Family System

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LECTURE-8
Family System
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Course Flow

• Wisdom System
• Belief System
• Educational System
• Spiritual System
• Morality System
• Human Rights System
• Dealing system
• Family System
• Social System
• Economic System
• Political System
• Revival Growth System

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Are we free by nature?
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Outcome of Socialist Experience
Founding Principle Enforced Equality
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Actions taken

• Atheism became official "religion".
• Family system termed as evil of Capitalism.
• Marriages founded on religion declared void.
• Children will be state property (1927).
• Women declared state property
• Husbands' rights frozen.
• Children encouraged to spy against parents.
• Cohabitation was allowed.
• Out of wedlock children's status made equal to
  legitimate children.
• Abortion centers created in abundance.

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Outcome of Socialist experiments

• Results (within 10 years)
• Children stated to flocking in the streets like
  stray dogs.
• Children crimes sky rocketed (assault, theft,
  robbery, killing) (7million).
• Abortion increased to 3/4th (1934).
• Divorce rate increased (100 marriages vs 138
  divorces)

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Action Back to Nature

• Lenin realized "Destruction of family is
  destruction of society and nation"
• Cohabitation treated as criminal offence.
• Children's upbringing entrusted to parents
  (1935).
• Abortion made a criminal office (killing).
• Marriage treated a social value
• Penalties imposed on divorce.
• Tax imposed on unmarried men and women
• Creation of maternity home.
• Allowances given for children rearing.

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Outcome of Capitalist Experience

• Founding principles
• Separation of Religion State functions
• Concept of free will and Individual Liberty

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Abortion
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Women Who Have More Non-Marital Sexual Partners
Are Less Likely to be Happy
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Women living under Cohabiting relationship are
subjected to much higher Domestic Violence than
those under marriage
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Mental health problems dramatically increase
outside of marriage
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Developmental Problems regarding children are
Less Common In Two-Parent Families
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Single men more likely to indulge in high risk
behavior
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Interview with Jenna Jameson a biggest female
star in the history of adult movies
Question And if your daughter one day said to
you, if you had a daughter, if she came to you
and said that she wanted to get into that
industry? Answer I'd tie her in the closet.
Only because this is such a hard industry for a
woman to get ahead and get the respect that she
deserves. I fought tooth and nail to get to where
I am, and it's not something that I would want my
daughter to go through. It's not something that
any parent would choose for their
child. Question So you would advise young women
not to get involved in the industry? Answer Not
unless they had their head on completely straight
and they knew that this is what they wanted to
do. For my child, hey, I want them to go to
college and be a doctor.
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jameson/
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Outcome of Sexual Revolution
Suffering in life
Suffering in after life
Children
Women
Men
Adults
Inter-generational
Civil Society State
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THE DESTRUCTION

• More than 50 divorce rate
• More than 3m abortions annually
• A woman raped every 3 minutes
• 2 out of every 3 women suffer rape
• In 1990, 1.2m out-of-wedlock births out of 4m
  total
• In 2000, 400,000 non-marital births in teens
• 84 children living in single parent homes
• 63 of youth suicides from fatherless homes
• 85 criminals of youths grew up in fatherless
  homes
• 3m teens every year acquiring sexually
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Islam - The natural Way
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has designed human beings by nature no change
can be made in the nature of Allah's creation
(Rome 30)
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PRINCIPLES OF FAMILY INTEGRATION
1. Lid on adultery / Emphasis on Nikah
2. One up position of husband
3. Significance of love b/w spouses
4. Conflict resolution
5. Rights of parents other relatives
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LID ON ADULTERY
Allah (Taqwa)
LONG TERM
State (flogging)
Society (Hijab)
Family (Satar)
TIME HORIZON
SHORT TERM
NEGATIVE IMPLICATIONS
NARROW
BROAD
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Objectives of Nikah
Survival of human race
Culmination of Deen
Peace Comfort
Establishment of Integrated Society
Safety from lewdness
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HUSBAND ADMINISTRATOR OF THE FAMILY
Men are the protectors and maintainers of women,
because Allâh has made one of them to excel the
other, and because they spend (to support them)
from their means.
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O mankind! Abide by your Lord, Who created you
from one individual, and from him He created his
mate and from the two of them, He raised a large
number of men and women. Abide by Allâh through
Whom you demand your mutual (rights), and (do not
cut the relations of) the wombs (kinship) .
Surely, Allâh is Ever an AllWatcher over you.
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Natural Love
b/w Husband Wife ... a sign of Allah (swt)
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MUTUAL RELATIONSHIP OF HUSBAND AND WIFE

• They have been termed as
• CLOTH
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• (Al-Baqarah 187)

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GUIDELINES FOR THE HUSBAND
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GUIDELINES FOR THE WIFE
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Conflict Resolution
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Conflict Resolution 3rd Side
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Rights of Parents
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Rights of Relatives

• Rights of Children
• For better responsible future generation
• Rights of Brother Sister
• For mutual fraternity strengthening of the
  family
• Rights of other relations
• Marriage with Mehram is declared as Haraam to
  give this relationship sanctity. Time and again
  rights of relatives have been emphasized

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Role of Parents in Child Development
Father (External)
Area
Mother (Internal)
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What should we give our children?

• Are we offering parent substitutes? Presents
  instead of presence?
• Are we offering things because we are reluctant
  to give time, or self or heart?
• When child becomes spoiled, it is because of what
  the child has been given or because of what the
  child has been denied?
• Children need our love, warm and affectionate
  relationship. Any child who has not been given
  love and attention is seldom happy, healthy or
  useful for the society.

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Womens Role

• Natural Focus (Internal)
• Chastity Protection
• Safeguard of house
• Create happy environment
• Focus on child rearing
• Providing comfort to husband
• Elderly care

• Current Focus (external)
• Job Business
• Media Addiction
• Fashion
• Show off
• Outward looking
• Servants for children/ house care

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Womens Role

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How important is Mothers role in Capital
Formation?

• 2/3rd of national wealth is actually created by
  "human capital," which are the skills, abilities,
  and creative entrepreneurship of people.
• Women economic contribution is 5 in the
  economy
• It is folly to create 5 wealth by destroying
  remaining 95

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Equation of Rights Duties
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Parents
Wife
Desired
Natural
Relatives
Children
Eternal Reality . Rights Duties Duties Right
Natural Gap (Test) Gap in only filled by Taqwa
(no state laws)
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Most important Responsibility
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?????????????? O believers! save yourselves
and your families from fire whose fuel is people
and stones (Tahreem 6)
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DISCUSSION POINT

• The aim of Satan is to break the family.
• What measure should be taken to defend this
  Satanic attack?