he
  tries to keep silent about them. This leads to
  insincerity. So if you cannot stand a lie, then
  you have to fight it.

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• Here is some advice for women about what to do
  when a man cheats
• Analyze some lies
• For example, when someone smokes and tells you
  that he is not smoking. He probably cannot
  overcome his dependency and tries not to upset
  you. Another example, you are waiting at home
  for a man and he says he is working late. But in
  fact he is with a friend. That lie is caused by
  the fact that the man is afraid to admit it,
  because you will scold him. And here the reason
  is that he has too little freedom to spend some
  time with a friend.
• Make decisions for yourself
• You must decide what result would be acceptable
  to you. But remember that in the relationship
  the most important skill is to compromise. That
  is, a good compromise where the solution is
  acceptable to both people in the relationship.
  For example, he spent time with a friend, but
  not with you. It is then worthwhile to suggest to
  your beloved partner that the three of you
  should all meet and spend interesting times
  together. Or change your relationship and give
  him more free time. This way you also get free
  time which you can spend on stuff that interest
  you, for example your hobby.
• A frank conversation.
• Because you have made your own decisions, you can
  start the conversation yourself. In this
  conversation, tell your partner that you have
  realized a lie on his part. Explain exactly what
  the lie is. During the process, try to confirm
  your words with the facts so that the man does
  not have the ability to manipulate the situation
  and get away with not giving you an answer. And
  so calmly and confidently you prove the
  existence of lies on his part.
• False feelings spoil the relationship.
• Now explain to your partner that lying does not
  lead to anything good. After a little deception,
  there is more deception. And eventually you will
  stop understanding each other and have a
  dishonest relationship. Since you do not want
  this to happen, and he still hasnt done so, ask
  him to first explain his actions. And then let
  him propose a solution to the problem.
• Compromise and a worthy decision.
• Most likely, the man will begin to promise that
  it will never happen again. Then offer him your
  solution which accommodates both of you. A
  solution which in his eyes will increase your
  self- esteem and will cause him to hardly ever
  want to lie in the future. After all, it is
  better to make amicable decisions between you.
  In rare cases, he will offer a solution that does
  not satisfy you. Then you must remember his lies
  and tell him that he does not have the right to
  demand so much. Then offer your own compromise.

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• Doing this will help you increase your authority
  in the eyes of a man. You are a beautiful and
  confident woman and this is your way of doing
  whatever you can to prevent a similar situation
  in the future. The most important thing is to try
  and never worry about it.
• When men slightly distort information about
  themselves, they consider it a trivial matter.
  Assess how he dramatizes a little and exaggerates
  the extent of a real event. Men also like to
  embellish the happenings in their own life,
  making their performance even more meaningful. In
  some ways, both phenomena even have to do with
  each other. He wants to react by crying when
  real world events are violent, by in order to
  avoid tears, he starts to lie. This does not,
  however, detract from the pain experienced by a
  woman when she catches a loved one in a lie. Why
  do men lie? Lets try understanding men.
• There are 3 main reasons why men lie in
  relationships psychology of the stronger sex
• To make an impression
• While in the process of attracting the attention
  of the female, the man wants to score as many
  points as possible in the eyes of the lady he
  likes. His logic is simple pull her in by any
  means necessary, fall in love, and then wait and
  see what happens. And at the beginning, this
  tactic often works. He laughs enthusiastically
  about his age, his status, his education and even
  his financial situation. What he however fails
  to understand is that his companion will most
  likely feel humiliated by the fact that he lied,
  instead of him relating the real state of his
  affairs.
• Men want to avoid consequences
• Example A man dreams of going fishing, but knows
  that his wife will be against it. He
  subsequently reasons it is better to lie after
  you have gone fishing under the guise of
  business negotiations. And the more a woman
  resists the desires of her partner, the less he
  will be inclined to be honest with her about his
  plans. He may under the guise of a reduction in
  wages, start saving money to respray his car. Who
  is to blame? The woman. A woman who sets too
  tight controls can cut her beloveds throat.
  Saying it like it is, it is after all very
  unlikely that you will receive anything but
  dissatisfaction and oppression.
• Save his freedom
• It also happens that a man lies about the
  details, even when he does not do anything you
  will object to. He says, for example, that he
  goes to work but then he goes to his parents. Or
  swears he drank a glass of milk for supper while
  he ate a pot of soup.
• How to understand men when they lie Most likely
  he tries to rebel against the excessive control
  of a woman in this childish way, fighting for
  every breath of freedom. How to recognize he is
  lying? As soon as he jumps off a subject, tries
  to explain something very complicated, or he
  starts to behave secretly, you caught him in the
  act! When a man really lies, his reaction will
  tell you everything about it. He may react with
  some aggression, starting to respond to ordinary
  questions with hostility or he may display
  behavior totally opposite to what is
  characteristic of him, like exaggerated
  attention. This is his way to try to compensate
  for a great sense of guilt.

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What to do when a man cheats? Our best advice is
to sort things out. Do not keep a grudge. You may
explode at the most inconvenient time and cause
a scandal, making a fool of yourself. Once you
have unpacked the basics, you start a frank
conversation. Sometimes a man lies to save
himself. Not because he is a villain, but because
he wants to protect his beloved woman from
unnecessary worries, so that she does not get
angry because of his mistakes. The mans reason
in this case is noble, though not justified. If
you encounter such lies, it is better to talk
honestly with a partner, in order to reach a
consensus. It happens that the lies of a man are
nothing more than the consequence of poor
education. Often the childhood of such men was
not very rosy. They were often punished, and
limited in deciding what they wanted to do, they
learned how to get out, and then hide the truth.
When such a man then chooses a motherly female
as companion, who has everything to look after
him and harass him, he can return to his
behavioral pattern as a child. If a man suffers
from any of the different types of addictions, a
lie in this case becomes a means of survival to
him. Lets face it, it is much easier to lie to a
partner than to admit to a love for gambling or
smoking of marijuana? The first step in this
instance is the struggle with his addictions,
rather than with his lies. And of course, the man
himself must first want to get free from his
addiction. There is also a pathological need to
deceive, of which the causes are deeply seated in
the depths of his subconscious and are
associated with a variety of child complexes.
These kind of lies can exclusively be dealt with
by specialists in this field, and even then it is
not always successful. Finally, the most common
and painful cause of why men lie to women is the
fact that the man is trying to hide his
betrayal. In this case a really gigantic effort
is required to restore the previous level of
trust between partners. It is still possible if
both are in agreement and the man is willing to
change. The only time it may be better to end the
relationship is when there is a repeated
repetition of betrayal. Every instance of
deception is unique and therefore requires
clarification of all causes and circumstances.
To change the attitude of a man who lies and
cheats is very possible, especially when both
partners are inclined to constructive dialogue.
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