Mutual Self-Pleasuring: Changing a Solo Into a Duet

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Mutual Self-Pleasuring Changing a Solo Into a
Duet
By John Dugan
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• It doesnt take a rocket scientist to know
  that self-pleasuring is typically a solo
  activity. Sure, there are exceptions, but most
  mens (and womens) self-fondling time is spent
  alone. But theres no rule against sharing
  self-stimulating activities with a partner,
  especially if that partner is willing to join in
  and fondle themselves as well. When a guy
  practices proper male organ care, his member is
  in very presentable shape and can join in a
  mutual self-pleasuring session with no worry
  about how he looks. But changing the solo
  activity into a duet can take some preparation.

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• This assumes, of course, that a man is
  interested in mutual self-pleasuring with a
  person with this partner in an existing
  relationship (whether of sensual exclusivity or
  not). There are some other situations in which a
  man can self-gratify openly with another person
  (or persons) who are essentially strangers. For
  example, many self-pleasuring clubs exist, some
  catering to men only, some to both male and
  female participants. In such situations, the only
  preparation that is required is for the man to
  locate such a club and find out its meeting
  places, times and rules.

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A partner

• But assuming a man is talking about
  self-gratifying in tandem with a recognized
  partner, the situation may require some
  forethought. Here are some things to consider
  before asking a partner to join in a stoke- or
  rub-fest.
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• Has self-pleasuring been mentioned before? In
  the relationship, have either one of the
  participants ever brought up the subject, even in
  a playful way? If so, what was said and what kind
  of response did it evoke? If it has not been
  mentioned, is that significant, or is it merely
  that the subject never arose?

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• What kind of sensual views does the partner
  have? Sometimes (although not always) a guy can
  make a pretty good guess about how his partner
  feels about self-pleasuring based on their
  embracing or rejecting of other sensual matters.
  For example, a partner who rips their clothes off
  when coupling is proposed and jumps on the bed
  growling may be more open to the idea of mutual
  self-pleasuring than a partner who insists on
  turning all the lights off before disrobing.
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• How touchy-feely is the partner where sensual
  organs are concerned? Is coupling typically all
  about penetration (or perhaps all about oral
  sensual activity), or do the participants already
  fondle each others organs in the course of their
  sensual fun?

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• Assuming that the answers to these questions
  indicate a likely willingness or interest in a
  self-pleasuring duet, the man may want to move
  forward although still with caution if he is
  unsure of how the partner might respond.
• Each couple is different, so there is no hard
  and fast rule as to whether to approach the
  subject jokingly, seriously, playfully, etc.
  Whatever approach is made, a guy should be
  prepared for some negative reactions.

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• For example, a partner may find the idea
  distasteful. If so, this will hopefully be
  expressed in a sensitive manner.
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• Similarly, some partners may mistakenly
  believe that a guy is suggesting this approach
  because he doesnt find the couples current
  sensual activities satisfying. The man should
  firmly reassure the partner that this is not the
  case and that he is simply looking to explore new
  ways of sharing their sensual selves.

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• Hopefully, the partner will respond that they
  are quite happy to make the heretofore solo
  self-pleasuring experience into a dual endeavor.
  In that case, a guy definitely want to make sure
  he has been keeping his manhood healthy by using
  a first class male organ health crème (health
  professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is
  clinically proven mild and safe for skin).
  Attractive manhood skin is a must, so find a
  crème that can keep it well moisturized via
  ingredients like Shea butter and vitamin E. It
  also pays to select a crème with vitamin C, a key
  component of the collagen that gives male organ
  skin its tone and elasticity. A good looking
  member makes a man proud.