ANGER MANAGEMENT - PowerPoint PPT Presentation

1 / 39
About This Presentation
Title:

ANGER MANAGEMENT

Description:

I choose to feel good about myself through expressing my feelings. ... Feeling outraged. 20. ANGER MANAGEMENT. I ... I feel good about learning about myself. ... – PowerPoint PPT presentation

Number of Views:4243
Avg rating:5.0/5.0
Slides: 40
Provided by: xyz18
Category:

less

Transcript and Presenter's Notes

Title: ANGER MANAGEMENT


1
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Hilary Rife
  • Roger Kapes
  • EDUC 631 Fall 2004

2
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • DEFINITION
  • STATISTICS
  • TEACHER (PowerPoint)
  • STUDENT (PowerPoint)
  • VIDEO for Students
  • SUPPORT AVAILABLE
  • RESOURCES

3
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • STATISTICS
  • 5.5 of the Nations Elementary Teachers were
    attacked by students!
    (U.S. Dept of Education 1999-2000 school year)
  • 10 of the Nations Elementary Expulsions were
    for bringing firearms to school
    (U.S. Dept of
    Education 1998-1999 School Year)
  • Source http//www.nccev.org/violence/statistics/s
    tatistics-schools.html

4
ANGER MANAGEMENT
Anger management does not involve getting rid of
all anger, but using anger to enhance your life.
We can look at the purposes of anger in both a
positive and negative light. http//www.anger-man
agement.net/question_show.cfm?selected85
5
ANGER MANAGEMENT
The positive aspects of anger are that you have
increased energy, are able to communicate your
feelings, able to problem solve and can take
charge of the situation. http//www.anger-managem
ent.net/question_show.cfm?selected85
6
ANGER MANAGEMENT
The negative aspects of anger are that you can
have disruption of your thinking, unnecessarily
defend yourself, become aggressive and become
known as an angry person. http//www.anger-manage
ment.net/question_show.cfm?selected85
7
ANGER MANAGEMENT
Anger management would be seen then as increasing
the positive aspects or functions of anger and
decreasing the negative functions of anger.
http//www.anger-management.net/question_show.cfm
?selected85
8
ANGER MANAGEMENT
So now,,, you have a student that is displaying a
lot of ANGER! Now What do you do?
9
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Skills needed in dealing with your anger
  • Identify a range of feelings including anger
  • Identify aggressive acts by self and others
  • Identify the potential consequences to self and
    others from these aggressive acts
  • Identify self-destructive behavior
  • Identify thoughts prior to aggressive acts
  • Identify internal cues to feelings of anger
  • Develop coping mechanisms for dealing with anger
  • Express anger without loss of control

10
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Identify a range of feelings including anger
  • Embarrassment
  • Excitement
  • Disappointment
  • Jealousy
  • Fear
  • Helpless
  • Sadness
  • Left-out

11
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • I am in charge of my own feelings
  • I own my feelings.
  • It is okay to feel angry.
  • Anger is part of being human.
  • I learn how to express my anger in helpful ways.

12
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Identify aggressive acts shown by self and others
  • Throw something
  • Kick someone or something
  • Get in someones face
  • Shoving, grabbing, hitting
  • Break something
  • Call someone names
  • Give someone a dirty look
  • Silent treatment
  • Get others to gang up
  • Spread rumors

13
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • I choose to feel good about myself through
    expressing my feelings.
  • I express angry feelings in ways that are fair to
    others and me.
  • I use fair wordse.g.
  • I feel when you

14
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • The more I learn to take care of my anger the
    more powerful I become.
  • I need to control what I do with my anger.
  • I control how I let my anger out.
  • I practice cooling off.
  • I watch my thoughts.

15
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Know the difference between ANGER and AGGRESSION.
  • Anger is an emotion. It is ok to be angry.
  • Aggression is acting out inappropriately and is
    not ok. Learn to check your aggression and
    express your anger appropriately.

16
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Ways to Keep Cool
  • Get exercise every day.
  • Eat right.
  • Get enough sleep.
  • Learn to relax.
  • Know your feelings.
  • Write about those feelings.

17
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Ways to Keep Cool
  • Find a quiet place.
  • Take a time out.
  • Find fun distractions.
  • Make good decisions about what you see and hear.
  • Choose friends who make you feel good.
  • Learn to forgive and forget.

18
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Identify potential consequences of your anger to
    others and yourselfwhat can that mean for you?
  • Physical harm to someone or self
  • Destruction of property
  • Loss of family/friends
  • Loss of job
  • Loss of social privileges
  • Going to jail
  • Getting a bad reputation

19
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Identify self-destructive behaviorHow does that
    help or hurt you?
  • Negative self-talk
  • Blaming everyone else
  • Taking everything personally
  • Assuming
  • Overeating, drinking
  • Driving recklessly
  • Taking drugs
  • Looking for fights
  • Feeling outraged

20
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • I stop blaming others and myself.
  • Blaming only keeps people upset.
  • Blaming is a way of not respecting people.
  • I express my feelings and then try to work things
    out.

21
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Identify thoughts prior to aggressive acts
  • You did that on purpose
  • You wanted to hurt me
  • You deserve this
  • You never even asked me
  • Youre being unreasonable
  • You think youre so good
  • Ill show you
  • You started it
  • Theres no justice

22
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Identify internal cues to feelings of anger
  • Stomach gets tight/upset
  • Heart is beating faster
  • Clenching fists
  • Feel myself getting flushed
  • Pressure on my temples
  • Sweaty palms
  • Clenched jaw

23
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • I dont have to hold on to my anger.
  • I find ways to let it go
  • I talk about hurt and angry feelings.
  • I look for someone to discuss my anger.
  • I discuss my words and actions that hurt others.

24
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Steps to taming anger
  • Know what pushes your buttons.
  • Know your bodys anger signs.
  • Stop and think!
  • Cage your rageits your choice.
  • Decide what to do.

25
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • I take power.
  • I stand up for myself and others being hurt.
  • I learn to defeat negative self-talk.
  • I feel good about learning about myself.
  • I am strong when I use fair and firm words
    instead of fists.

26
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • I remember that people are precious.
  • I watch my thoughts, words, and actions.
  • I stop hurting people with my words and actions.
  • I take ownership of the hurtful things I do and
    say.
  • Bullying hurts everyone.

27
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Calm down
  • Name the problem
  • Find solutions
  • Pick the best solution
  • Congratulate yourself
  • Evaluate the solution
  • Make changes if necessary

28
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Can you identify any of the steps in resolving
    conflict, controlling your anger and avoiding
    aggressive behavior?
  • Well(then click)

29
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Calm down
  • Show mutual respect
  • Name the problem
  • Find solutions
  • Choose the best solution
  • Congratulate yourself
  • Review the solution that was picked

30
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • Now that YOU understand the mechanics of Anger
    Management,,, How Does this relate to YOUR
    Students in Elementary School?

31
Anger Management
32
When you are ANGRY and UPSETremember1-2-3
TURTLE
33
1 Go inside your shell
  • THINK before you ACT
  • Take a Time Out

34
  • Time to RELAX
  • Calm yourself down

35
  • Think of a good solution

36
Good solutions other kids have used
  • Tell a teacher or an adult
  • Talk it out
  • Ask for advice
  • Be honest about
  • your feelings

37
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • VIDEO
  • Student Workshop
  • HANDLING YOUR ANGER

38
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • SUPPORT
  • AVAILABLE

39
ANGER MANAGEMENT
  • RESOURCES
Write a Comment
User Comments (0)
About PowerShow.com