Title: UNDERSTANDING THE FILIPINO Felipe M. de Leon, Jr.
1UNDERSTANDING THE FILIPINOFelipe M. de Leon, Jr.
2Filipinos are not Malays
- Filipinos did not descend from the Malays
(Manuel, Jocano, Hornedo, et al) - Our culture and languages are not derived from
Malay - There is no such thing as a Malay race
- in anthropological science - Dr.Arsenio
Manuel - Rizal is not the Pride of the Malay Race
(Ozaeta, 1949) but of the Filipino people - The belief that the Philippines was inhabited by
successive waves of migration of Negritos,
Indonesians and Malays has no basis in historical
fact.
3- David Zorc, a world class linguist, with
specialization in Austronesian languages had this
to say - while Filipinos want to claim Indonesians and
Malaysians as their progenitors (hence the
Maragtas, Code of Kalantiaw, etc.), - in truth it was from the Philippines that the
Indonesians and Malays came, and at a much
greater time depth than anyone estimated."
4MILESTONES IN PHILIPPINE HISTORY
- 750,000 500,000 B.C. - Earliest-dated flake
stone tools found in - Solana, Cagayan
- 49, 000 B.C. - Fossil remains of modern man (homo
sapiens - sapiens) found in the Tabon caves of Quezon,
Palawan - 895-775 B.C. Manunggul burial jar
- 900 A.D. - Laguna copperplate document
5Laguna Copperplate Document
6 7- Mabuhay! Taóng Siyaka 822, buwán ng Waisaka,
ayon sa aghámtalà. Ang ikaapat na araw ng pagliít
ng buwán, Lunes. Sa pagkakátaóng itó, si Dayang
Angkatán sampû ng kaniyáng kapatíd na
nagngangalang Buka, na mga anák ng
Kagalang-galang na si Namwarán, ay ginawaran ng
isáng kasulatan ng lubós na kapatawarán mulâ sa
Punong Pangkalahatan sa Tundún sa pagkatawán ng
Punong Kagawad ng Pailáh na si Jayadewa.
8- Sa atas na itó, sa pamamagitan ng Tagasulat,
ang Kagalang-galang na si Namwarán ay pinatawad
na sa lahát at inalpasán sa kaniyáng utang at
kaniyáng mga náhulíng kabayarán na 1 katî at 8
suwarna sa harapán ng Kagalang-galang na Punong
Kagawad ng Puliran na si Ka Sumurán, sa
kapangyarihan ng Kagalang-galang na Punong
Kagawad ng Pailáh.
9-
- Dahil sa matapát na paglilingkód ni Namwarán
bilang isáng sakop ng Punò, kinilala ng
Kagalang-galang at batikáng Punong Kagawad ng
Binwangan ang lahát ng nabubuhay pang kamag-anak
ni Namwarán na inangkín ng Punò ng Dewatà, na
kinatawán ng Punò ng Medáng. -
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10- Samakatwíd, ang mga nabubuhay na inapó ng
Kagalang-galang na si Namwarán ay pinatawad sa
anumán at lahát ng utang ng Kagalang-galang na si
Namwarán sa Punò ng Dewatà. Itó, kung sakalì, ay
magpapahayag kaninumán na mulâ ngayón kung may
taong magsasabing hindî pa alpás sa utang ang
Kagalang-galang...
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12- 10th to 12th c. A.D. - Gold ornaments,
accessories and utensils reach high - degree of excellence, especially in
- Butuan, Mindanao
- 1100 A.D - Formal trading is undertaken with
China, India, Arabia, and with Indonesia,
Malaysia and Cambodia - 13th c. A.D. - A Muslim settlement rises in
Sulu
13- 1417 A.D. - Treaty of Friendship and Trade
between the Sultan of Sulu Paduka Batara and
Emperor Yong Le of the Ming
Dynasty in China - 1565 - Spanish colonization begins
- 1887 - National Hero Jose Rizal publishes Noli Me
Tangere - 1896 - Revolution against Spanish rule begins
- 1898, June 12 - Declaration of Independence
(first in Asia)
14Symbolism of the Filipino Flag
- Sus ocho rayos simbolizando las ocho provincias
de Manila, Cavite, Bulacan, Pampanga, Nueva
Ecija, Tarlac, Laguna y Batangas, que fueron
declaradas en estado de guerra, casi tan pronto
como el primer movimiento insurreccional se
inicio
15- Las tres estrellas representan las tres
principales islas de este Archipielago Luzon,
Mindanao y Panay, en las cuales este movimiento
insurreccional estallo
16- 1899, January 23 Inauguration of
Constitutional Republic
(first in Asia) - 1899, February 4 1913, December -
- bloody Filipino-American War (4, 234
- Americans and 600,000 - 1 million
- Filipinos killed)
- 1907 - effective beginning of American rule
17- 1935 1945 - Commonwealth Period
- 1941, December 8 - Manila is attacked by
Japanese forces - 1945, February 27 End of Japanese Occupation
- 1946, July 4 - the United States recognizes
Philippine Independence beginning of Second
Philippine Republic
18What is Culture?
- To culture is to cultivate, as in agriculture,
horticulture, aquaculture, sericulture, beauty
culture, voice culture, etc. - Any activity, product or expression attained
through the application of human skill is
CULTURE, that which is not is NATURE, such as
trees, rivers, mountains, birds.
19- In its broadest sense, culture may be defined
as - Way of life, a design for living
- Shared patterns of behavior and meaning, of
expectations and responses - Shared system of vital ideas about the world
20UNESCO defines culture asThe whole complex of
distinctive spiritual, material, intellectual and
emotional features that characterize a society or
social group. It includes not only the arts and
letters, but also modes of life, the fundamental
rights of the human being, value systems,
traditions and beliefs.
21 Cultural Questions (Being Questions of
Perception, Valuing, and Meaning)
- What brings out the good, the best in the
Filipino? How do you inspire or what inspires
Filipinos towards positive, productive or
constructive behavior/social action? - How do you get Filipinos to cooperate and work
together harmoniously, happily, efficiently and
effectively?
22- What are we most productive/creative at/in? What
is the nature of the Filipino cultural genius
(both local and nationally shared)? - How do you bring out honesty, sincerity, and
loyalty? - How do you resolve conflicts?
- How do you criticize ones work or raise
standards of excellence without arousing ill will
and resentment?
23- How do you inculcate or promote discipline and
dedication to ones task? - The feeling of being taken advantage of being
exploited, abused being treated unfairly,
unjustly, or being demeaned, insulted
(pinagsasamantalahan, minamaltrato, ginugulangan,
nilalamangan, iniinsulto o binabastos) is
abhorrent to the Filipino, it being a serious
affront to ones dignity as an ultimately sacred
being.
24A Filipino Perspective
- Build on Our Strengths
- - Need for Positive Self-Image
- - Social Self-Images are Self-Fulfilling
- - Root cause of Philippine under-
- development
- Filipino tendency towards self bashing, esp.
among the Westernized elite, preventing us from
tapping our greatest asset for sustainable
development - our cultural strengths and
resources.
25- Cult of smallness
- Celebration of Defeat
- Dona Victorina Syndrome
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- Work for the Good of the Nation as a Whole
- ACT LOCALLY, THINK NATIONALLY, also ACT
LOCALLY, THINK GLOBALLY - Pride, Commitment, Excellence
26Promoting Filipino Cultural Identity
- Cultural Identity as the Basis of Economic
Competitiveness Cultural identity has it source
in - originality, indigenousness, authenticity,
uniqueness, historicity, magnitude, and
excellence - Anywhere in the world people prefer the
distinctive, one with character, not anything
bland - and featureless
27FILIPINOS LOVE TO CONNECT, ESPECIALLY TO PEOPLE
- Among the most highly relational in the world,
Filipinos are hardly alone. They are happy being
together - when they eat, sleep, work, travel,
pray, create or celebrate. They feel connected to
the world, God and nature, but most of all to
people.
28Nobody likes to be left out of a photo op
29Togetherness is happiness
- Filipinos hardly eat alone
- Invite a person to your party, how many will
come? - Bantay(watcher) extra bed
- Picture-taking mania
- Prizes for everybody
- Do not praise small items - Juan Flavier
30- Pabalot, balato, bonus
- (forms of sharing)
- Pasalubong( quasi-sacred ritual gift from a
journey) - Cannot keep secrets
- Relational terms for calling each other
- Texting capital of the world
- No isolated notes (hagod, slides, scooping)
31Notes are PeoplePitch Relations Reflect People
Relations
- In individualistic cultures where people preserve
their private space and separateness from others,
musical pitches also tend to be discrete or
isolated from each other.
- In communal cultures where togetherness and
connectedness with others is highly valued,
musical pitches tend to be bridged by slides or
a microtonal continuum.
32FILIPINO PROXEMICS OF PRIVACY
- To be alone a German needs four thick walls which
shut off all light and sound from the outside. - A Japanese needs only thin paper screens
- A Filipino does not need a physical structure to
spend time alone. All that is needed is for him
to stay in a corner and keep quiet. - This is proof that even in our precious
moments of solitude, we are still willing to
share our whole being, should the need arise
33MY SPACE IS YOUR SPACE
- OPEN HOUSE In most Western cultures, guests are
allowed to move around only within the confines
of the living room.In Filipino culture, guests
may roam anywhere inside or outside the house,
even in the bedrooms - FEEL AT HOME How long can your relative or
close friend temporarily stay in your house?
34Filipino Sociableness
- Beth Day Romulo Of all Asian capitals, Manila
is the friendliest. Manilans embrace the
diplomatic community and love to entertain them.
One Western diplomat marveled at being invited to
dinner at a local home the next night after he
arrived in Manila. - Beijing diplomats live in an enclave and
entertain one another. In Tokyo, locals sometimes
take diplomats out to dinner at a restaurant but
never invite them to their own homes.
35- Manila is not only socially hospitable. People
here also like to get the diplomatic set involved
in local projects. - No matter how bad a press the Philippines may
occasionally get abroad, the foreigners who have
actually lived here love it, and usually hope to
return. - Filipinos call their spouses with the highest
frequency (66 are daily callers), followed by
Indonesians and Malaysians-FEER
36- Filipinos most remember their spouses birthday.
95 always remember. 3 remember most of the
time. - Among the highest-income groups of 13 countries
in Asia, Filipinos most prefer to stay and relax
at home as a mode of leisure - Filipinos most perceive themselves as fashionable
in dressing, followed by South Koreans
37Most Romantic in Southeast Asia
- A Mobile Lifestyle Survey conducted by Asia
Market Intelligence for Siemens in late 2002
among six SEAn countries found that Filipinos
send I love you messages the most often - Filipinos 58
- Indonesians 41
- Malaysians 36
- Singaporeans 31
- Thais 30
- Indians 24
38WORKPLACE AS EXTENSION OF THE HOME
- Filipinos are strongly family-oriented and most
comfortable in a homey setting - Superiors tend be regarded as filial authority
- As in the family, rituals for affirming
togetherness would be very helpful, such as
prayers, singing, recreational activities,
sharing of concerns - Like parents, superiors are expected to provide
care and support in all levels
39FASHIONABLE ELEGANCE
- The highly sociable Filipino always likes to be
in style neat, fit and smart. Whether rich or
poor, reformer or rebel, manager or laborer, the
Filipino dresses well and smells nice. A
well-groomed person is socially attractive.
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41Loners More Prone to Heart Disease
- People with lots of friends are usually the
healthiest in the world - Lack of friends and close social ties are the
hidden cause of heart disease - As social ties increase, mortality rates decrease
- Married people, members of religious groups and
the like often live longer - Social isolation breeds depression, which may
lead to lower immunity to disease and even suicide
42MULTI-SIGNIFICANCEBringing People Together
- An effective Filipino tool for connecting people
to each other is to endow an activity,
presentation or creation with as many different
meanings, functions and qualities as possible.
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44TRANSPARENCY Openness and Trust
- The Filipino is a highly accessible and
accommodating person, basically trusting and
open, yet quite sensitive and demanding of
respect and recognition of ones dignity.
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46Bukas ang kalooban, not private
- Windows all around ancestral houses
- Aliwalas, airy spaciousness and openness of
interiors - Space surrounds space
- High value placed on being natural, informal,
personal
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48LISTEN TO THE FEELING TONE
- Do not listen to what the Filipino says as much
as how he says it. - Listen to the feeling tone, read between the
lines - Filipinos communicate non-verbally most of the
time - Be sensitive to non-verbal symbols, facial
expressions, gestures, or body language to
understand what the Filipino is really trying to
say
49Makuha Ka Sa Tingin
- 88 WAYS OF LOOKING IN TAGALOG
- TINGIN to look
- DILAT, PANDILATAN stare squarely at
- MASID, MASDAN observe or look at searchingly
- MALAS observing look
- MATYAG close observation
- LIYAW to spy, watch, observe
50- ANINAG see thru a transparent or translucent
medium - ANINAW see thru a haze
- TANGHOD to look fascinatedly
- TANGA, TUMANGA to look at something
absentmindedly - SULILING to glance sideways, affectedly or
disdainfully - MATA, MATAHIN to look at something with
critical eyes, condescendingly
51- SILAY briefly but seriously
- TITIG steadfastly and fixedly
- IRAP with annoyance
- LISIK sparkling of the eyes as when one is
extremely irked or irritated - LIING to look out of the corner of ones eyes
- MUSING with a frown
- SULI vexedly
- DAYAP with an evil eye
52- ILAM to look sideways
- SULYAP sidewise quickly
- DUNGSOL look again and again
- LINGAP cast a glance
- LINGA look here and there as if searching for
something - LINGI, LINGIGIG look here and there, worriedly
because of some noise - LINGOS here and there, unmindfully
53- BALILILING with a turn of the head
- LINGON over ones shoulders
- TUNGO downwards
- TINGALA upwards
- SIPAT looking over (a surface) to check
levelness, (or a line, row) to check alignment - SUMIK looking as if listening
- BANTAY to look at what is ones own (to keep an
eye on)
54- TANAW looking from a distance
- TANGHAL looking from a distance contemplating
the beauty or grandeur of something - NOOD to look at something that brings delight
- TINGHAD strain ones neck in order to see an
object not on the level of ones eyes - MULAGAT stare
- SILIP peep
55- SIGLAP superficial, accidental glance without
much attention - SIGLAW glimpse involuntary passing notice
- PATUMANGA or DANGA look born of awe or dread
- LISAW disquieting look because of anger
- LILAP peculiar flushing of the eyes of drunks
- TUNGANGA open-mouthed curiosity or indifference
56- BALING look from one side to another
- SULINDING, PASULINDING glance obliquely,
superciliously - MANGANINO, MANALAMIN to look into a mirror
- SILAW dazzled
- ALIBAY follow a moving object with ones eyes
- BANAAG glimpse, have a glimmer of
- MULAT open eyed
- At marami pang iba
57EXPRESSIVENESS Maximalism
- The common Filipino is a maximalist, filling up
every available space with forms and things. It
springs from an expressive exuberance deeply
rooted in emotional sensitivity and the strong
urge to connect.
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59Treat the other person as you treat yourself
because the other person is also yourself -
Filipino core idea
60THE CORE VALUES
- KAPWA
- (Shared Identity)
- PAKIRAMDAM
- (Shared Inner Perception)
- KAGANDAHANG LOOB
- (Shared Humanity)
61KAPWA
- SHARED IDENTITY (Shared Inner Self, The other
person is also yourself) - the core of Filipino psychology, it is
humaneness at the highest level - implies unique moral obligation to treat one
another as equal fellow human beings
62PAKIRAMDAM
SHARED INNER PERCEPTION
- (Knowing Through Feeling or
- Tacit Knowing Participatory Sensitivity)
- A unique social skill inherent in Filipino
personhood - The need for openness and basic trust is a
precondition for this active process of sensing
subtle cues
63KAGANDAHANG LOOB
- SHARED HUMANITY (Pagkamakatao A Shared Inner
Nobility A Quiet Sense of Responsibility for
Others A Great Compassion for All Living
Beings) - Nudges a person towards genuine acts of
generosity, kindness and caring
64Levels of Filipino Social Interaction
- AMONG OUTSIDERS
- PAKIKITUNGO (courtesy)
- PAKIKISALAMUHA (mixing)
- PAKIKILAHOK (joining)
- PAKIKIBAGAY (adapting)
- PAKIKISAMA (getting along with)
65PAKIKISAMA
- DEEPEST LEVEL OF INVOLVEMENT WITH ANOTHER
PERSON STILL CONSIDERED AN OUTSIDER (IBANG
TAO) - Characteristic tendencies of this trait are
giving in to another persons wish, demands,
wants or desires. The motive for this could be
politeness or expectation of future concessions
or immediate rewards
66Levels of Filipino Social Interaction
- AMONG INSIDERS
- PAKIKIPAGPALAGAYANG-LOOB (rapport)
- PAKIKISANGKOT (involvement)
- PAKIKIISA (oneness, unity with)
67KAPWA THE OTHER PERSON IS ALSO YOURSELF
- The Filipino tends to do business with friends
and relatives, or those with whom he has the
closest personal ties. - He prefers a trust-based, long-term and deep
relationship rather than one based on short-term,
material gains. - An impersonal, formal, legal, purely business
transaction devoid of emotional depth - is
alien to the Filipino and may only bring out the
worst in him.
68SCOLD IN PRIVATE PRAISE IN PUBLIC
- NEVER SCOLD IN PUBLIC. It is tantamount to
banishment from group membership, and thus
entails a serious loss of a sense of being - Filipinos are very sensitive to the qualities of
worth, equality and connectedness - One who is abused or treated badly arouses
sympathy
69LAWS ARE MERE SUGGESTIONS IF
- Anything purely legal, bureaucratic, formal and
impersonal is shallow, manipulative and selfish.
It has no real binding force and resorted to when
the relationship is only for shortterm material
gains and not based on trust. - Anything based on a sincere, deeply-felt, sacred
covenant works best in the long term and brings
out the best in the Filipino. The other person
and yourself become one.
70LAYING THE GROUND RULES TOGETHER
- Rules are more effective if based upon mutually
agreed principles - These principles can easily be appreciated and
understood if derived from core or surface
Filipino values - The form of expression or pattern of
communicating these principles must likewise
conform to these values - It is best to achieve consensus in all levels of
the organizational hierarchy
71SOCIETAL VALUES ASSOCIATED WITH FILIPINO
PERSONHOOD
- KALAYAAN (Freedom)
- KATARUNGAN (Justice, Equality)
- KARANGALAN (Honor, Dignity)
72FILIPINOS ACHIEVE MATURITY THROUGH SOCIAL
INTEGRATION
- ARE EXCEEDINGLY ACTIVE AND CREATIVE IN
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS, SOCIAL INTERACTIONS AND
SOCIAL PROBING ALWAYS SEEKING AND EXPLORING
NEWER, DEEPER AND RICHER WAYS OF HARMONIZING AND
CONNECTING WITH OTHERS - Filipinos are masters of interpersonal
- skills
- Filipinos are adept in pakiramdam and
- non-verbal communication
73- ARE A HIGHLY NURTURING, CARING, SHARING PEOPLE,
WITH A STRONG MATERNAL ORIENTATION - Filipinos, because of their genius in
interpersonal communication and a nurturing,
caring attitude, excel in the service professions
or industry - ARE DEEPLY DEVOTIONAL AND SPIRITUAL YET WITH A
VIGOROUS ZEST FOR LIVING OR JOIE DE VIVRE
74Filipino Religiosity
- Filipinos, followed by Indians and Brazilians,
score highest in emphasis on religion and
religious beliefs (1979 Gallup Survey). 1991 and
1995-96 surveys confirm Filipino religiosity as
highest in the world. - Large scale Filipino social movements were always
God-inspired Katipunan, EDSA Revolution,
Compassion for Flor Contemplacion, etc.
75Organize Around Sacred or Noble principles
- Transcend ego, cultivate passion for excellence
- Leader must be an example of selfless-ness,
nurturing and caring but firm and strong - Filipinos appreciate leadership by example
- A superior who can do the work he demands of his
subordinate is highly respected and more
effective.
76Leaders That Filipinos Follow
- Top Five Clusters
- Makatao, mapagkalinga, may magandang kalooban
(nurturant qualities) - Matapat, matuwid, maka-Diyos, may moralidad
(upright, God-centered) - Malakas ang loob (courageous, with political
will) - Makatarungan, demokratiko, pantay-pantay ang
tingin sa lahat (fair, just) - Magaling, marunong (intelligent, capable)
77FILIPINOS ARE ONE WITH THE MULTIDIMENSIONAL
WHOLENESS OF LIFE
- FILIPINOS DO NOT LIKE A PARTIAL, FRAGMENTED VIEW
OF LIFE AND RESPOND TO LIFE SYNERGISTICALLY
(COOPERATIVE ACTION OF ALL THE FACULTIES,
AGENCIES, OR LEVELS OF BEING) - WE DO NOT LIKE TO BELONG TO ONLY ONE SIDE OF A
RELATIONSHIP. OUR KINSHIP SYSTEM IS BILATERAL.
HAVING TWO KIDS IS ENOUGH AS LONG AS THEY ARE A
BOY AND A GIRL.
78- A FILIPINO IS NOT HAPPY JUST KNOWING ANOTHER
PERSONS NAME. HE WOULD ALSO INQUIRE ABOUT HIS
WORK, HOMETOWN, RELATIVES, MARITAL STATUS, EVEN
HIS SALARY. - FILIPINOS HAVE GREATER ENERGY FOR WORK OR
ACTIVITY THAT INVOLVES ALL THE LEVELS OF BEING - (BODY, ALL THE SENSES, FEELINGS, INTELLECT,
SPIRIT) - A FILIPINO RELATES TO OTHERS NOT ONLY
FUNCTIONALLY(BASED ON THE TASK ON HAND) BUT
WHOLISTICALLY. - OPENING ONE WINDOW OPENS ALL.
79BIPOLARITY The Unity of Opposites
- An intuitive logic vastly superior to the
either/or of mechanistic cultures is Filipino
bipolarity. - In bipolaristic logic, it is axiomatic that if a
thing is true or valid, then its opposite must
also be true or valid.
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82A PERSON AND HIS ACTIONS ARE ONE, NOT SEPARATE
- To criticize a persons work is also to criticize
the person himself, so how does one urge him to
improve his work and raise standards without
hurting him? - The solution is to use a bipolar approach
Praise-Criticize or Better, PRAISE-CRITICIZE-PRAIS
E - (KISS-KICK-KISS)
83BRIDGING DIFFERENCES Curves not Angles
- The Filipino prefers mediation to confrontation.
Pahiwatig, pakiusap, pakikibagay, biro are only a
few of the orchestral wealth of techniques for
bridging differences.
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85Vitalistic, Life Energy-Seeking
- Filipinos love
- biomorphic, non-architectonic
shapesinformal, asymmetrical balance - rich tactile valueskinaesthetic interaction
86KINESTHETIC INTERACTIVENESSConnecting Through
Touch
- Filipinos love to feel, literally touching their
way through life. Rich textural qualities,
biomorphic shapes, tasty foods, lush sounds and
social clustering make life exceedingly warm and
intimate.
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88A hundred words for touch
- DAMA, HIPO, KAPA, KAPKAP, HIMAS, LAMAS, HAPLOS,
HAGOD, SALAT, HAWAK, KAPIT, DIIT, LAPAT, SUNGGAB,
SAMBILAT(clutch, grab, snatch violently), AKAP,
SAGI, ANTIG, LAMUKOS, LAMYOS, KUYUMOS, KUSKOS,
KALABIT, KAMOT, KALMOT, DAITI, KANTI, TAPIK,
TIPA, KUTOS, SANGGI, KADYOT, SABUNOT, SAMPAL,
BUNTAL, PALO, SUNTOK, SUNGGO (bump against
lightly), SIPA, SIKO
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- SIIL (violent pushing or shoving with the
elbow), SALAGOY (touch lightly), LUKOT, SIKLOT,
KALIKOT, LAPIROT, BALUTBOT, DUTDOT, SUNDOT,
KUTKOT, KUROT, PINGGER, KALKAL, KALIKAW,
BUTINGTING, BULATLAT, DIKIT, KISKIS, KIMIS,
KILITI, SINTAK, SUONG, AKAY, AKBAY - DALA, KARGA, BUHAT, BITBIT, SAPO, SALO, KIMKIM,
KIPKIP, SUKBIT, BABA, PASAN, SUNONG, KANDONG,
KALONG, PANGKO, SAKBIBI, etc.
90KINESTHETIC INTERACTIVENESSThe Magical, Healing
Touch
- Traditional rituals are a way of connecting to
the divine. Through touch people get healed. A
magical transference of vital energy occurs in
many levels, physical and metaphysical.
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92Hug If You Want To Live
- Hugging is a key to happiness Leo Buscaglia
- Hugs make you feel psychologically more secure
and together - Touching releases endorphins (the happy
hormones), which kill pain and increase immunity
to disease - Positive feelings strengthen the bloods immune
system
93PAKIKIRAMDAM AND LAMBING Soft, Flowing
Movements
- Pakikiramdam, knowing through feeling or
participatory sensitivity makes the Filipino
especially compassionate, affective, malambing,
gentle, and kind.
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95Sharing of Moods and Feelings
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- Pakikiramdam is the ability to participate in the
inner life process or monitor the flow of
feelings in others, especially if deeper feelings
are involved. - This is the source of the much vaunted Filipino
affinity with the underdog, melodrama, and
sentimental and compassionate nature.
96- Pakikiramdam is more than sympathy or empathy it
is dynamic, profound and immeasurable. - For ex, whereas in the U.S., funeral
parlors have fixed opening and closing hours, in
the Philippines they are open 24 hours. It is
simply unthinkable for Filipinos to subject lamay
to fixed, limited schedules just because of
commercial considerations. - When Filipinos bury their dead, it is not
only close relatives who attend the ritual but
even distant relatives, friends of relatives,
relatives of friends, all those who have become
neighbors of the deceased, peers, officemates,
classmates and friends.
97FILIPINOS ARE HIGHLY PARTICIPATORY
- DEMAND COLLECTIVE, EQUAL PARTICIPATION IN THE
CREATIVE PROCESS, DECISION-MAKING AND
SELF-DETERMINATION - Participation in the creative process is
primary
Everybody must have an active role, no
matter how small (salimpusa)
98- Decision-making is a collective activity. No one
must have a monopoly of the decision-making
process - In Filipino society, everybody is a
participant/performer. - Nobody is a mere spectator. There is no
separation of performer/creator and
audience/spectator. - Filipinos prefer consensus as a mode of reaching
decisions or settling conflicts.
99The Participatory Filipino Pantay-pantay, walang
lamangan
- Pagbibigayan, sharing, interdependence
equitable distribution of resources - micro interweaving of colors, visual elements
- interlocking/ interconnected wide spaces
(non-compartmentalized) - salitan, interlocking rhythms in music
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103Verbs expressing mutual, reciprocal action and
equal possession of similar qualities
- magsi- magsilabas, magsigising,
- magsitayo
- magsipag- magsipaghanda,
- magsipagkalat
- magka- magkaisa, magkasundo
- magka- magkasama, magkapatid,
- magkatulad, magkakulay
- magkasing- magkasingganda,
- magkasimpangit
104- ka - karamay, katuwang, katulong,
- katabi, kaklase, kalahi, kauri,
- kalaro, kasapi
- kasing - kasintigas, kasinlapit,
- kasintanda, kasindali,
- kasing-asim, kasinggaling
- mag-an- magsagutan, magsabunutan,
- magtakbuhan,magtawanan
- magka-an magkalinawan, magkainisan,
- magkarinigan,
magkasintahan - magsing- magsing-irog
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105- maki- makisangkot, makialam,
- makiisa,makibahagi, makibaka,
- makisama, makigawa,
- makibili, makihalo, makitulog
- makipag- makipag-away, makipag-
- kamay, makipag-usap
- makipag - an makipag-agawan,
- makipagsagutan
- makipagka - an makipagkaibigan,
- makipagkasunduan
106- ka - an kasunduan, kaibigan,
- kasintahan
- pakiki- pakikiramay, pakikiramdam,
- pakikiisa, pakikiapid
- pakikipag- pakikipagtalo, pakikipag-
- sayaw, pakikipag-usap
- pakikipag - an pakikipagtulungan,
- pakikipagtawanan, pakikipag-ugnayan,
- pakikipag-unawaan, pakikipagsulatan,
pakikipagsapalaran
107- pakikipagka - an pakikipagkasunduan,
- pakikipagkaibigan
- paki- pakialam, pakisuyo, pakibasa
- paki an pakibagayan, pakisamahan,
- pakilapitan, pakibihisan
- ta- kain ta
108PROVIDING CHOICESDevelopment as the
Proliferation of Options
- The deepest social aspirations of the Filipino
are freedom, justice, and dignity. Monopoly,
dictatorship and the curtailment of choices are
anathema. Decision-making is participatory.
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110ARROGANCE IS A NO-NO
- The Filipino concept of kapwa (shared
identity/goodness) and non-duality of life make
people absolutely equal in principle and nobody
has a right to regard himself as above or more
important than others - Humility is highly-prized, at least outwardly
- The privilege of one must be the privilege of
all. Equal application of the law is a must
111PROVIDING CHOICESVariability of Form, Medium
and Technique
- A greater range of materials, forms, techniques,
ideas and possibilities for engaging in
productive or creative work allows for wider and
democratic social participation
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113FILIPINO DIGNITY IS THE CREATIVE HUMAN ESSENCE
- There is nothing more dehumanizing to a human
being than to feel he is merely being treated as
a machine The consequences for an organization
are a rapid turnover rate, absenteeism, safety
violations, high accident rate, high rates of
illness, and low productivity.
114FILIPINO DIGNITY IS THE CREATIVE HUMAN ESSENCE
- In the work place and in other relationships
which fail to recognize the individual as more
than a robot, we see negative behavior such as
lack of cooperation and absenteeism John W.
Burton
115CREATIVE IMPROVISATION
- Extemporaneous or on-the-spot creativity comes
very naturally to the Filipino who has the finest
artistic yet improvisatory traditions such as the
duplo, balagtasan, balitaw, tultul, kulintang,
kuntao and okir. Creative spontaneity is highly
valued.
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117ROUTINE KILLS CREATIVE SPONTANEITY
- Filipinos tend to fall into a stupor if work
becomes routine. The solution is job rotation,
multi-tasking, change of activity, breaks,
leisure and play or better, to make work
INTRINSICALLY REWARDING and - CULTIVATE A PASSION FOR
- EXCELLENCE so that every moment of the work
situation becomes A CREATIVE CHALLENGE.
118Personal Identity Within The Community
- Within a shared matrix of communal values, every
persons inherent uniqueness must be socially
recognized. His/ her personal identity must find
creative expression in a particular social role.
119FILIPINO CULTURAL GENIUS
- HIGHLY RELATIONAL
- Most active in the exploration of meaning in
relationships as seen in our prolific affixation
system, one of the richest in the world -
- Promotion of togetherness through activities,
practices, and creations characterized by
multiple functions, values and qualities -
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120- A highly caring, nurturing orientation
- Strong family values
- Genius in interpersonal skills
- Excellence in service industries
- Highest in religiosity
- Superior in mental health
- The phenomenon of EDSA and other manifestations
of our genius in designing social institutions
121HIGHLY PARTICIPATORY, CONSENSUS-BUILDERS
- Preference for human scale in social
organization, including size of political
constituency (governance with a face) - Giving everybody an active role. Decision-making
is a collective activity - There is no separation of participant/performer/c
reator and observer/audience/spectator - The individual is recognized within a shared
social matrix
122THE ASSUMPTION THAT ALL OF HUMANITY ARE ROOTED IN
A COMMON CORE OF BEING(UBOD), A CREATIVE, LIVING
AND DIVINE GOODNESS
- A contagious joie de vivre and optimistic
attitude, a great capacity for happiness - A highly adaptable, versatile, flexible, creative
and expressive people - Amazing babaylans, psychic healers and
practitioners - Passion for freedom, justice and dignity
123THE NOTION OF LIFE AS AN INTEGRATED WHOLE
- The principle of absolute equality of man and
woman - Non-sexist languages
- Strong educational, knowledge orientation
124Happiest People
- Filipinos are happiest in Southeast Asia, 43,
Malay, 42, Thai, 39 (SRG Happiness Index, 9,000
surveyed in 1987) - Young Filipinos are the happiest in Asia, 78,
Thai, 77, Malay 76, Indian, 73Taiwanese, 7,
Hongkong youths are the saddest, 5. - (Channel V Network Survey,Nov. 2000)
- Filipinos are the happiest in East Asia (2003
survey)
125Happiness Protects Against Colds
- People who are energetic, happy and relaxed are
less likely to catch colds, research has found. - Conversely, those who are depressed, nervous or
angry are more likely to complain about cold
symptoms whether or not they get bitten by the
cold bug. - A team from Carnegie Mellon University,
Pittsburgh found that people who had a positive
emotional attitude were not infected as often as
people with a negative emotional style BBC News
July 26, 2003
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127WAKAS