Self-Pleasuring Showcase: Performing for Your Partner

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Self-Pleasuring Showcase Performing for Your
Partner
By John Dugan
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• For most men, self-pleasuring is an activity
  they have been intimately involved in for years
  usually longer than they have been engaged in any
  kind of partner-based sensual activity.
  Self-pleasuring is a regular part of most mens
  lives and plays a role in their member care
  regimen as well. Often, men feel a need to keep
  this part of their life secret from or at least
  unacknowledged by their partner. Yet many women
  would be interested in watching their partner
  self-stimulate.

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• As with so many things related to sensual
  activity, there isnt a lot of hard scientific
  evidence to measure how common a desire it is
  among women to watch their man fondle himself.
  However, based on an informal survey of various
  websites, forums and discussion sites, it seems
  there is at least a considerable number of women
  who find (or would find) this voyeuristic
  exercise to be very appealing. And there also
  appears to be quite a few men who would enjoy
  exhibiting their self-gratifying methods for
  their partner.

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Learning experience

• It does make sense. After all, watching a man
  self-gratify can be a learning experience for a
  woman. Seeing the way in which he fondles
  himself, what areas of his manhood he gives
  special attention to, how firmly he handles
  himself, how often he re-lubricates, when and how
  often he varies his stroking rate, what other
  parts of the body he stimulates all this can
  give her insights she can then use when engaging
  sensually with him.
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• And many men though not all have an
  exhibitionistic streak and would enjoy the
  opportunity to safely handle his wares in front
  of a partner.
•   If either partner is interested in this
  experience, it behooves them to bring it up and
  talk about it with their mate. Although this can
  take courage, its usually worth the risk to open
  up a dialogue at the least.

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How to perform

• If a couple does decide this is an avenue
  they are eager to take, they should decide on
  some specifics. For example, is this a one-way
  deal the man will self-stimulate only or will
  it be reciprocated by the woman having a turn to
  self-stimulate as well? Is it to be kept strictly
  solo, or is the partner invited to lend a hand if
  she feels so moved? And what about verbal
  communication should the woman stay quiet and
  just watch and the man pretend she isnt there?
  Or should she feel free to talk to him as he
  self-pleasures?
• The couple should then decide how to proceed.
  Are they ready to jump right in and just let the
  man start self-fondling right then and there? Or
  would they prefer to go through any rituals the
  man typically uses (e.g., watching adult films,
  creating a fantasy, slowly stripping, etc.)?

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• It might be decided they want to set up a
  different time for the viewing, later in the day
  or later in the week. Or perhaps the man will
  simply say he wont hide his self-pleasuring any
  longer and just let her catch him naturally.
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• For some couples, role playing may be a good
  way to ease into the activity. They could play a
  game or Truth or Dare, with the mans dare being
  to self-stimulate. Or they could fantasize she is
  a cop who demands he self-pleasure or else go to
  jail.

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• Whatever works for a man and his partner in
  terms of sharing his self-pleasuring, the man
  will want to make sure his member looks good.
  Using a top rate male organ health crème (health
  professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is
  clinically proven mild and safe for skin) is
  excellent for this purpose. A crème with both
  Shea butter and vitamin E will moisturize the
  skin, keeping it supple and avoiding unsightly
  dry patches. And if the crème also contains alpha
  lipoic acid, a powerful antioxidant, so much the
  better. Alpha lipoic acid battles free radicals,
  which left unchecked can cause male organ skin to
  look aged and thin.