Title: Online Research Communities
1Basics of Negotiating
Based on the Harvard Negotiation Project
Principles See Getting to YES Fisher and Ury,
and Patton Houghton Mifflin
2A Four-Step Process
- Find out participants reasons or interests
- Invent options for mutual gain
- Choose objective criteria
- Reach agreement (or not)
3Preliminaries to Negotiating
- Choose participants, prepare
- Sit side by side or around a table
- Create an informal atmosphere
- Choose an experienced facilitator
- Declare there will be 4 separate steps and
clarify the ground rules
4Step 1. Find Out Reasons or Interests
- Begin by setting initial positions or demands
aside - Find out motivating reasons or interests
- Memorize helpful questions
- How will that benefit you?
- Why do you want to do this?
- Have you seen this work well in the past?
- Could you let me know more about how this will
fulfill your goals?
5Step 2. Invent Options for Mutual Gain
- Think outside the box
- Do not criticize or agree to anything
- Do NOT say
- We tried that and it didnt work.
- Youve got to be kidding!
- Lay out many options
6Step 3. Choose Objective Criteria
- This is a separate step (better than battle of
wills) - Frame each issue as a joint search for objective
criteria - Never yield to pressure
- Examples of criteria
- Degree to which all parties are benefited
- Fair allocation of costs
- Fair time frame
- Simplicity of solution
7Step 4. Reach Agreement
- Systematic review of options in light of chosen
criteria - No re-entering earlier phases
- Anticipate how future complaints or disagreements
will be handled - Keep in mind your BATNA (Best
Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement)
8What If They Dont Play Fair?
- Compare your BATNA with theirs to decide whether
to withdraw - Dont agree to unfair rules
- Play out the process for them and invite them to
participate - OK, I heard you say, Take it or leave it, but
before I do either one, Im going to go through
what I see as my reasons and yours in defining
this possible internship. Feel free to jump in
and correct me if Im wrong.
9Listen Actively
- Dont plan a response while the other person is
talking - Rephrase what you heard in your own words
- Discount biases
- Obtain verification of what youve heard
- Does that mean that _____?
- So, for instance, would you then do X?
10Lead through Excellence in Engineering
Communication
- More resources are available for you
- under Engineering Communication at Connexions
at http//cnx.org - at the Cain Project site at http//www.owlnet.rice
.edu/cainproj - in your course Communication Folder in OWLSPACE