Title: Social
1Social Emotional Challenges of Adolescence
2- Unhappy adolescents take it out on the easiest
targets usually parents and teachers. When
they make life intolerable for you, its probably
because theyre finding it pretty unbearable
themselves.
3A Review of Adolescence
- Physical growth
- 7 other key developmental tasks
- Feel comfortable with their bodies
- Become emotionally independent from parents
- Learn to think and express themselves
conceptually - Develop a personal set of values
- Form meaningful relationships with both sexes
- Define sexual orientation and decide whether to
become sexually active - Work toward economic stability
4- Physically puberty
- Emotionally begin to distance themselves but
may yo-yo about it - Intellectually
- Enter adolescence with concrete perceptions
(right/wrong black/white) - Rarely look beyond present
- Younger teens cant see long term consequences
- Older teens appreciate subtleties but still
inexperienced and may act without thinking
5Milestones of Early Adolescence (ages 11-13)
- Worries about appearance of developing body
- Hormonal changes
- Asserts independence
- Rebellious, defiant
- Friends more important
- Sense of belonging
- Strong sense of justice, but sees in black/white
and from own view
6Consequences for the Child
- Self-conscious
- General moodiness
- Experiments with dress, speech, manners to find
their own identity - Rude
- Friends and friends parents are the yardstick of
belonging - May seem intolerant - has difficulty compromising
7Milestones of Middle Adolescence (ages 14-16)
- Less self-absorbed and can compromise
- Thinks independently and makes own decisions
- Experiments with self-image
- Collects new experiences, tests boundaries, takes
risks - Builds a sense of values
- Identifies own sexuality
- Thinks abstractly, hypothetically
- Socially and physically adventurous
8Consequences for the Child
- More composed, equitable, tolerant
- More discriminating friends less important
- Style may change frequently
- May try cigarettes, alcohol, soft drugs
- Questions family values
- Dates, has short relationships, guards privacy
- Will discuss and debate
- May not follow safety precautions
9Milestones of Late Adolescence (ages 17-21)
- Feels like an equal adult in the family
- Almost ready to become independent and
self-reliant - Forms more stable sexual relationships
- Idealistic
- Involved outside the family (e.g., work)
- Its late adolescence when intellectual,
emotional and social development catch up with
physical development
10Consequences for the Child
- Parents may resent the child feeling he/she is an
equal - Leaves home
- May have a serious boy/girl friend
- May become involved in a movement, social or
political cause extreme example is a cult - Doesnt want to go on family outings, vacations,
etc.
11Risk Taking
- What is it? Young people with limited
experience engaging in potentially destructive
behavior with or without understanding the
consequences of their actions - May be biologically driven social- emotional
part of the brain (amygdala) develops faster than
the cognitive-control part of the brain (frontal
cortex) - May be channeled productively working out,
extreme sports with built-in safety requirements
12Thrill Seekers
- Injury or threat of injury makes no difference
- Adrenaline junkies
- Crisis ridden life
- Seek risk/thrills
- Addiction in family
- Possible consequences are irrelevant
- Wait until the last minute
- 30 of population
- Mostly males
- Genetic?
13Why Do Adolescents Take Risks?
- Some risk-taking is a normal part of adolescence
- Helps to define ones self (function peer
affiliation, expression of ones identify) - The problem is usually in degree experimenting
vs. pattern - Reasons romance of it, emulate popular culture,
emulate adult role models
14Warning Signs of High Risk
- Withdrawal
- Progressive behavior
- Seeks novelty (Im so bored)
- Sensation-seeking
- Lack of self-regulation
- Sees violence as acceptable
- Knowing vs. Doing
- Contemptuous of police, laws, etc.
15Implications for Educating Risk Takers
- All aspects of learning environment highly
stimulating - No rote or regimented learning
- Fast pace, variable pace, discussion format,
color media, open space, high variety, high
activity, noisy, discovery learning
dramatic/lively/extroverted teacher
16Girls vs. Boys
- Boys and girls are more alike than different
- Some gender-specific characteristics warrant
attention - Difference may be due to biology and to cultural
expectations
17Girls
- Tend to relate to others earlier and more easily
- Inflict more emotional damage than physical
damage - Are far more uncomfortable with their bodies
- Need encouragement they are equal but also free
to be female
18Boys
- Have a greater need for physical activity
- Fight physically, not verbally, and then its
over - Forge friendships around interests rather than
emotional connection - Have feelings, too
19Aggression in Middle School
- Types of violence
- Situational (gt40)
- Relationship (25)
- Predatory (8)
- Psychopathological (0.5)
- Establishes and improves ones status
- Protects ones status
- Improving and protecting ones peer group
- Bullying social power
20Function of Aggression in Girls
- Gain a reputation for toughness
- Power!
- Social identify and status
- Boyfriends are emotional possessions issues
of ownership and control - Refuge protection from abuse , male to female
violence - Gang sense of belonging, family, safety
21Implications of Adolescence Academics
- Structure routines and clarity
- Scaffolding reach student at his/her level
- Foster Engagement activities with a high
probability of success
22Implications Behavior
- Structure expectations and meaningul
consequences - Support responsive, fair relationship with
teachers guidance mentoring centers on success
(not problems) - Behavior problems as teachable moments (teach,
retrain, reinforce)
23Implications Social
- Monitor social roles
- Monitor peer affiliations
- Understand the group, relative status (external
and internal) - Extracurricular involvement supportive
relationships with adults and pro-social peers
24Implications Overall
- Provide opportunities to successfully fall and
to get back up - Consistency and communication across teachers and
administration - Address issues systematically to enhance success
- Intervention teaching, practicing, reinforcing
25Moral Development
- Kohlbergs Moral Development
- Carried Piagets work into adolescence and
adulthood - Robert Coles (Moral Intelligence of Children)
- Daniel Goleman (Emotional Intelligence)
- PREPARE Curriculum (www.researchpress.com)
- www.tigger.uic.edu/lnucci/MoralEd/
26Adolescent Psychology and EBD
- Most teenagers commit some delinquent act
- 85 dont get caught
- Its the degree
- EBD about 2
- Is it far outside normal adolescence?
- Match vs. mismatch
27Deciding Whats Normal
- If it worries you, ask yourself why
- Look at the context and real implications is it
abnormal or simply maddening or objectionable?
Is it disabling or just annoying? Is it
disturbed or disturbing? - Teens have mood swings is it more frequent,
more severe? - Contributing factors teens own personality,
family situations and attitudes, low self-esteem
28When to Worry
- Dangerousness
- Pattern vs. Once
- Understand the cause/function
- Student is secretive you discover the issue
29Implications
- Cant see beyond the present
- Transition planning
- Other long-term planning
- Cant take the perspective of others
- Cant think straight
- Cant see how own behavior affects others
- Cant appreciate long term consequences
- Expulsion for life
- Pregnancy
- Crime
30Summary