How to Confront a Cheater

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How to Confront a Cheater

• And Get the Truth Out of Him

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• ll start with a warning Do NOT confront a
  cheater without a good plan. If you dont follow
  some critical rules, most chances he will either
  angrily run out of the house (allowing him to get
  his story straight), or stay and turn the focus
  to you (by attacking you for snooping on him, or
  blaming you for your problems etc). This guide
  will show you the right way to confront cheating
  and getting the truth out of him Today.

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Rule 1 Prepare Yourself for Complete Denial

• Before you learn how to confront a cheater,
  prepare yourself to this The majority of
  cheating spouses will deny-deny-deny infidelity
  until they are blue in the face. Some cheaters
  will deny an affair even if you present them with
  hard evidence.
• WHY?
• He will deny because even if you thought he was
  your best friend, the one person that would never
  lie to you this way, the fact is that you will
  probably catch him unprepared.

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• have his story straight yet, he hasnt decided
  whether he wants to admit cheating, how to tell
  you about it, how much to reveal and in case of a
  long term affair Admitting usually means he
  will have to end the affair, which is also
  something he may have not decided about yet.

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 Rule 2 Do Not Confront a Cheater before You
have Evidence

• I cant stress this enough. If you dont have
  physical evidence, such as nude pictures, emails
  describing his passion and love for her, a
  receipt for jewelry or a motel Do NOT confront
  him.

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• If you dont have proof you will only give him a
  warning to be more careful from now on and he
  will start to hide the affair much better, which
  means you may never find proof. Second, if you
  dont have proof -  You might be wrong. He could
  be faithful to you, and if you wrongly accuse him
  you could destroy your relationship.
• (If you have trouble finding proof This Report
  will teach you how to easily do it Right now).

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 Rule 3 Keep Calm and Collected

• I know it is the HARDEST thing to do in this
  situation. You are upset, hurt beyond belief,
  your whole life is crumbling under your feet
  But you have to confront him when you are calm
  and collected. Focus on the facts and dont let
  your emotions control you. If you attack him and
  scream at him he will probably use it to storm
  out of the house saying he cant talk to you and
  use this time to get his story straight.

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• Be prepared with your proof and dont let him
  turn the focus to your snooping. You can say,
  Yes, I admit it was wrong to snoop on you, but
  the FACT is that I had a good reason to do that
  Heres the evidence.

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 Rule 4 Dont Let Him Turn the Tables on You

• He will probably try to blame the whole thing on
  you. Its much easier than providing an
  explanation to his behavior. He will
  instinctively call you crazy, stupid, insecure,
  childish and a psycho. Dont let him do that. You
  can say O.k., I am stupid and childish. Who is
  she and how long have you been cheating on me?

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• Demand an explanation. He may also try to get you
  to admit that he had a good reason for cheating.
  He may ask you Why would I look for sex outside
  my relationship? and get you to think of an
  excuse for him (clever, right?) or to make you
  believe that he has no reason to cheat. Make him
  answer his own questions by saying nothing. Just
  look in his eyes as long as it takes and wait for
  him to answer it by himself.

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 Rule 5 If He Still Wont Admit Try This
Jedi Mind Trick

• If he insists on denying, and your proof has
  holes in it, try to take some of the blame on
  yourself. You dont have to mean it its just a
  tactic to get him to confess. Bring up the
  possibility that you may not have been giving him
  what he needs Sexually, emotionally or
  otherwise. If he is close to confessing, it will
  make it much easier for him to tell you the
  truth. He will not feel like the only one to
  blame in this overwhelming crisis in your
  relationship.

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 Rule 6 The Most Important Rule of All

• Do not assume that an affair will end your
  relationship. You may find it hard to see right
  now, but an affair is just a symptom of a
  diseased relationship. You can go with the
  Once a cheater always a cheater BS, or you can
  stop, think about it a little and consider giving
  your relationship one more chance.

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• But I have to warn you Do NOT attempt to do it
  alone. You need professional help. Start right
  now with this excellent Free Report to discover
  the first steps in surviving an affair.

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• Remember even if he cheated, it doesnt mean he
  has no love for you anymore. (There is a simple
  tactic to discover if he still loves you In
  This Article).  Something went terribly wrong
  along the way, but if you both commit to the
  healing process, you have a chance of winning a
  better relationship than ever.