Title: friday night
1Friday Night
- What to do on Friday night?
2What you can do at Friday night
Man, its Friday. Tomorrow is Saturday, the only
day of the week fully sandwiched by pure
happiness there is no reason to be productive
today. Youve got a solid two days in front of
you to just chill out and catch up if you
absolutely have to, not to mention all of the
festivities youll be partaking in tonight.
Cruise Facebook, Google yourself, spend two hours
on Wikipedia learning about the reproductive
process of snails and the Crimean War. Friday
is the day you are going to spend the rest of the
afternoon contemplating your embarrassing love
for One Direction and filling up virtual shopping
carts youre totally not going to cash out on,
and you are not going to be judged for it.
3What you can do at Friday night
- Cooking a recipe more complicated than microwave
lunch and pizza order. - Were essentially bombarded, by Pinterest and The
Food Network, notably, with endless ideas for
food that we stare at for five minutes before
promptly erasing it from our collective memory.
Ill never make that, we think, That has more
than three ingredients. But Friday is the day in
which you can stay up as late as you want, trying
all different combinations of sauces and meats
that make you temporarily feel like some kind of
bloated, power-crazed royalty. You can feel free
to nurture a healthy food baby and even share in
the cooking process with other people, so long as
they dont set your kitchen on fire. (Keep the
drunker ones on table-setting duty or something.)
The thing about making a good dinner from scratch
is that, aside from it being delicious and a fun
change of pace, you also feel almost Bear
Grylls-esque at the end of it, as though you
could make do with anything, if provided the
proper spatula.
4 Having a delicious, overpriced, new for you
drink.
- Its Friday, its time to start the weekend at
the crack of five with one of those novelty
cocktails that come in fishbowl-sized wine
glasses that middle-aged women like giggling
about while on cruises. Been dying to try that
new craft beer? Throw caution to the wind and
unwind with a few of them. There are few things
more fulfilling than a slight buzz and an entire
weekend in front of you with a few friends. Sit,
sunglasses applied firmly to the face, on a
terrace at happy hour, looking smug and vaguely
hostile towards the people who are staring at you
for thoroughly enjoying the end of your work
week. Fridays are your days, and if we were meant
to spend our whole lives caring whether or not
people thought we were partying too much, we
would have stayed in our parents houses. - Tiered from all these but dont want to stay at
home? Find something new for you, such as pub
crawls, roof parties, thematic parties etc.
5Getting a number.
- Im not sure I know what Saturdays and Sundays
are for, but Friday nights are for going out and
prowling like youre trying to wipe out some kind
of endangered species. And how many times do we
see the beautiful Friday-evening guys still in
their suits, or the girls laughing coquettishly
in impenetrable, iron-clad groups of four or
five, and deeply regret not pursuing that
conversation with the one who was totally making
eyes at us? Much better to put yourself out there
and get turned down who cares? Do a shot or
something with your friends and laugh it off
than to go home and berate yourself for being
such a timid loser. Fridays are the night for
making poorly-informed, but often incredibly
fruitful decisions. Tonight is the night to go
home with a number but dont you dare do it
quoting that song. You know the one Im talking
about.
6Alone on a Friday Night?
- Sure, youd rather be spending the evening with
people, but unless youre due one good night of
takeout and tv watching (limit 1 per month), put
down the egg rolls and the remote control,
consider these options, and dang it, live a
little! Or, at least do some things youve not
made time for. - Go on a date with yourself Enjoy an evening
with yourself, appreciate the time you can stay
alone with your own thoughts. - Call/Hang out with family-Some of us dont have
an issue with keeping up with dear old Mom and
Dad. Others of us have to be held at gunpoint.
Consider this your threat. Call your mom. Just
because. And while youre at it, call your
grandparents, siblings, and your aunts and
uncles. Or, even better, go see a family member.
Of course they drive you crazy, but you dont
have anywhere else to be tonight, so you can deal
with your emotional upheaval later in the privacy
of your own home.
7Alone on a Friday Night?
- Hang out with your married friends - Some of us
are bad about losing touch with our friends once
they get married. Sure, they have a lot of
obligationsa spouse, kids, workbut some of them
would really love to see us more and would enjoy
meeting us for dessert or coffee after they help
their spouse put the kids to bed. - Browse a bookstore and dont buy anything (or do)
- Get a bunch of magazines you never have time to
read or Steve Jobs biography that you have no
intention of buying or conduct research in the
travel section for your summer vacation. Take a
stack of books to a table in the coffee shop and
enjoy having time to do something youve been
putting off for a while. Theres no coffee shop
in your bookstore? Good for you for not
contributing to the Monster, but that also means
youll need to support a small business and buy
something.
8Resources
- Thought Catalog See More
- Harlem Pub Crawl See More