How to Save Husband Wife Relationship

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How to Save Husband Wife Relationship

• By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

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What is Husband Wife Disputes And Its Solution?
Marriage is believed to be a formal union of man
and a woman which is organized by their family
and law after which they become man and wife. If
two people are getting tied together or should we
say getting married, it is important that both of
them are of same mentality and have mutual
understanding, respect for each other and have
enough trust to sustain their marriage. If all
these things are present in a marriage, life can
just become heaven. However if there is lack of
trust, mutual understandings and disrespect
toward each other, life can just become living
hell.

• By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

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Relationship Problem Communication
All relationship problems stem from poor
communication, according to Elaine Fantle
Shimberg, author of Blending Families. "You can't
communicate while you're checking your
BlackBerry, watching TV, or flipping through the
sports section," she says. Make an actual
appointment with each other, Shimberg says. If
you live together, put the cell phones on
vibrate, put the kids to bed, and let voicemail
pick up your calls. If you can't "communicate"
without raising your voices, go to a public spot
like the library, park, or restaurant where you'd
be embarrassed if anyone saw you screaming.

• By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

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Relationship Problem Sex

• Even partners who love each other can be a
  mismatch, sexually. Mary Jo Fay, author of Please
  Dear, Not Tonight, says a lack of sexual
  self-awareness and education worsens these
  problems. But having sex is one of the last
  things you should give up, Fay says. "Sex," she
  says, "brings us closer together, releases
  hormones that help our bodies both physically and
  mentally, and keeps the chemistry of a healthy
  couple healthy.
• Plan, plan, plan. Fay suggests making an
  appointment, but not necessarily at night when
  everyone is tired. Maybe during the baby's
  Saturday afternoon nap or a "before-work
  quickie." Ask friends or family to take the kids
  every other Friday night for a sleepover. "When
  sex is on the calendar, it increases your
  anticipation," Fay says. Changing things up a bit
  can make sex more fun, too, she says. Why not
  have sex in the kitchen? Or by the fire? Or
  standing up in the hallway?
• Learn what truly turns you and your partner on
  by each of you coming up with a personal "Sexy
  List," suggests California psychotherapist
  Allison Cohen. Swap the lists and use them to
  create more scenarios that turn you both on.
• If your sexual relationship problems can't be
  resolved on your own, Fay recommends consulting a
  qualified sex therapist to help you both address
  and resolve your issues.

• By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

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Relationship Problem Money
Money problems can start even before the wedding
vows are exchanged. They can stem, for example,
from the expenses of courtship or from the high
cost of a wedding. The National Foundation for
Credit Counseling (NFCC) recommends that couples
who have money woes take a deep breath and have a
serious conversation about finances. Don't
blame. Construct a joint budget that includes
savings. Decide which person will be
responsible for paying the monthly bills.

• By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

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Relationship Problem Struggles Over Home Chores
Most partners work outside the home and often at
more than one job. So it's important to fairly
divide the labor at home, says Paulette
Kouffman-Sherman, author of Dating From the
Inside Out. Be organized and clear about your
respective jobs in the home, Kouffman-Sherman
says. "Write all the jobs down and agree on who
does what." Be fair so no resentment builds. Be
open to other solutions, she says. If you both
hate housework, maybe you can spring for a
cleaning service. If one of you likes housework,
the other partner can do the laundry and the
yard. You can be creative and take preferences
into account -- as long as it feels fair to both
of you.

• By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

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Relationship Problem Not Making Your
Relationship a Priority
If you want to keep your love life going, making
your relationship a focal point should not end
when you say "I do." "Relationships lose their
luster. So make yours a priority," says Karen
Sherman, author of Marriage Magic! Find It, Keep
It, and Make It Last. Do the things you used
to do when you were first dating Show
appreciation, compliment each other, contact each
other through the day, and show interest in each
other. Plan date nights. Schedule time together
on the calendar just as you would any other
important event in your life. Respect one
another. Say "thank you," and "I appreciate..."
It lets your partner know that they matter.

• By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

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Relationship Problem Conflict
Occasional conflict is a part of life, according
to New York-based psychologist Susan Silverman.
But if you and your partner feel like you're
starring in your own nightmare version of the
movie Groundhog Day -- i.e. the same lousy
situations keep repeating day after day -- it's
time to break free of this toxic routine. When
you make the effort, you can lessen the anger and
take a calm look at underlying issues. You and
your partner can learn to argue in a more civil,
helpful manner, Silverman says. Make these
strategies part of who you are in this
relationship. Realize you are not a victim. It
is your choice whether you react and how you
react. Be honest with yourself.

• By Astrologer Vinod Kumar