Title: Riverton Regional Welfare Training Meeting
1- Riverton Regional Welfare Training Meeting
- Personal Finance
- On Leading and Teaching Others
- April 23, 2009
- Bryan Sudweeks, Ph.D., CFA
- From the BYU Marriott School of Management
website - Personal Finance Another Perspective
- at http//personalfinance.byu.net
2Abstract
- We have a sincere desire to help others who
are having difficulties with personal finance.
As we work to serve and help them, we can serve
even better if we understand and live key
principles. This presentation will discuss what
we need to know as leaders, what we need to do to
teach our trainers, and how we can best use the
available tools to accomplish the goal to help
our members become more financially self-reliant.
Financial self-reliance isnt about moneyits
about faith.
3Objectives
- Objectives for this evening are
- A. Understand what we as leaders need to know
about personal finance - B. Understand what we as leaders need to do to
teach our trainers - Understand how we as leaders can best use the
available tools to accomplish these goals - Understand what wise stewards know
4A. Understand What We Need to Know as Leaders
About Personal Finance
- There are four key areas of personal finance that
are important for leaders to know - 1. Its about faith
- 2. Principles are critical
- 3. Money matters are spiritual matters, and
- 4. Finances are a shared responsibility
51. Its About Faith
- In most cases, financial problems are behavioral
problems, not money problems - We know what we should do live on a budget,
spend less than we earn, not go into debt, build
a reserve, etc. - But ignorance, carelessness, compulsiveness,
pride (and perhaps necessity) get in the way - For most, it is not a question of knowledge, but
of motivation - How do we motivate our members to make better
financial choices?
6Its About Faith (continued)
- Elder Boyd K. Packer gave us guidance when he
stated - True doctrine, understood, changes attitudes and
behavior. The study of the doctrines of the
gospel will improve behavior quicker than a study
of behavior will improve behavior. (Boyd K.
Packer, Little Children, Ensign, Nov. 1986,
16.) - Once we realize the doctrine that God has
commanded us to do these things, i.e., live
within our means, get out of debt, build a
reserve, and teach our children, etc., we then
see that financial problems are not problems of
money, but problems of faith
72. Principles are Critical
- C.S. Lewis, in his Screwtape Letters, had the
devil Screwtape say - The sense of ownership in general is always to be
encouraged. The humans are always putting up
claims to ownership which sound equally funny in
Heaven and in Hell and we must keep them doing
so. . . We teach this sense of ownership not only
by pride but by confusion. We teach them not to
notice the differences. . .that run from my
boot through my dog,. . .to my God.
(Screwtape Letters, HarperCollins, San Francisco,
2000, pp. 113-114) - Its not about ownership, its about principles
8Principles are Critical (continued)
- Four principles are critical to personal finance
- 1. Ownership Everything we have is the Lords
- The Psalmist wrote
- The earth is the Lords, and the fullness
thereof the world, and they that dwell therein.
(Psalms 241) - The Lord is the creator of the earth (Mosiah
221), the supplier of our breath (2 Nephi 926),
the giver of our knowledge (Moses 732) and our
life (Mosiah 222), and all we have and are
(Mosiah 221). - Nothing we have is our ownits all Gods
9Principles are Critical (continued)
- 2. Stewardship We are stewards over all that the
Lord has, is giving, or will share with us - The Lord through the Prophet Joseph Smith stated
- It is expedient that I, the Lord, should make
every man accountable, as a steward over earthly
blessings, which I have made and prepared for my
creatures. (DC 10413) - The Lord through the prophet Brigham Young said
- Thou shalt be diligent in preserving what thou
hast, that thou mayest be a wise steward for it
is the free gift of the Lord thy God, and thou
art his steward. (DC 13627)
10Principles are Critical (continued)
- 3. Agency The gift of choice is mans most
precious inheritance - President Marion G. Romney said
- Agency means the freedom and power to choose and
act. Next to life itself, it is mans most
precious inheritance. (Ensign, May 1976, p. 120.)
- President David O. McKay
- Next to the bestowal of life itself, the right
to direct that life is Gods greatest gift to
man. Freedom of choice is more to be treasured
than any possession earth can give. (italics
added, in Conference Report, Apr. 1950, p. 32)
11Principles are Critical (continued)
- 4. Accountability We are accountable for every
choice we make - The Lord through the prophet Joseph stated
- For it is required of the Lord, at the hand of
every steward, to render an account of his
stewardship, both in time and in eternity. (DC
723) - Elder Todd Christofferson recently stated
- We control the disposition of our means and
resources, but we account to God for this
stewardship over earthly things. (D. Todd
Christofferson, Come to Zion, Ensign, November
2008)
12Principles are Critical (continued)
- On what is really ours, Elder Neal A. Maxwell
stated - The submission of ones will is really the only
uniquely personal thing we have to place on Gods
altar. The many other things we give, brothers
and sisters, are actually the things He has
already given or loaned to us. However, when you
and I finally submit ourselves, by letting our
individual wills be swallowed up in Gods will,
then we are really giving something to Him! It is
the only possession which is truly ours to give!
(italics added, Swallowed Up in the Will of the
Father, Ensign, Nov. 1995, 22.)
133. Money Matters are Spiritual Matters
- Money matters are spiritual matters because
- 1. All things are spiritual
- 2. Money is a medium of exchange
- 3. Money is a tool
- 4. There is no true freedom without financial
freedom - 5. The Lord wants (and will help) us to be wiser
financial stewards
14Money Matters (continued)
- 1. All things are spiritual
- In DC 2934 the Lord says, All things unto me
are spiritual, and not at any time have I given
unto you a law which was temporal. - The Apostle Paul taught that the love of money is
evil, not money itself. (1 Timothy 610) - The commandments to live within our means, live
on a budget, get out of debt, build a reserve,
etc., are all not temporal but spiritual
commandments
15Money Matters (continued)
- 2. Money is a medium of exchange
- Elder Sterling W. Sill said
- We can build temples with money, we can send out
missionaries with money, we can erect educational
institutions, operate hospitals, and pay our
tithing with money. In many ways we can build
up the kingdom of God with money. (A Fortune to
Share, Ensign, Jan. 1974, 60.) - The same currency that we go into debt with
builds our temples
16Money Matters (continued)
- 3. Money is a tool
- Money is a tool to teach us many things,
including the gospel principles of sacrifice,
discipline, law of the harvest, giving, and work.
- Money teaches and reinforces both the spiritual
and physical creation, as we develop goals and
budgets and work toward them - Money teaches the Law of the Harvest, as we
invest for retirement and other worthy goals - Learning to manage money wisely can increase our
freedom, teach us eternal gospel principles, and
bring peace and happiness into our lives
17Money Matters (continued)
- 4. There is no true freedom without financial
freedom - President Ezra Taft Benson said
- The Lord desires his Saints to be free and
independent in the critical days ahead. But no
man is truly free who is in financial bondage.
(Prepare Ye, Ensign, Jan. 1974, p. 69). - We must work to get and stay out of debt to be
truly free. - Debt is an addictionanother one of Satans
tools to limit our freedom
18Money Matters (continued)
- 5. The Lord wants and will help us to be wiser
financial stewards - The Lord said
- Behold it is my will that you shall pay all your
debts. And it is my will that you shall humble
yourselves before me, and obtain this blessing by
your diligence and humility and the prayer of
faith. And inasmuch as you are diligent and
humble, and exercise the prayer of faith, behold,
I will soften the hearts of those to whom you are
in debt, until I shall send means unto you for
your deliverance. (italics added, DC 104 78-79) - But we must do it in His way
194. Finances are a Shared Responsibility
- Some think money matters are a priesthood
responsibility and not a womens responsibility - They think if women become knowledgeable about
financial matters, their spouses will be upset - If spouses make the moneydont they get to
decide where it goes? (isnt this unrighteous
dominion) - However, since women live longer than men, are
more conservative in their investments, and have
less saved for retirement (due to working in the
home), shouldnt they be equally (and perhaps
even more) responsible!
20A Shared Responsibility (continued)
- The Proclamation on the Family states
- By divine design, fathers are to preside over
their families in love and righteousness and are
responsible to provide the necessities of life
and protection for their families. Mothers are
primarily responsible for the nurture of their
children. In these sacred responsibilities,
fathers and mothers are obligated to help one
another as equal partners. (Proclamation on the
Family, 1995) - Spouses are to be equal partners in financial
matters just as they are equal partners in
spiritual matters
21A Shared Responsibility (continued)
- Control of money by one spouse as a source of
power, or failure by a partner to be a part of
financial management are both incorrect attitudes - Management of family finances should be mutual
between husband and wife in an attitude of
openness and trust. Control of the money by one
spouse as a source of power and authority causes
inequality in the marriage and is inappropriate.
Conversely, if a marriage partner voluntarily
removes himself or herself entirely from family
financial management, that is an abdication of
necessary responsibility. (Marvin J. Ashton,
Guide to Family Finance, Liahona, Apr. 2000, 42)
22A Shared Responsibility (continued)
- We as leaders cannot control how our members
spend their resources - However, we have a shared responsibility to help
- We can help teach faith and obedience
- We can help teach correct principles
- We can help teach these are spiritual matters
- We can help by living the principles that we
teach - We can help them come closer to our Savior and to
be wiser financial stewards
23B. What Do We Teach our Trainers?
- There are three things we must teach
- a. What are the resources available from the
Church? - b. What are the resources available from
Church-related organizations, such as the BYUs
Marriott School of Management Personal Finance
website? - c. What are the resources available from other
organizations?
24Teaching our Trainers (continued)
- a. Understand available Church resources
- Go to the church website at www.lds.org
- Click on Home and Family, Family Finances
- 1. Read and understand the pamphlets All is
Safely Gathered In Family Finances and One for
the Money - 2. View the online lesson Online Financial
Course Peace in Your Hearts - 3. Read the Family Finance Lesson Materials
- 4. Read the quotes and talks from Church Leaders
25Teaching our Trainers (continued)
- b. Understand Church-related resources
- One good resource is the BYU Marriott School
website at http//personalfinance.byu.edu - There are various courses, manuals, family home
evening lessons, and other tools and resources - Begin with the 8 Basic Lessons on Principles of
Financial Self-Reliance - Look through the other courses
- Feel free to read and download the manuals,
Family Home Evening lessons, PowerPoint
presentations, Learning Tools, and other
resources
26Teaching our Trainers (continued)
- Church-related resources include
- 1. Budgeting spreadsheets in multiple languages
(Teaching Tool 31 - currently available in
English, Spanish, Tagalog, and Chinese) - 2. Lesson Plans, Readings, Spreadsheets and
Family Home Evening Lessons for eight topics - 1. Understanding Wealth, 2. Setting Goals, 3.
Understanding and Eliminating Debt, 4. Planning
your Spending A One Year Plan, 5. Planning Your
Spending A One Month Plan, 6. Building a Reserve
and Avoiding Scams, 7. Learning to Give Tithes
and Offerings, and 8. Teaching your Children
Financial Responsibility
27Teaching our Trainers (continued)
- 3. Eight different free manuals for High School
students, College Students, Young Married
couples, Returned Missionaries, and the Complete
College Course which is used at BYU in the
undergraduate and graduate courses - 4. PowerPoint presentations which are used in the
current undergraduate and graduate classes at BYU - 5. Seminars to teach how to use the website
spreadsheets and tools. The next seminar is
April 29, 2009 at 7 p.m. in room 240 TNRB - In short, a wealth of information to help you in
your calling to help others with their personal
finance
28Teaching our Trainers (continued)
- C. Understand other resources
- There are a number of other sources of
information on personal finance that are useful.
A few include - U.S. Financial Literacy and Education
- http//www.mymoney.gov
- Federal Depositors Insurance Corporation (FDIC)
- http//www.fdic.gov/consumers/consumer/moneysmart/
index.html - Federal Reserve Board
- http//www.federalreserve.gov/consumers.htm
- The Jumptart Coalition for Financial Literacy
- http//www.jumpstart.org
29Understand How to Best Use the Available Tools
- 1. Teach by the Spirit
- These are not your members, but the Lords
children - He knows how to help them
- Seek His help and listen
- Realize the answers may be different from family
to family - Study, prepare, pray, and listen
- He will teach you, but in His way and in His time
- You must seek His help in teaching His children
30Use Available Tools (continued)
- 2. Live what you teach
- You cannot lift another unless you are standing
on a higher level. Sister Elaine S. Dalton
recently counseled - You cant lead unless you are out in front. . .
You cant ask others to do something if you
arent doing it. We have got to be leaders that
do the things we are asking everyone else to do.
(Leading Others by being out in front, LDS
Church News, April 18, 2009, p. 14.) - You must live what you teach to be effective
31Use Available Tools (continued)
- 3. Teach the doctrine
- Elder Boyd K. Packer stated
- True doctrine, understood, changes attitudes and
behavior. The study of the doctrines of the
gospel will improve behavior quicker than a study
of behavior will improve behavior. (Boyd K.
Packer, Little Children, Ensign, Nov. 1986,
16.) - What are the doctrines underscoring what you are
teaching? - We all know what we should do. Doctrines supply
the motivation to help us do what we need to do.
32Use Available Tools (continued)
- 4. Teach from the pamphlet All is Safely
Gathered In Family Finances. - These are the five basic areas that Church
Leaders feel each individual and family should
know and follow. They are - Pay Tithes and Offerings
- Avoid Debt
- Use a Budget
- Build a Reserve
- Teach Family Members
- This should be your starting points for teaching
33Use Available Tools (continued)
- 5. Teach to the individual
- Seek to understand where they are in regards to
their financial knowledge, and teach to their
level of learning. Use different tools to meet
different needs (http//personalfinance.byu.edu
is a good start for information) - 8 Basic Lessons (and advanced ones as well)
- Readings (from Church Leaders, Church lessons,
and others) - Budgets (written, spreadsheets, etc.)
- Family Home Evening lessons
- Other personal finance materials
34Use Available Tools (continued)
- 6. Invite diligent learning and application
- President Harold B. Lee counseled
- All the principles and ordinances of the gospel
are in a sense but invitations to learning the
gospel by the practice of its teachings. No
person knows the principle of tithing until he
pays tithing. No one knows the principle of the
Word of Wisdom until he keeps the Word of Wisdom.
Children, or grownups for that matter, are not
converted to tithing, the Word of Wisdom, keeping
the Sabbath day holy, or prayer by hearing
someone talk about these principles. We learn the
gospel by living it. We never really know
anything of the teachings of the gospel until we
have experienced the blessings that come from
living each principle. (Stand Ye in Holy Places
1974, 215) - We dont know the principles of personal finance
until we live them
35Tools 1 Tools and Resources
36Tools 2 8 Basic Lessons (with lessons, readings,
spreadsheets, handouts, FHE lessons, etc.)
37Tools 3 Multi-language Spreadsheets
38Tools 4 Individual Lessons
39Tools 5 Courses of Study
40Tools 6 Personal Finance Manuals
41Tools 7 Seminars
42D. Understand What Wise Stewards Know
- 1. Wise stewards recognize their stewardship
- They understand the principles of
- Ownership everything they have is the Lords
- Stewardship they are stewards over all God has
blessed them with - Agency the ability to choose is a God-given gift
- Accountability they will be held accountable for
all their choices, including their financial
choices - They recognize that nothing they have is their
ownit is all Gods, and they act accordingly
43Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- 2. Wise stewards have their priorities in order
- They seek first the kingdom of God and his
righteousness - They know that that the best things in life are
free families, relationships, and the gospel of
Jesus Christ. - Their first goal in life is not wealth, power, or
gratification, but eternal life with their
families - They seek the true riches firstthe kingdom of
God and the gift of eternal life. Then they seek
the other riches, if they desire them, but it is
for the intent to do goodto help and bless their
families and others
44Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- 3. Wise stewards plan their future early and
live their plan - They prayerfully establish their goals, live
worthy of the Spirit, and with His help achieve
their goals - They prayerfully develop a budget, and follow it
closely. They live on less than they make - They avoid debt like the plague
- They build a reserve and save for their goals
- They seek Gods help in all aspects of their
lives, including planning and achieving goals,
developing and living on budgets, avoiding debt,
building a reserve, and saving for retirement and
education
45Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- 4. Wise stewards know it is what they become
- They know that money is a tool to teach
principles - They realize it is not what they earn, but what
they save, that helps them acquire wealth - But more importantly, they know that its not what
they save, but what they become, that makes
them more like their Savior Jesus Christ - They know that money is only a tool, but an
important one, in helping them to learn important
lessons in life and in helping them become more
like their Savior Jesus Christ
46Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- 5. Wise stewards know money cannot buy happiness
- They know money can eliminate a lot of financial
and other problems in life - They know that money can provide security for
them and their families - But they know it cannot buy them happiness.
They must find happiness on their own - They use money to reduce their financial
difficulties, to be secure in their families, and
to bless others. Then they find happiness in the
gospel of Jesus Christ, in their families, and in
serving others
47Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- 6. Wise stewards understand assets and
liabilities - Assets are things that have value. They are
either income-generating (investments, savings,
rentals, etc.) or income-consuming (cars, toys,
houses, etc.) - They know their choice of assets will largely
determine how they will live their lives - Liabilities are things they have borrowed for
- Except for an education and a home, liabilities
should be eliminated - They maximize income-generating assets, minimize
income-consuming assets, and eliminate
liabilities
48Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- 7. Wise stewards understand income
- Earned income is income they earn from their job
or vocation. It is a good type of income - Passive income is income they earn from their
investments, generally businesses or real estate.
They generally need to do work to earn this
income, but it is less. - Portfolio income is income they earn from their
investments. They do not need to do any work to
earn income from these investments. - They realize that the best income is not earned
income, but portfolio and passive income
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49Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- 8. Wise stewards know they are responsible
- You were given two great gifts your mind and
your time. It is up to you to do what you please
with both. With each dollar bill that enters
your hand, you and only you have the power to
determine your destiny. Spend it foolishly, you
choose to be poor. Spend it on liabilities, you
join the middle class. Invest it in your mind
and learn how to acquire assets and you will be
choosing wealth as your goal and your future.
The choice is yours and only yours. Every day
with every dollar, you decided to be rich, poor,
or middle class. (Robert Kiyosaki and Sharon
Lechter, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Time Warner Book
Group, USA, 1998, p. 197) - They choose to be wise
49
50Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- 9. Wise stewards know they make a life by what
they give - Life is not measured by what they have, but what
they give - They learn to give more
- For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain
the whole world, and lose his soul? (Mark 836) - They know there is more to life than money.
- They follow the example of the greatest giver of
all time, even their Savior Jesus Christ
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51Wise Financial Stewards Know (continued)
- 10. Wise stewards remember what God has done
- They remember how much they have been blessed by
God and strive to do what He wants them to do - They stay close to the Spirit and do all in their
power to have faith and be obedient to His
commandments - Therefore, dearly beloved brethren, let us
cheerfully do all things that lie in our power
and then may we stand still, with the utmost
assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for
his arm to be revealed. (DC 12317) - They do all then can and then have faith in the
Lord and His plan for them
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52Wise Stewards Know (continued)
- In conclusion, wise financial stewards remember
two thoughts which are representative of their
futures - The Lord through the prophet Joseph Smith gives
the truth of what is ahead when he said - For verily I say unto you, that great things
await you. (DC 4562) - And from Robert Browning comes the thoughtful and
comforting words - The best is yet to be (Rabbi Ben Ezra, in
Charles W. Eliot, ed., The Harvard Classics, 50
vols. 190910, 421103).
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53Review of Objectives
- Our objectives for this evening were
- Understand what leaders need to know about
personal finance - There are four key areas of personal finance that
are important for us all to know - 1. Its about faith
- 2. Principles are critical
- 3. Money matters are spiritual matters
- 4. Finances are a shared responsibility
54Review of Objectives (continued)
- Understand what we need to do to teach our
trainers - There are three areas we must understand
- a. Resources available from the Church
- b. Resources available from Church-related
organizations, such as the BYU Marriott School of
Management Personal Finance website - c. Resources available from other organizations
55Review of Objectives (continued)
- C. Understand how we can best use the available
tools to accomplish these goals - 1. Teach by the Spirit
- 2. Live what you teach
- 3. Teach the doctrine
- 4. Teach from the pamphlet All is Safely
Gathered In Family Finances. - 5. Teach to the individual (using available
tools and resources) - 6. Invite diligent learning and application
56Review of Objectives (continued)
- D. Understand what wise stewards know
- 1. They recognize their stewardship
- 2. They have their priorities in order
- 3. They plan their lives early then live their
plan - 4. They know it is what they become
- 5. Money cannot buy happiness
- 6. They understand assets and liabilities
- 7. They understand income
- 8. They are responsible
- 9. They make a life by what they give
- 10. They remember what God has done
57Review of Objectives (continued)
- Teach that the Lords way is not hard. Elder
Lawrence Corbridge commented - The Lords way is not hard. Life is hard, not the
gospel . . . Life is hard for all of us, but life
is also simple. We have only two choices. We can
either follow the Lord and be endowed with His
power and have peace, light, strength, knowledge,
confidence, love, and joy, or we can go some
other way, any other way, whatever other way, and
go it alonewithout His support, without His
power, without guidance, in darkness, turmoil,
doubt, grief, and despair. And I ask, which way
is easier? (Lawrence Corbridge, the Way,
Ensign, Nov 2008) - The question is not about moneyits about faith
58Thank You
- I leave you with my love, my excitement in these
principles, and my testimony of the gospel of
Jesus Christ - The materials discussed in this presentation are
freely available at the BYU Marriott School of
Management Personal Finance Website at - http//personalfinance.byu.edu