Title: What his Body Language is really saying
1What his Body Language is really saying?
2Observe his posture Leaning back with his arms
crossed in front of him could mean that your date
isn't into you-unless you are sitting at a chilly
outdoor café and he's cold. His actions should
match his words, so watch for verbal and
nonverbal consistency. Telling you that he's
having a great time while leaning back and
looking toward the door or saying "yes" while
shaking his head are bad signs.
3What his smile means A faux-happy smile ends at
the lips, while a genuine one will make the
corners of his eyes crinkle into crow's feet,
which, according to experts, is one of the
hardest things to fake.
4His Nose movement Flared nostrils indicate
increased heart rate, which could mean he's
angry, sexually aroused-or both!
5Follow his feet A body points toward where it
wants to be going-so if his feet face you, he's
all yours. But if they are angled toward the
door, he's mentally on his way out.
6How he positions his hands Palms up on the table
is a sign of relaxed, open interest-but hidden
under the table are a sign of discomfort. Either
he's hiding something, or very nervous.
7Stroking his chin People often stroke their chin
during the decision-making process, so he's
probably pondering something.
8Reaching his arms for you We naturally reach
toward things we like, so an arm around you or a
hand touching you are very good signs, while arms
clasped behind the back signal, "Don't come any
closer."
9The position of his legs If his legs are splayed
out, he's confident and trying to claim his
territory. If they are crossed, notice which leg
is on top a leading leg pointing toward you
means he's trying to get closer, but legs crossed
the other way are a subconscious play for space.
10The eyes have it Looking toward the ears
indicates that someone is remembering a sound,
while looking up and to the left means someone is
remembering something. Narrowing eyes is a sign
of anger. We constantly hear that liars avert
their eyes, but actually the opposite is true.
Because they know that eye contact is important,
liars will often stare you down to
overcompensate.
11Keep your body in sync with his Keep your body
language open and relaxed-simply mirroring them
by leaning forward at the same time or picking up
your glass at the same time will make your date
subconsciously feel that you are in sync. There
is a reason why con artists, car salesmen, and
serious flirts have perfected this technique-it
works!
12Article from shine.yahoo.com