Delegating for Your Wedding

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• Delegating for Your Wedding

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• For some people delegating is an easy skill to
  handle and master. These people are able to
  assign tasks without so much as a blink of an eye
  and make dividing work look like second nature.
  Then there are people who view delegating as a
  completely foreign concept.

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• When people ask if they can help, the answers
  they receive are usually variations of the same
  sentiment. I can do it myself, or No, dont
  worry about it, and these phrases are usually
  similar. Delegating can be a hard skill to
  acquire and even harder to master.

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• Brides are especially bad to view delegating as a
  disease they want no part of. A bride likely has
  a vision for her wedding and she wants is
  perfect. That is to be expected. But getting
  ready for your big day can try even the most
  organized bride.

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• Delegating tasks for your wedding is a lot easier
  than you might think. For example when it comes
  to your wedding dress, a stylist at Labella
  Bridal can help make the task much easier than
  going it alone.

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• If you still have fears about handing off your
  wedding details to someone else, read below for
  some tips to help make the transition a little
  easier.
• Learning Strengths
• Your friends and family members all have
  strengths.

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• It doesnt matter if they are goofy most of the
  time and like to joke around. When it comes to
  your wedding, more than likely they will show up
  ready to help and a whole new side of them will
  come out.

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• You may not know their best strengths and
  weaknesses until you begin working with them.
  Once the wedding planning begins it might be a
  good idea to sit down with your group and go over
  things. Find out what would be easiest for your
  friends to do. If one friend has amazing
  handwriting skills then leave RSVPs and notes to
  them.

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• Some friends might be business savvy and have a
  gift at negotiating. This sort of thing can come
  in extremely handy when youre shopping for
  vendors and accessories. No matter what the
  strength is, youre most likely to find a task
  which will fit your friends perfectly.

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• Dont look at them as your goofy friend. Instead,
  consider their strengths and see them as
  co-workers on this important task.
• Letting Go
• Let it go is a pretty popular phrase these days.
  Taking a page from the song might also help you
  learn to release a little control and delegate
  tasks to other members of your family or wedding
  party.

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• In your life apart from the wedding you might be
  able to do it all. If youre the type of person
  with endless energy and the drive to do
  everything yourself, thats wonderful. Its a
  gift and a skill to have that sort of drive. But
  realize that your wedding isnt just another task
  you need to finish in your daily life.

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• Your wedding is something which requires a huge
  amount of focus and detail to the little things.
  Its a task which might not be suite to your
  skillset. Thats when you have to learn to let it
  go. Realize that just because you cant get it
  all done,

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• it doesnt mean you have failed. Giving tasks to
  other people, be it family members or
  professionals, is a good thing. It will keep your
  stress level down and give you more time to keep
  the other parts of your life in check.
• Be Bold
• One odd thing about delegating tasks for your
  wedding might be the idea of having to actually
  assign tasks to people.

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• Sometimes your friends or wedding group might not
  feel its their place to rush up and throw offers
  of assistance to you all at once. If youre the
  type to do it all yourself, then friends and
  family might take a seat until their name is
  called. This is doubly difficult if youre a Type
  A person. Actually setting your desire to do it
  all aside is the first step in all of this. If
  youre embarrassed to do it in person,

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• send a nice card to your chosen friend or family
  member and request their help with getting
  everything in order for your wedding day.
  Sometimes people simply need to be asked to help
  out. It doesnt mean they arent willing and
  wanting to help you out. Sure, the idea of going
  out and having to recruit help might feel weird,

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• but at the end of the day it isnt such a bad
  thing. Your wedding helpers will feel like they
  were truly wanted on board and you will have
  hardworking help to make sure you get your
  wedding day just the way you want.
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