Title: 6 Reasons Why People Don’t Take Action
16 Reasons Why People Dont Take Action
2- Ever notice your good intentions falling through
no matter how much you wanted to achieve them?
Maybe you set goals for yourself or make New
Years resolutions and they fall by the wayside
in just a matter of weeks. There are six reasons
why you dont take the action you should or you
do things you shouldnt - Reason 1 People want to gain pleasure and avoid
pain - Reason 2 People will do more to avoid pain than
to gain pleasure - Reason 3 Perception of the pain or pleasure is
stronger than the reality - Reason 4 Perception of pain and pleasure is
modulated by time - Reason 5 Emotion trumps logic, and emotional
pain is stronger than physical pain - Reason 6 Survival always beats desire
- These six reasons explain why people make 100 of
their decisions. By understanding these reasons,
you can use them to change your failures into
successes.
3The Focus of Pleasure and Pain
The first part comes down to an understanding of
how pain and pleasure impact people. The need to
avoid pain is stronger than the need to feel
pleasure, even if the pain will bring pleasure.
For instance, you may need to go through a
painful procedure to feel good, but you avoid it
because youre focused more on how much it will
hurt versus the benefits. The perception of the
pain or pleasure is stronger than the reality. A
person who is afraid of needles will perceive
them as more painful than they really are. This
same idea is true of pleasure. People often
expect something to be more pleasurable than what
it ends up providing them. It is the perception
that guides peoples decisions. Even if they know
in their head whats true, their perceived ideas
will lead them in decision making.
4- Another aspect of this idea is the timeline of
the pleasure or pain. Something happening to
cause one or the other in the near future is more
important than what will happen in the future.
You can see it played out in peoples finances.
The pleasure received from buying items today
trumps the pleasure to be gained by developing
financial security from saving money five or ten
years down the road or even one year in the
future.
5Emotion Prevails
- What this focus of pleasure and pain does for
decision making becomes even clearer when you
consider that emotion wins out over logic.
Emotional pain will impact your decisions far
more than what your brain tells you. The heart
will override the mind because everyone wants to
avoid heartbreak even more than they want to
avoid physical pain. - The ultimate emotional decision comes down to
survival and avoiding what is perceived as the
worst pain of all death. People are programmed
to survive rather than thrive. Instead of being
built for success, humans are built to learn how
to survive and stay alive. They focus on the here
and now rather than what the future might bring
because survival is all about getting through the
immediate time.
6How to Win
- When you read these principles of decision making
and understand how they pertain to you and
others, you may wonder if theres any hope. They
apply to any decision you make. But that doesnt
mean you are doomed to lose and to continue to
fail to take the actions you know are right. - What you have to do is go back and ask yourself,
How can I fix this? How can I make decisions
where I thrive instead of just survive? Being
aware of the impetus behind decision making is
the first step. The second thing you have to do
is learn how to make it work for you. Take the
survival instinct. Learn how to make your health
decisions about surviving. Put the emotions into
it. Instead of trying to make good decisions
because youre supposed to, make them because
they help you survive.
7- For example, going to the gym and working out is
often a decision based on facts. You know its
the right thing to do, youll be healthier, etc.
To make it a decision youll follow through on,
you have to put the emotional appeal into it.
Imagine what would happen to you if you didnt
work out and try to be healthier. Feel the
emotional pull of wanting to do this for your
family or because you dont want to feel the pain
of sickness or for whatever reason that will
motivate you. - The key to making positive changes in your life
and avoiding bad decisions is to learn what
motivates you and to use it for your success.
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